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Sista (f)
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@ To allcheck this out, yall keep talking about how us Black Americans was not born and bred in Africa, So what! That don't mean a bag of bricks. I have several African brothers and sisters that live in America, infact I met up with one today. I told him about this discussion and who I talk with when I come in here. He immediately told me I was waisting my time and although I disagree with him on this, He did say to me that it is the poor uneducated Blacks in Africa that say the things you Black Africans in here been saying. When he said uneducated he meant the white mans education. When I told him about some of the positive African black men that came in here, he kept asking me to find out what tribe they were from and were they married because he swore that the men would be trying to be cool so that I might consider marrying them and bringing them back to America with me. When I told him that it was some open minded African sisters that came into the discussion from time to time, he stated that these days Black Africans are going both ways, he was basically saying that the women would also try to get me to marry them or to do some type of favor for them.  He was kidding about that, I think  but this is what he said and he is a African black man born and bred in Africa.
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davidylan (m)
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* yawns! wonders what he is still doing here *
I'm sure if i had made the same statement your "brother" made, i'd have been labeled a "worshiper of whites" or a hater of my black skin! It bothers on the ridiculous that african men here would be trying to be cool to get you to marry them. There are far better girls to pick, at this point even a white girl would be a better choice than the hate filled racists on this thread!
Pray! What did he mean by "poor undeducated blacks from africa"? Are the black americans here any better even with all the resources at their disposal? Why do i have to go to school each morning and be the only black face (all the way from Nigeria!) in an entire 4 level building? Where are all the "rich educated black americans"? I find them on the early morning methadone queues, in prison, the security gate, cleaners offices, as mugshots on TV e.t.c! So much for those trying to slag off the Black African who has to fight through the odds to get himself a decent existence!
If any one should be slagging off whites, it should be those of us who were opportuned to be born in the continent you claim was ruined by the white man.
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Sista (f)
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@davidylanYou said you were through with this thread one to many times and you keep coming back, what is that all about  ?
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Drusilla (f)
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Sista,
You can tell your friend that 925 is very sincere and not looking for a wife. He has worked all over the world and understands the world exactly as African Americans and your African Continental friend understands it.
I understand your Continental African friends sentiments.
One has to be very hard headed to be able to work in the midst of such insane white worship as displayed here by some, the thinking is so primitive and backwards, one gets the idea that we are back in the 1400's and the whiteman has just shown them their 'fire' trick.
In their mind, there is only One that is good and that is the whiteman.
Saying we should love blacks as you have done, is the same to them as saying: love the devil. This is why your very lovely opening post was attacked instantaneously.
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Drusilla (f)
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Davidlyn, So if you do not see rich blacks in your building, then they do not exist? Since JayZ (worth 360 million) and Puff Daddy (worth 340 million) and Nelly (worth 60 million) and Oprah (worth 1 billion) and the former owner of BET (worth 1 billion) and the owner of Tyson Chicken (worth millions) and even my local black insurance salesman (worth 1.5 million) do not visit your building they must not really exist. I guess since the second most powerful person in the world: Condileeza Rice and others like Jessie Jackson, Al sharpton, Randall Robinson, Waters, Clarence Thomas, etc, etc does not come visit you, then all the Black mayors across this nation and congressmen and members of the NAACP and other people in power must not exist either. I guess all the black educated women who make more money than white and hispanic educated women must not exist either since they do not come to your building. http://www.usatoday.com/news/bythenumbers/2005-03-28-income-education_x.htmPoof! The 74 percent of blacks who do not live in poverty in America, they just disappeared because of course they are not in Davidlyn's classroom. And the black garbagemen who make 37,000 dollars a year in for instance New York City. Why your just garbagemen and that makes you a nobody in Davidlyn's mind. And the New York teachers who complain that janitors make more than teachers in schools. Davidlyn says being a janitor is worthless, so you teachers should stop complaining about the janitors making more money than you. This is his very humble christian attitude towards those he does not understand nor ever see. Obviously the god that David worships, only loves the rich and well educated and would never send the gospel for the poor, as that carpenter Jesus Christ claimed. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that the god being worshipped in Davidlyn's mind, is not the God of the bible but his personal god -- white people.
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Sista (f)
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@ DrusillaYou can tell your friend that 925 is very sincere and not looking for a wife. He has worked all over the world and understands the world exactly as African Americans and your African Continental friend understands it.
