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swan (f)
I'm Confused
« on: August 14, 2006, 02:13 PM »

please,friends i  need to know if i'm ok in the head.i always imagine myself making love with another woman when i'm in bed with  my guy;i'm not a lesbia :-\n.
iice (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #1 on: August 14, 2006, 02:20 PM »

Quote from: swan on August 14, 2006, 02:13 PM
please,friends i  need to know if i'm ok in the head.i always imagine myself making love with another woman when i'm in bed with  my guy;i'm not a lesbia :-\n.
Interesting, picture yourself with a woman but not a lesbian, probably means you have a thing for women if you can picture yourself making love to a woman, you definitely on the bi/lesbian side
Busta (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #2 on: August 14, 2006, 02:47 PM »

you are prolly Bi-sexual  Undecided
sexycrib (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #3 on: August 14, 2006, 03:56 PM »

Are u a Christian? Maybe you should go and see your pastor for special deliverance.

that is d best idea oooooooooooooo.




desiree (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #4 on: August 14, 2006, 04:20 PM »


I guess it's only your mind playing tricks on you, trying pushing the thought away as much as you can, if you believe in God, pray about it or go see a Psychiatrist (I'm not tying to be funny or rude here) Embarrassed
swan (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #5 on: August 14, 2006, 04:25 PM »

 :-[i don't beliv i'm bi/sexual.i thought it had to do with creating the right atmosphere for sex initially(by having erotic tots),its begining to disturb me of recent and thats why i decided to solicit for advice.don't get me wrong,i love my man and it would interest you to know,he satisfies me in bed, and lastly i got irritated when i tried getting down with a lady,i just could'nt do it.so,u see my probs? Cry
iice (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #6 on: August 14, 2006, 04:30 PM »

Hmmmm actually i don't see the problem.?? Can't help you
bluenubian (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #7 on: August 14, 2006, 07:42 PM »

swan
hit me up on yahoo if  u need some advice, i went through what u are going through now, and no it doesnt make u a lesbian
Raymand (m)
Re: I'm Confused
« #8 on: August 14, 2006, 07:48 PM »

Hehehe! Bloody Lesbian!  Grin
bluenubian (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #9 on: August 14, 2006, 07:53 PM »

and thats soooo mature of u, Ray!!  Undecided
Raymand (m)
Re: I'm Confused
« #10 on: August 14, 2006, 07:59 PM »

Just saying what i think!  Cool 
LiquidMind (m)
Re: I'm Confused
« #11 on: August 14, 2006, 11:55 PM »

You have let a thought into Ur imagination that has build a stronghold,

what you have to do is pull that thought down mediately and circumcise it out of you mind
K2DaC (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #12 on: August 14, 2006, 11:57 PM »

Lmao, hmmm umm thats very strange. I'm confused as well.
kiki (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #13 on: August 15, 2006, 03:00 AM »

i think u are Bi or a lesbian
so cool (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #14 on: August 15, 2006, 03:17 AM »

thats the definition of bein a lesbian tho, you might be Cheesy Cheesy
ikamefa (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #15 on: August 15, 2006, 03:35 AM »

u prolly bi-curious  Tongue
iice (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #16 on: August 15, 2006, 08:03 AM »

lol yeah bi-curious
Teezy (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #17 on: August 15, 2006, 08:07 AM »

U mostly likely a Bisexual, u jus aint quite comfortable wit it yet.
gigitte (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #18 on: August 15, 2006, 10:57 AM »

wow oh, just because she recently started having these Thoughts, she must be a bisexual. na real wah be this
imagine, i started thinking fondly of my friends boyfriend, i must be a boyfriend snatcher
i started thinking how nice it would be to have my neigbours car, i must be a klepto,
ahn ahn cool down for jesus

sorry to come all heavy on y'all. this is the problem with the gay movement. now you must either be straight or gay, kai somebody cannot even be bisexual again or sitting on the fence or just having a plain and simple moment.

