About momma's boy, HUGE RED FLAG, especially if they say they are one without being asked!!
Example of one guy I dated,
37 years old, on our FIRST date called his mom when I went to the bathroom. I jokingly said "I can't believe you called your mom on our FIRST date". He said that he had to remind her to pick his shirts up at the cleaners for him. He didn't live at home but he lived 5 minutes from her, which he probably thought was far.
She had a key to his apartment.
She loaned him his car when his was in the shop (instead of renting which most adults do)
She met him at the bank and cashed his cheques for him. (His credit was bad so he couldn't get a bank account. Finally his dad cosigned so he could get a checking account)
He was proud of himself that finally after all these years he was "helping" his mom out because he picked up his own plate and utensils and put them in the dishwasher after dinner at her place.
He went to her place to do laundry on Sundays, sometimes she'd do it for him.
He told his mom he would never get married without her approval of his girlfriend.
I told him if we ever got married (I passed the momma test

) I wanted to move to Colorado. It is half way between his Canada (where I am from) and Texas where we met. I also wanted to live near the mountains. After a while he went back on his deal because he would rather live a day's drive (for his parents) away if we HAD to move, so he wanted to live in New Mexico.
His mom called when her and the father were on vacation!! I asked "Does your mom always call when she goes on vacation?" He said "Well I haven't talked to her for two days". His mom called him so much at work that one of the guys teased him about it. , he said something sarcastic like "Do you have to talk to your mommy first." This was someone that didn't know him well but sat in the next cubicle so he could hear him.
MEN WHO THING YOU ARE A MOMMA'S BOY There is nothing cute or enduring about it. It is a turn off and will ruin ANY relationship. No woman wants to compete with momma and she will lose total respect for you.
Terrie