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Greatpeter (m)
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Tali-Tali thank you for your mature reasoning here.
Why must you dump someone you claimed to love ?
Why taking delight in breaking other's heart?
Please desist from it I beg.
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madam (f)
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Just act dumb.... say nothing
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Trooper (m)
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The quickest way would be to change your cell phone number and leave the city / country to forget her / him.
The best way would be to tell him or her " You belong into somebody else's arms" Bye baby !
@ nddy. I told an ex girl friend once that she deserves something better than me. As of today I think it was a mistake because it made me feel bad and made her feel good. But it was her who was the bitch !
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Trooper (m)
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Another way to go out there fast but not nice would be to tell him or her " Go to hell " !
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Trooper (m)
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@ Latoya. Ignoring him or her is not the right way, it's childish. We are grown up people and should talk. We just have to express ourselves and tell the partner what's we have on our minds and fee in our hearts. The other day I read about serving somebody a glass of water with toilet water, actually I liked that idea !
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nddy (m)
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@trooper a reasonable girl would feel guilty
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Trooper (m)
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@ nddy, try to find a reasonable girl in Los Angeles  |
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nddy (m)
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LA, there reasonable girls but few
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Trooper (m)
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The current population of LA is about 22 Mio. Makes it hard to find the right one. I usually run into the WRONG one. But that's just me, always looking for the hottest one's. Guess that's the mistake I always make.
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icingbaby (f)
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just say this relationship is not working for me no more, I think we need to see other people, or tell one of your friends to do it for you, if you can do it your self.  |
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CHOCHORI (m)
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i think the best thing to do here is to tell us how u ended a relationship and nobody felt so bad after all. i writring out of practical experince.i still talk and discuss will all my ex girl friends.one is even married and with a baboy right now but we still talk as friends.once i find out that its not going to work out bw us,i will call u and let u kw about it,u will feel hurt but i will continue being nice to you and spend time with you and make my new girl see reasons.as they say that time is the greatest healer,with time we end up being good friends while i continue withy my new relationship.when i was in the university,two of my ex girl friends ended being best friends until we graduated and we were still good friends till morrow.we speak on phones and write mails.breaking up is not a do or die affairs,the secrect is that don't cheat in other to break up.
if u fancy another girl,instead of cheating on your girl friend,quit or let her kw. listen try it out,your girl friend might let you have a fling with another girl and still be hers if you guys can talk it over.i have seen it happen and these days couples can swing date innit? so please don't hurt or cheat in other to break up because kamar comes back around u kw. usher''caught up''
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Z4M4eva (f)
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What Is The Best Way To Dump Someone?Carry him/her and dump in the refuse bin! heheha, no actually I am kidding, I really don't know |
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goldenoc (f)
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Dumping! Dumping!! Dumping!!!
Are you dumping someone who wronged you? or you just wake up one morning and u feel that you friend is no more good for. l have to get the question before l contribute. Tell me whom you are dumping.
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Who else would anyone dump?If not their boyfriend/girlfriend  |
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GOLDFISH (m)
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hey why must you dump somebody you had nice time with?We must realize that in life new things must get old,events always loses their novelty.I'm an advocate of make it work!
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Goldfish  |
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chrisd (m)
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What Is the Best Way To Dump Someone? Or exacty, What Is the Cruelest Way To Dump Someone?
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immanuella (f)
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2 ways
If u don't want it to hurt:
Just tell the person u are doing him/her a favor and admit to be the one with "the problem".That way they can feel good about themselves.
If you want it to hurt:
Simply tell the person its over that u'd rather date your ex..lol
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kechy (f)
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"For many lovers parting is always a bitter sweet memory."
There's a great deal of truth in the above saying.
There can never be a good, better or best way of dumping someone. The word "dump" is even too crude for comfort. Dump is dump no matter how you do it.
I guess if one wants to end a relationship, the deciding factor of how to do it would be the particular circumstance surrounding the intention. In otherwords, it all depends on the reason why the person wants the relationship to end. You can either be subtle or harsh about it, it all depends on an individual characteristic.
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hadesanjo (m)
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put up funny attitudes that will make them realise you are useless to them. demand from the so demanding girl and stop the TLC all over.
telling them you are pissed could make them do things you won't expect. Nigerian girls of nowadays would go to any lenght to make you love them and also to settle scores.
they have their "BABA NGBEJOS". they could make you run from country to country and carry out sanitation practices on your own. u knw wetin i dey tlk.
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kechy (f)
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Thank God it's friday!
Have a great weekend everyone.
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kaylala (m)
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For Ladies ---- Don't pick his calls and make him constanly offline on your messenger
For Guys ----- Just tell her that you are no more interested in her,finish.
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kaylala (m)
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i don't know
because you have not been dumped or your don't have a relationship |
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Birdey
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right now, I am going through a similar situation...this guy asked me out in December and I told him I'd get back to him some time soon...because I wasen't sure...so it's now january, and I don't know how to confront him about How I don't want to go out with him...so earlier today he asks me if I've decided, and I said. YES.. WHY? How the hell am I suppose to know?  Now i don't know how to dump this guy, because I am having serious problems. And tearing up someones pillow with a knife, stalking them, and just moving to a difeferant country isn't possible at the moment. I hate it when I get myself into these situations...and I want to give iot to him lightly, and not hurt him (NOTE: I've known this guy for 4 years, and we are really good friends.) |
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aeriel (f)
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Omg! I am going through the same situation, only i am head over heels in love with a guy from my school and the guy im dating is from my hometown. we went to high school together, and hooked up last year, broke up over the summer, and then hooked back up in December, and i have no clue why i said yes either, because im in love with someone else! and its now january and all we do is fight, and i don't know what to say to him. i don't want to be with him, hes talking about marriage!!!  , thats scary! im 19, hes going to be 21! and hasnt done anything with his life, and i need more than that. and the one i truely love is so much better than the one im with. in every aspect of life. what do i do? |
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kaylala (m)
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aeriel and Birdey, you both welcomed to the forum and the land.
Different strokes for different folks 
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kechy (f)
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right now, I am going through a similar situation...this guy asked me out in December and I told him I'd get back to him some time soon...because I wasen't sure...so it's now january, and I don't know how to confront him about How I don't want to go out with him...so earlier today he asks me if I've decided, and I said. YES.. WHY? How the hell am I suppose to know? Now i don't know how to dump this guy, because I am having serious problems. And tearing up someones pillow with a knife, stalking them, and just moving to a difeferant country isn't possible at the moment. I hate it when I get myself into these situations...and I want to give iot to him lightly, and not hurt him (NOTE: I've known this guy for 4 years, and we are really good friends.) You haven't really started dating since he only asked you out last month. Just be open with him and tell him why you can't date him. The reason might be that you are already dating someone else. I'm sure he'd understand. |
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