Finding It So Hard To Let Go

The only thing that I can think of is to just go out with other girls, just try to find other girls. This one already has her mind set that she doesn't want to pursue a relationship with you. And the fact that you spend 4 years lusting after a girl that you have been with and doesn't want you back is preventing you from meeting a girl that you might just have a great relationship with.

Maybe you think that that girl was just soo great, and she was your best relationship. And maybe you're just afraid that you might not find someone that will treat you as good. But there are soo many women out there, and you should at least give some of them a chance. Don't sell yourself short by waiting for her to come around. If she hasn't come around in four years, move on. Ask your male friends if they know any girls that are nice, or go to a bar or a club, or even your place of worship. Who knows, but just forget about that girl and get yourself out there again.

i still have this girl that i can't let go,i'd known here for the past 4-5years now since when she was 18yrs,we tried dating then but i had another babe i was serious with them,which really messed up everything,so we decided to be friend afterwards,but men,i can't just take my eyes off her whenever i see her again,we still dig it out whenever we have the chance.don't no why,she makes me cheat on my girl.but she says the same thing.if we still see tomorrow,anything can still happen.but i wish i can forgo her,even if she 's having problems with a guy,she will call me to confined in me,seems we're friends helping eachother out.
i like her very much but can't date her again.even she wont take me serious

na wah oh.well it happened to mi once but didn't last that long that was before  i went for my youth service when i got to camp i had this chic and eventually got posted to the same place she gave mi serious rounds of sex and didn't even know when i forget about the ex.
recommending u do the same.