Raped By Your Brother's Best Friend

That is a terrible thing, I am sorry for who ever that happen to. If this is in Nigeria that is going to be tuff. It is hard for a female to declare such a thing. If you have a strong family that supports you, you should tell them and see how they guide you.

If this were me, I am so rebellious that I would have told on his azz a long time ago. He would not be a preacher if he did not apologize to me. If he has not apologized that means he is a fake and his is misleading his followers. I wouldn't be surprised if he hasn't raped any of the church members.

Maybe the person this happen to could put together a secret society, you no like underground. A underground womens group. In this group you will probably find that other women experienced the same problem. Those women could become the supporter of the woman this horrible thing happen to. Who knows, maybe it will turn into a situation where the preacher is confronted with his past demands by all the women he did this to.

it can be traumatizing for life, bt its best to talk about it, because the psychological effect alone can even kill or give the person involved a bad effect towards life n guys in general.

Well, its a tough call. While i'm totally against such actions (I think all people that inflict any sorta pain on women should be severely punished), she has to tread carefully so as to get the desired result. Its not so much "tell your brutha", or "tell your family", u hav to fish out the ones that will be sensitive enough to identify with the trauma u'v been through. They will be the ones that will champion your cause wit u. Not everyone that claims to be family luvs u. i apologise on behalf of my senseless gender!!!!

Think wit your head rite now, not your heart dear