Yes 925 was one of the few, I really liked him, I would marry him any day and bring back to America with me but he is more than likely already taken But, I think my friend was making a general statement based on the Education of African blacks. Don't get me wrong, what my African friend said was not very nice at all and I told him he was wrong. I was just trying to show the ones that keep coming in here talking about this born and bred crap that here is a man also, that was born and bred in Africa, here his is his point of view. That is all I was trying to show. Yes they are born and bred black Africans but they don't share the same point of view as all Black Africans.
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gigitte (f)
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na wah oh, sista from oakland, please can you explain what you meant by so what if you were not born and bred in africa. i was going to dish out some choice words but then i thought you might mean something different from what I'm thinking. so hurry back and clarify thks
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mamaput (f)
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Do you remember in the movie Amistad?
The lawyer was telling the African he might be able to get him back to Africa,remember that?
Remember the white lawyer said yes, maybe and might,
The African said "what do you mean maybe or might? What do you mean?
The lawyer thought he was crazy so he said "I may be able to get you back or I may not be able to get you back"
"The African said you either can get me back or you can't, it is either yes you can or no you can't. I don't understand"
Finally the African said "In Africa we don't have words that mean might or maybe, you either will or you won't, Now what is the answer? Yes you will get me and my people back to Africa or no you can't"
Finally the White lawyer said, "I will try my best, I will try my best to convince them"
I don't know why the African finally understood but something about that convince word made him understand.
See if you say you may be able to do something or you might not be able to that means you will give it some thought. Giving it some thought usually means if I don't have something else important to do and important can range from anything.
Might or maybe gives you an in and an out at the same time and that in Africa is usually a sign of dishonesty, That is why they didn't have a word for might or maybe, They probably do now though So a Film is now a relyable source of information. A film made by a white man. Alone the statement "In Africa we, " There is nothing like that . Please do you even know how big it is.Or how many languages.?
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Drusilla (f)
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gigette,
Sista can correct me if I am wrong.
But I think she was referring to those who think that by being born and bred in Africa they have a right to tell African Americans they are not Africans and/or by being born and bred in Africa some how makes Continental African thinking better than African American thinking.
She was saying that is illegitimate thinking and we are all Brothers and Sisters.
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Drusilla (f)
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Mamaput,
Sista is just using a film as an example of what you yourself have already affirmed earlier.
Remember when you mentioned the whiteman coming with the 'bible' to Africa?
Aren't you showing that they were able to use their "words" and interpretations of those words, in the bible, as a weapon against Africans?
The film confirms that well known idea that whites play word games to decieve and trick Africans and themselves.
When American airplanes drop bombs smashing people and towns in Iraq: We are committing a "surgical strike". The words "surgical strike" remind one of disease, that we are curing. We are the good guys, who are healing others with our "surgical strikes", when in reality we have just committed mass murder and terrible destructions.
Whites use words to decieve and lie to and about Africans and to decieve and lie to themselves.
Let's hope that no African is disputing such a simple and well evidenced idea, that I have never even heard a white person deny before.
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mamaput (f)
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Drusilla your friend sista is only going around insulting people. African saying goes. It is slowly slowly you do to catch big fish. Maybe this talk she can use it to convince "EX slaves" but with a bit of sociology knowage she should know that its not trhe same method she can use on everybody. Then we are not poor operssed "ex slaves" , Sitting in a Getto and thinking its massas fault we do not progress. Thinks fall apart shows a way of life before the white man came. It has nothing to do with who the writers father was, or if it was written 400 years after the coming of the white man. Like i said before many of these traditions and rituals still are not forgotten and not all are good.
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mamaput (f)
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Remember when you mentioned the whiteman coming with the 'bible' to Africa?
Aren't you showing that they were able to use their "words" and interpretations of those words, in the bible, as a weapon against Africans?
