Crack (Cocaine) or Love, Which Is More Powerful?

I would have to say more lasting would be the married couple.  I say this because one overdose of crack will kill you and then the relationship will come to an end.

L.O.L. I guess you have a point about that!  But I don't know how one could define a relationship with coke a successful one.  It kills you and it hurts those around you.

Hum, you're right.  I gave a weak answer.  Leave it to you to challenge me

Ok, let's try this again:

You're right, love is painful.  I doubt that women loving abusive partners, criminals, and soldiers make it so. 

Abusive partners: It may start off by the abusive person wooing the pants of the victim.  False love, false hope, false character.  Not real.  Then the woman may end up becoming attached more than in love.  They are fooled by what they think is love as opposed to what love really is.

Criminals: Anyone can be a criminal.  What kind are you talking about?  Someone who was arrested for stealing food when his mom was hungry is considered a criminal.  It does no harm to love this person.  Even some who were once hard core criminals but have since become rehabilitated are better than crack.

Soldiers: There is no reason not to love a soldier, just as there is no reason not to love a police officer.  They both put themselves in harms way because they have the bravery and courage to do so.  To want to help others.  Noble act.

You're right about people around you hating your lover.  But crack (as I've seen it played out in the lives and families of a few of my closest friends) hurt those around you because they know what the drug does.  It forces you to steal, you lose your teeth, weight, common sense.  You stop caring about everyone around you (even in some cases your own children).  You lose jobs, respect, and put yourself in the way of being able to catch AIDS (if needle sharing is done).  This hurts those around you and even you more than people just "hating" who you're with due to their own prejudice.

How am I doing so far?

no you don't.

what if one of them get sentenced to life. don't you think that relationship is gone and done?
what if they get so high one day and during one of their fights one physically injures the other severly. i don't think reconciliation (if i spelled that right) will be easy.

what you just said is probably what you see in movies but reality is very diff.

i hope you didn't beat up your wife yet. 

good then, when you get married, quit drinking ASAP unless your wife's an heavy drinker of course 

it leads to [non-consensual sex] a lot more than it leads to consensual sex. be careful!!


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If that's the reason why i dont make sense. Then you dont. 

See if one of them get sentence to life.. the other one will feel sorry for him/her. It aint like they dont have concience. Yeah they drink/take cocaine, Get high and all that sh!t. BUt the truth is, they still know wat feelings are. 
As for the relationship being Gone and done -- It happens to even people that dont do cocaine. When a normal person's spouse is sent to life imprisonment.. We all know that the probability of Love staying in, is 0.

Normal people, people that don't do cocaine FIGHT, They injure each other, It doesn't happen to Crack-heads alone [it's just that crack-heads gooo to a very far extent]. When they fight and injure each other.. If there's still the love in there... They'll reconsile. Normal people do that too. But to be sincere, crack-heads forgive each other faster than normal people will.

I know wat i said.. It's reality.. and u just talked abt wat u saw in movie. Bam... Do i make sense now?

Crack is a lopsided relationship lloking for the early extinction of 1 of the parties involved.
Love is a relationship looking for the 'betterment' of those involved.


Whis is more powerful? Crack is cos its more brutal and deadly.

True Love can let go if it would better the life of the 1 involved.

True Love and Obsession are 2 parallel lines that never meet.

Obsession has a selfish undertone albeit very silent. Its so crazy because of what it would gain.

True love wants to give and take it or leave it, true love would let go if thats what it'll take for the other party to be happy.

True loves says "I'll rather die for her to be loved"
Obsession says "She'd better die than for her not to be mine"

I like that, layi.  Very good analogy.

Love is powerful!!! u cant give up on d one u love,nobody can.Love is experienced once in a life time.
but for coke,its a habit u can always give up on after alot of efforts from people,rehabilitation center,therapies and so on.

no advantage in cocaine it will noly ruin your life whether overdose or underdose,it ruins somebody's life.But for love at there are some advantages in love,and can only ruin life when it is overdose.

@ajsalako

Wrong thread 

A persons who is on crack is addicted.. addiction iiself is to be abnormally tolerant to or dependent on something that is psychologically or phsically habit forming. since crack is narcotic in nature, one would naturally get an abnormal strong craving for it.
but love is different. though the feelings are equally strong and run very deep, it is not an abnormal addiction that becomes a bad habit. it's free. it's more of a feeling than an addiction.
i would say crack is more powerful in a negative waycos weather or not you want it, you have to do it cos you're hooked but love is a thing of choice, you give it and sometimes can take it at will.
but love is more bearing and with love there are no impossibilities.........

ha. happens to me too!