Things You Miss About Your Ex Lover.

If her shock absorbers her dead
I think her double silencers are still working
lol can't stop laughing

ogamadam, so sorry about that, you will come through.


ermmm, is he dead or alive because your post sounds like he is dead.

Snazzy,

might as well aint it, he's out of my life.  Well no,  he's alive and kicking, in a town near me, just with somebody else maybe.

Thanx anyways.

I feel for you OgaMadam, i really do, and felt teary eyed reading your post  (reminds me of mine) but i just couldnt help myself, with snazzydawn's question about being dead or alive! I just had to burst out laughing  . Please forgive my rudeness, i'm actually posting to wag a finger at snazzydawn for being insensitive, but i'm sure OgaMadam wont take offense. And now evilslayer has taken offence at friendly advice given 

Ehenh!!!

Uche2nna you're the one i've been looking for.  I was reading one of your replies not too long ago. 

Perhaps i can summarise it in one q.  "why were u supporting the guy that cheated on the girl by urging her to give him another chance?"

Should guys be forgiven for nipping out?

Madam is waiting.

Snazzy don't worry about that little prick. He was dumped not too long ago by the girlfriend so he's been unleashing out his anger on people unnecessarily.

Nna

wetin be d test for real remorse?  how do you know he is serious?

Madam.

Yes Lush.

It was about the post of what i missed most about my ex boyfriend.

Nna,  Uche,  you're right.  its the woman to make that decision.

Catchya later all.

Your Madam.

I see someone's been watching too much chic flicks

And who cares what shoe size you wear, now buzz off loser

Lush im feelin ya.

I know what you mean like, you just don't know how you are going to get a person who was like them,  who will give you the memories they did,  thats were the grief steps in i suppose.

Phoenix, if it were that easy she'D jump on the next available train/plane/bus/,  just to get to you.  its a bit mo complicated than that.

Alas lush,  lets comfort ourselves in knowing we knew them once, and keep their memories as something to bring a smile.

Who knows, God could smile on us and give us more than we imagined wildly possible.

peace.

I know.  agree full blast Lush.  it does feel like you been punched.  how do you find someone or something so rare.  theres only one of that person.  thats what makes it hard.

Lush, i don't mean to be iffy but r u male/female.  jus excuse me mixing up some staff im sayin 2 ya if it sounds confused.

Cabali darling are we attached?  Coz you look , 

Anyways, thats not the point.

I miss my baby.  I think the thing i miss most is that feeling of home everytime i was with him.  I still can't shake it even after the break up.

Right now im sitting at Uni, by a computer its late, its cold, im hungry and im going to be here till about 7 or 8 am.   

And i get this over whelming urge to just  go and lie in his arms.  His voice made me feel home.  The silly way he slept with his head up.  He always said that people who slept on their backs will go to heaven.  And id ask how about me, i sleep on the side - he'D reply "you will also go to heaven - just sideways"!  He was so silly, so silly that boy.

And i miss him so bad, its like im missing a part of myself.   I missed calling him Daddy.

And in my phone, i'D put his name in dollar signs so it would come to the top of the list like so:  $Daddy$.

I miss his voice.  I miss the way he always joked and was always happy.  I miss kissing him for ever and he'D just lie there flat, in complete surrender.

Last Christmas we had like a little xmas thing with friends.  Later on me and him monopolised the sofa, and he lay on his back while i lay on top of him,  and were with them but in our own little world. The two of us drunk a whole bottle of port between us.  And we were talking senselessly but still making sense, i kissed him and kissed him and kissed him and kissed him, and yet he just lay there, like a little teddy bear, in complete surrender.  He felt so safe.

I miss him but i've done a lot of growing since.  I know now, that God is my first.  I need Him most.  And i went the best.  Ive done my mistakes, but i want to leave it to God now.

Father, please take care of my baby.  Tell him i love him.  And that i miss him badly.  Help him grow in the ways that you believe is best.  Do not surrender him to the power of the enemy.  Turn the bad to your glory and good. 

Let him become the best he can by your strength.  Help him succeed Lord.  God Speed to him.


ANY DAY I LIVE,  THIS MAN, THIS MAN - TO HIM I WILL TAKE MY HAT OFF FOR, because the strength he possessed, was out of this world.   God speed to you my baby.

All my love take care.

Take care honey.

Now you understand how those other posts,  you and evil deemed unnecessary started.

I had to explain he is not dead or else i wouldnt be praying for God to protect him - Le clique?

abi?!   

Such concern!! aint I lucky?