The film confirms that well known idea that whites play word games to decieve and trick Africans and themselves. I think the same about sista . In my minds eye i see her standing on a ship with a flag and a book. coming to """EDUCATE" us poor in darkness sitting Africans. I am very sure that for her my blood is contaminated by the whit mans blood. Lets stay with things fall apart i know you read the book, remember the part about the hero's father and how he "Consoled his deptors with words. The writer tells us the father was gifted with words. Did the hero not lie to Ikemefuna the day he was to kill him?? Lets not pretend that Afrika was a paradise were the lion and the rabbit sleep together. A place of no lies and no homos etc and etc. Its like saying we were like children We have heard that from the white man too
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Sista (f)
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@ gigettena wah oh, sista from oakland, please can you explain what you meant by so what if you were not born and bred in africa. i was going to dish out some choice words but then i thought you might mean something different from what I'm thinking. so hurry back and clarify thks Why couldn't you just refer to me as Sista, why did you have to say " Sista from Oakland"? no one has ever done that before. I wonder what that is all about? It seems like everytime I say something about Africa, something positive I might ad, a black African, born and bred, jumps up and tells me that "I am an African born and bred" that is to tell me I don't know nothing about Africa because I was not born their. Not only was I not born there but I was also not bred there. When black Africans say something like that, it is their subtle way of trying to tell me that because I am a black woman Born and bred in America, my knowledge of Africa is not accepted, nor is it valid. They are separating their self from me. White people go into Africa everyday calling Africans primitive people. They write these Anthropological books about African people using pictures of naked women and children to make their books look even more interesting. I don't see Africans telling them that their story about African people is wrong and white people are making money off their story's. Or wait, Africans in this discussion would probably separate their self from the people who still live in the bush, saying they are different from them because they still live in the bush, they don't have any knowledge of you, however you have knowledge of them though because you are a forward African huh? Let us not forget that at one time we all lived in the bush. Before you were living like you live now, you lived in the bush. Don't think that you are so forward. As a matter a fact, the black people still living in the bush are probably more sane in the head than any of us in this discussion. Any way, Born and Bred Africans in this discussion, seem to always throw things at me about black Americans and I might ad, negative things but I don not say things to them like I am a Born and bred Black woman of America. However what I do say is, you only know the lies about Black Americans that white people tell you. I forget who it was because it was so many but someone I even asked, what books have you read about black American history or what books have you read about American blacks at all, that person never responded like I knew he or she wouldn't. I am going to look back in this discussion and see exactly who that was. But, anyway that is what I was talking about with the born and bred issue.
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Sista (f)
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@ MamaputSo a Film is now a relyable source of information. A film made by a white man. Alone the statement "In Africa we, " There is nothing like that . Please do you even know how big it is.Or how many languages.? Report to moderator Logged
I just used the film as an example to show that the English language is filled with tricks, The example I gave had nothing to do with the many languages of Africa but if you want to link the languages in, it can be explained like this. In the Movie Amistad, there were many different Africans on that boat. Some of them could not understand the languages of each other but on board the ship, their were some Africans who spoke the language of a cousin which just so happen to be a common language of 10 other Africans on the ship so, the information was translated into that language. Then there were 50 other Africans on the boat that could not speak that language and they needed to be interpreted to as well. It just so happen that an African on the boat was in the middle stages of learning their language,he became the interpreter for them and so fourth until everyone could understand what the plan was to escape the ship. So, When he said "In Africa we" he was talking about all who was on that ship, they were all Africans, at that time they did not comprehend that they would soon be separated and divided. I believe that is what happen, I saw the movie so long ago. But again, people in Africa may speak many languages but the languages they all speak gave birth to each other. The languages all over Africa from lower Africa to upper Africa, from Eastern Africa to Western Africa. So, I am pretty sure the meanings of words share some commonality's. No middle words that give In's or outs, it is either yes or no. But, Africans after the European influence probably now do have a word that is not clear like might or maybe.