my dear, you are not a lesbian and u people should leave her alone. a good percentage if not a majority of lesbians are not born. i agree with liquidmind, you put the thot in your head now it wont come out. this happens to a lot of people and not just with sex. (remember that annoying song u can't get of your mind, or ur penchant for saying 'like' a lot)

anyway go talk to blue. a lot of people will have homoerotic Thoughts at one point or the other, it doesnt make them gay or even curious, its what you do with it that counts.
swan (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #19 on: August 15, 2006, 12:14 PM »

I'D LIKE TO SAY SOMETHING HERE,I'M NO FREAK,LESBO OR WHATEVER.I WATCHED FILMS THAT REFUSED TO LEAVE MY SUBCONSCIOUSNESS.I'M FLESH AND BLOOD AFTERALL!HMMMM PERHARPS I WAS FASCINATED BY WHAT I SAW AND SNAP,IT STUCK IN!I  WELCOME CRITICISMS IN WHATEVER FORM,NO GRUDGES.
I DO KNOW THAT WE ALL HAVE OUR FANATASIES BUT LETS JUST SAY MINE GOT OUT OF HAND.ITS A LESSON THOUGH,I believe I'LL GET OUT OF THE PRISON.MY MAN DOESN'T KNOW WHATS HAPPENING,I DON'T THINK HE'S SUPPOSED TO KNOW EVERYTHING,RIGHT?
AS FOR THE RELIUGIOUS CIRCUIT,I'M PRAYING because I INTEND TO SETTLE DOWN WITH MY MAN,AND I WOULD'NT WANT TO HAVE PROBLEMS LATER IN LIFE.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO SAY BUT I KNOW YOU UNDERSTAND.
I'L KEEP YOU POSTED WITH RECENT DEVELOPMENTS  AND WHO KNOWS I MAY BREAK THE GOOD NEWS TO YOU ALL,TANKS FOR BEING YOU.
LOL.
iice (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #20 on: August 15, 2006, 12:24 PM »

Girl you no freak, well don't know about others, but i believe in live and let live.  Besides others have said, you are not a lesbian, so just hit up blue at her yim and she can help you.  Goodluck sha to you and your man.  Let us know when you are getting married Smiley
clocky (m)
Re: I'm Confused
« #21 on: August 15, 2006, 02:05 PM »

it seems my beloved iice is bi or a les o  Shocked . i can see u are so much interested in this topic
iice (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #22 on: August 15, 2006, 02:11 PM »

LOL clocky, na now you know? When we were playing in that room with aloib you ddnt find out?  Tongue Tongue Come yahoo make i smack you one  Tongue Tongue
clocky (m)
Re: I'm Confused
« #23 on: August 15, 2006, 02:15 PM »

iice u know how i like it  Kiss . i little bit of spanking will do d trick. I'll come online now
osteen (m)
Re: I'm Confused
« #24 on: August 15, 2006, 03:17 PM »

As u hav said memories of ur subconciousness is disturbing, so try nt to remember what u hav watched or simply watch something more interesting that will replace the one already there. U are no freak just a disturbing moment u need 2 over come
okonko (m)
Re: I'm Confused
« #25 on: August 19, 2006, 01:40 AM »

I NEED A CHAT FRIEND  Cry
clocky (m)
Re: I'm Confused
« #26 on: August 19, 2006, 01:16 PM »

Quote from: okonko on August 19, 2006, 01:40 AM
I NEED A CHAT FRIEND Cry
What a loser  Sad
Teezy (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #27 on: August 19, 2006, 09:07 PM »

Lmfao. Ouch.
swan (f)
Re: I'm Confused
« #28 on: August 29, 2006, 10:30 AM »




HI GUYS,I'M BACK!I FEEL A LOT BETTER THAN I DID BEFORE.I TOOK UR ADVICE AND MY SITUATION HAS IMPROVED GREATLY.I TANK GOD THE DAY I STUMBLED UPON THIS SITE.ITS BEEN GREAT.
WE ARE ALL HERE FOR EACH OTHER,AND THATS WHATS MOST IMPORTANT.KEEP IT UP GUYS.love U ALL,JD
IICE,OSTEEN,GIGETTE,KIKI, TANKS from THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART.
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