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gigitte (f)
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the reason i said sista from oakland is because firstly, a lot of people like to say my sista, my brother, i didnt want confusion two, because i work in oakland lol
any sista, i see problems both on your side and on the side of the bona fide africans you are talking about. first of all, you might dispute my opinion and you are free too, but everyone came from africa a long time ago, you don't see asians claiming to be african now do you? you of course are different because you are not that far removed from african ancestry, a hundred years maybe. The thing is in those intervening years, african americans developed a very distinct culture, culture that is different from any african one i know of. obviously there are glaring similarities but it is still distinct e.g i don't know any african that would like their wifey to be making mac anc cheese lol. in that sense, my dear sista you should be proud of your heritage as an african american, because without y'all america would not be what it is today. in fact i am sure you are proud of that heritage. i also commend for seeking out your past, being interested and trying to be involved as your presence on nairaland states. however, your execution leaves something to be desired. the fact is for many africans the fact that you were born and bred in yankee makes you an american (between, where your parents born and bred here, have u ever been to africa). where did you get your knowledge and opinions on africa from. let me give you the benefit of the doubt and say you've been to africa, or you've conversed extensively with people born and bred in africa or you've read books by born and bred africans. that is all second hand knowlege my dear, the fact still remains that first hand knowlege about any place comes from living there for an extended period of time. now of course your knowledge should not be discounted just cause you're american, but don't go and be posing your knowledge like the student knows more than the grandmaster that one just irritates people. plus it can also seem to them their culture is so lightweight and shallow that someone can just claim it from anywhere. your knowledge can only complement not supplant. you may become mainstream american in a year but not so for naija and that is the plain truth. furthermore you have provided your opinion, just as the people who say africans are primitive and backward and the anthropologists have provided theirs with their naked women. it is up to us to accept and/or act on your opinion or reject it.
on their part, they are wrong in being so quick to discount your knowledge and cause division where there isnt need as per bush/town africans when they are so quick to accept YT's crap. but a lot of people are like that due to years of colonial indoctrination, bad habits are hell to shake off.
finally, if i sound like all the other naijas on nairaland when i say being born and bred in america makes you very different, so be it. its just true. you are welcome to partake of our culture but don't say you were born to it because you werent
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gigitte (f)
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@ sista
err i don't think all african languages derive from one source, i don't think that all at. they are grouped into groups according to their main source. the reason why amistad was like that is probably because most slaves were taken from west africa which would have the same main groups of languages.
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davidylan (m)
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In the Movie Amistad, I saw the movie so long ago, But again, people in Africa may speak many languages but the languages they all speak gave birth to each other. The languages all over Africa from lower Africa to upper Africa, from Eastern Africa to Western Africa. So, I am pretty sure the meanings of words share some commonality's. No middle words that give In's or outs, it is either yes or no. But, Africans after the European influence probably now do have a word that is not clear like might or maybe.
Your posts first border on the ridiculous to the outlandish and then to annoying! I know i promised to quit this thread but i just could not let this go. Gigitte has said it better, YOU can't COME HERE SPOUTING NONSENSE ABOUT A CONTINENT YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN TO! Stop sitting in your high chair in Oakland telling me the language my maternal grandmother spoke and that of my paternal grandfather are one and the same!!!! IT IS NOT TRUE! please! Do you know how many languages are spoken in Nigeria alone? Do you know that Yoruba on its own that i speak fluently has more than 4 or 5 variants depending on where you are from? Do you know that Nigeria has at least more than 150 different languages? My mom speaks igbo and my dad speaks yoruba, NOT A SINGLE WORD IS THE SAME FOR BOTH LANGUAGES, THEY ARE AS FAR APART AS THE NORTH POLE IS TO THE SOUTH! Stop spouting untruths!!! Have you ever tried to learn Hausa? Is it comparable to Efik or Ibibio? In what way did European influence change our language? How ridiculous can it get that the European was so good as to change over 150 languages in ONE COUNTRY ALONE not to talk of over the whole continent! Any way, you only watched A FILM! a long time ago and you suddenly know all about Africa. Pssssst!
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Sista (f)
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@ gigitteon their part, they are wrong in being so quick to discount your knowledge and cause division where there isnt need as per bush/town africans when they are so quick to accept YT's crap. but a lot of people are like that due to years of colonial indoctrination, bad habits are hell to shake off.
finally, if i sound like all the other naijas on nairaland when i say being born and bred in america makes you very different, so be it. its just true. you are welcome to partake of our culture but don't say you were born to it because you werent gigitte, first I want to tell you that I looked at your profile and you are a very beautiful young black lady, very beautiful. I appreciate that you gave me an honest respone but I would like for you to consider something. You said that because I am an American black and you are an African black that the differences between you and I are distinct. you went on to say, of course we have some glaring commonality's but in Essence the cultural differences are distinct, your example was (mac and cheese). I believe that is what you basically said. Consider this, What do you think would have happend if you were the one who ended up in America and I was the one who stayed in Africa? Do you think you would have evolved culturally different from what I now evolved to be culturally, being born and bred in America? Do you think I would have evolved any differently from you culturally, being a born and Bred African? Now, think about all the Blacks in America, lets say 4million, we will exchange them for the same amount of Blacks in Africa, 4 million. We are going to reverse time and do the exchange. Now, do you think those 4 million blacks in Africa that we reversed time on and put them in America, will evolve any differently from the blacks that were their before we reveresed time? What is your answer?
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Sista (f)
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@ davidylanYour posts first border on the ridiculous to the outlandish and then to annoying! I know i promised to quit this thread but i just could not let this go. Gigitte has said it better, YOU can't COME HERE SPOUTING NONSENSE ABOUT A CONTINENT YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN TO! Stop sitting in your high chair in Oakland telling me the language my maternal grandmother spoke and that of my paternal grandfather are one and the same!!!! IT IS NOT TRUE! Please!
You sound like a boy child stanidng behind his sister saying "Nanny Nanny Nana, told you so" Grow up davidylan. I am much older than you and gigitte. Don't you know that you are supposed to respect your elders. I am your elder and you should show some respect. The African languages are one in the same and I am telling you again. There is always a first and there is never a last. Africans spoke one language at one time but as they migrated they created new words that was born out of the old language and the old languagess. Black people to this day are still making up words and sentences are being birthed from those words. You are ambitious with keeping this sepreration going, you have truly been tainted. Who are you? You are starting to sound as if you are not really a brother. What is going on with you davidylan, I am serious, what is going on with you? I just don't know what to say about you anymore. For health reasons, I think you need to take a long break from this discussion.
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gigitte (f)
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yeah most definately, i would different and so would you. one glaring example is you would have known what it is like to grow up in a country with no racial tension, where the balance of power is black and you most likely werent a minority lol. you wouldnt have to worry about racism from your countrymen, tribalism sure but not racism. furthermore you would have to struggle with colonialism as opposed to slavery, neo-colonialsim and indoctrination as well the concept of negritude. you will have to deal with tropical weather and the naija/african way of doing things. do you how all these things would have affected the way you think. you have been subjected to a different system of education and learning things. let me tell you a naija school is tres different from american school or even britico. speaking of naija now, you would prolly have gone to boarding school which would have irrevocably changed your life and you would have seen a different familial landscape. these are just one of the many things that would have been different for you. i also know i would have evolved differently lol, i would be less immune to corruption for one.
and for the very same above reasons, if you exchanged africans for african americans you would and reversed time you have the same results as mentioned above. however if you were to do that today, and give a hundred years, perhaps you would not have a complete integration into society like the agudas and saros of lagos. you might have a distinct group like the creole in sierra leone.
on a sidenote what about the millions of white africans in africa, you don't see them claiming to be dutch or where ever they came from in europe. i am sure they recognize their dutch ancenstry but they go about telling dutch people that they are dutch by force lol, they are africans through and through. and for a while some of them were so african they were busy there doing apartheid.
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gigitte (f)
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hey thks very plenty for the compliement  ese ma
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Sista (f)
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@ gigitte
So, I am assuming that your answer is you would be like me and I like you if time was reversed and the switch was done, is that correct? No long explanation please. Yes you would be like me or No you would not be like me.
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gigitte (f)
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this is not a yes or no question
of course i would not be like you and you would not be like me
everyone is unique
but the factors affecting our ways of thinking, our personalities and our opinions would be different. most likely i would not be who i am today 100% and neither would you shikena
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Sista (f)
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@ gigitte
I am speaking of culturally. You are being to technical. I know you and I are different, but my point is as a whole. That is why I said, if we took all black Americans, for example lets say 4million and swicthed for 4million Black Africans then reverse time, would those Africans had evolved any differently from the black Americans of today?
You gave me a long vaige answer.
Your answer in this context does not need a long explanation. Yes or No is good enough.
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davidylan (m)
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@ davidylan You sound like a boy child stanidng behind his sister saying "Nanny Nanny Nana, told you so" Grow up davidylan. I am much older than you and gigitte. Don't you know that you are supposed to respect your elders. I am your elder and you should show some respect.
The African languages are one in the same and I am telling you again. There is always a first and there is never a last.
1. You spent all this thread insulting those who have a second oppinion to you, unless you don't consider false allegations and accusations such as white worshipper insults, soon as others expose your dearth of common sense in your posts you start pouting about your age. Shame! 2. Respecting elders? You respect those who deserve it and not those who demand it. You show your age not by declaring but by letting it show in the way you address others. 3. You cannot be talling us what and where our language originated from, you have never been to Africa neither do you even have the faintest idea of what languages we speak (except via white produced movies!). Just as i can't go to England and start telling them the origin of the English language, so can you not sit back and peddle such falsehoods regarding the languages my own parents have been speaking before you were born! 4. I will quit this thread NOT FOR HEALTH reasons but because you do not seem to be making much sense rather you think you can force your oppinions down the throats of others. N.B. you can yell as much as you like, i will quit when you stop peddliing untruths about my culture which try as hard as you may is not yours! Be proud of where you were born, you don't have to go back to Africa to define your own destiny. I wonder how many white Namibians and South Africans are wasting time forcing White Europeans that they are all from the same stock!
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gigitte (f)
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all factors remaining constant and you took those africans from west africa, IMO they would not have evolved differently
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Sista (f)
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@ davidylan you can yell as much as you like, i will quit when you stop peddliing untruths about my culture which try as hard as you may is not yours! Be proud of where you were born, you don't have to go back to Africa to define your own destiny. I wonder how many white Namibians and South Africans are wasting time forcing White Europeans that they are all from the same stock! Davidylan for your mental state as it seems, you should quit this thread. As far as you saying, that I am trying hard to make your culture mines, please Davidylan, don't stroke your ego at the expense of my intelligence. You were the one who began this whole Seperation of black people discussion when you expressed your disgust with American blacks, using the brother or sister in referance to each other when they have no blood relation. The subject matter of this discussion (All Blacks are the same, We All Descend From Africa) was thrown off by you alone. You have shown that you have no respect for blacks in America, you are a racist towards us. You want to say all these horrible things about African people and then you want to act like you are so proud of your culture, when you think that I am trying to stake claims, on your culture. You are a twisted individual.
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davidylan (m)
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@ davidylan Davidylan for your mental state as it seems, you should quit this thread.
As far as you saying, that I am trying hard to make your culture mines, please Davidylan, don't stroke your ego at the expense of my intelligence.
You were the one who began this whole Seperation of black people discussion when you expressed your disgust with American blacks, using the brother or sister in referance to each other when they have no blood relation.
The subject matter of this discussion (All Blacks are the same, We All Descend From Africa) was thrown off by you alone.
You have shown that you have no respect for blacks in America, you are a racist towards us.
You want to say all these horrible things about African people and then you want to act like you are so proud of your culture, when you think that I am trying to stake claims, on your culture.
You are a twisted individual.
1. Any neutral fellow will find it very difficult to make head or tail of your write up, did you refer to yourself as intelligent? You find it so difficult to even put together two sentences that make sense and yet claim to be intelligent? Go do something else! 2. You seem to either have some problem with comprehending simple english or maybe its your eye sight. Where did i "express disgust for African Americans"? In case you don't know, i have 5 cousins and countless African American friends who have never stepped foot in Africa and yes i respect them! It's people like you who can't see between your noses who disgust me! 3. Subject matter was thrown off by me? For asking a relatively innocous question? You must be off your rockers. I asked the "brotha- sista" question in THREAD 1!!! THIS IS THREAD #2, how could a question in thread 1 have derailed the subject matter in thread 2? It seems you are not even thinking deeply at all, you just type out of spite, hate and a massive inferiority complex! 4. What are the "horrible" things i said about African peopele? Please quote specifics next time instead of spinning old wives tales! You're begining to strike me as someone who has a problem with being honest! Besides, do whites, asians, indians, jews need to call themselves brotha and sista to prove their unity? Do you have learning disabilities?
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Sista (f)
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all factors remaining constant and you took those Africans from west Africa, IMO they would not have evolved differently
@ gigitteI don't understand, are you saying no, they would not have evolved any differently from the blacks who are now in America, These were the options, Yes, the black Africans that switched to America, to undergo the same experiences as the present black Americans would evolve with the same results as the present black Americans. or No TheBlack Africans of today would have evolved differently from the blacks who are present in America today. Think about this answer carefully please.
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gigitte (f)
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Yes, the black Africans that switched to America, to undergo the same experiences as the present black Americans would evolve with the same results as the present black Americans.
provided that other things remaining equal and these black africans were from west africa (that is my disclaimer) unless you can accept this disclaimer, i no dey answer your question anymore oh
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Sista (f)
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Here you clearly show you already inately as a black man knew the reason for the usage of brother and sister when you refer to the throw back of the slave era, This is where you tokk this discussion off topic by pretending to be ignorant to this matter, this is where you took the subject off of the topic Hey sorry to bump in here but i was wondering if someone could help me understand the meaning of this "brotha - sista" thingie black people use in addressing themselves even when the person is in no way related to them? It seems to be used often most especially by african americans!
I find it soooooooooo hard to use that epithet to describe a fellow black person, i'd rather refer to you by name.
The whole time you already knew why the brother and sister referance was being used by black AmericansTake off your rose tinted glasses sista, not every black person refers to their fellow blacks as brotha or sista, if anything i regard it as a throwback to the slave era , the fact that i don't use it does not make me any less proud of my colour and heritage. I remain proudly nigerian, it does not matter if i refer to my friends by name or as brotha! In response to below, 2. You seem to either have some problem with comprehending simple english or maybe its your eye sight. Where did i "express disgust for African Americans"? In case you don't know, i have 5 cousins and countless African American friends who have never stepped foot in Africa and yes i respect them! It's people like you who can't see between your noses who disgust me!
You don't exactly say that you are disgusted but you did say, I find it annoying that many black people feel the need to always reiterate their "pride" in their race or colour. Your subtle could be looked at as disgust came here, It will be difficult to find "good black brothas (that word again)" when the black male role models are confined to P Diddy, Usher, Tupac, G Unit, 50 cents and other drive by shooting gangsters!
Might I add, all men who were mentioned were black Americans as bad examples. You have already come to the conclusion that Stanley was guilty. If you knew anything about Black Americans, you would know that many times because we are black, we are auotomatically guilty without fare trial especially if we are poor. If no black people rallied, your response to the outcome would have been how backs in america don't' support each other.A few months ago, Stanley Tookie Williams was convicted of murder, i was shocked to see the number of black people who quickly rallied to free him! Why? Because he was innocent? Or because he was simply a "brotha"? What would have been our reaction if ALL whites rallied to free a member of the KKK accused of murdering a black individual? Since when did racial solidarity supercede the enforcement of justice?
Here is only 1 example of how your thoughts on black people period, is based on comaprison to Whites and Asians and how you feel they are more sensible and forward than black people. no where do you hear a white or asian telling you there are accepted behaviors that mark you out as behaving as a "real white man"! You asked, 4. What are the "horrible" things i said about African peopele? Please quote specifics next time instead of spinning old wives tales! You're begining to strike me as someone who has a problem with being honest!
This is one of the many bad things you said about african people, Our ancestors married uncountable wives, treated their wives as lower than equals and would not hesitate to beat them when the need arose, would you prefer we went back to that kind of lifestyle to prove we are "real african men"?
This is number 2 of the many bad things you said about african people, Nigeria is today one of the most corrupt countries in the world, our grandparents will gladly tell you things were far better under the same white men we are so quick to denigrate.
Now, my page expired twice and I had to modify twice trying to get down the quotes I did get, but you said far more disrespcful things about all blacks period, than what I had the time to quote. If anyone is interested in knowing about what goes on inside your head, how you play both sides, pretending to be proud of your culture yet insulting it at the same time, they can go back and look at all of your previous post. You didn't say one good thing about black people. However, you did say many (in your mind) good things about Whites and Asians.
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davidylan (m)
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@ sista,
Go get a life! So by saying the truth even a 3 yr old kid knows about Nigeria means "i'm saying bad things about Africans"?
The problem here is you are so blinded in your "loyalty" to the black race you fail to see areas of weaknesses were we need to improve, every time people bring up the other side of the black race you automatically brand them as white worshippers. As for the Tookie Williams case, i'll ask you just a few ques: 1. Did he commit murder? 2. What was the penalty for murder? 3. if he were white, would you have rallied to free him?
If i'm not mistaken, you had to go over to thread #1 to fish out the things i said which are not relevant to the discussion on thread #2?
Pathetic!
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