Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?

, and Donzman is the bitch? 

You lack family values though, end of story. 

Donzman,

Alright. We'll give tax breaks to married folks. Make starting a buiness as a married woman or man, absolutely free. No paperwork or licenses required, just get to selling and building and buying.

Nigerians will love that. Happy now? Respect for your wonderful family values has been maintained.

Donzman,

Are trying to ask me to marry you? And your scared to take me back to Africa?

Are you seriously trying to push this as your point?

No marriage between me and Donzman?

LOL SMILE

oh.

LOL SMILE

That was a good one.  LOL SMILE

Donzman 2 points! LOL SMILE

You're delusional girl, I don't know what you're talking about.

Humm, then why is the the rate at which Africans in the west marry non-Africans steadily rising, especially amongst African females; just as the rate at which African marriages are ending is also steadily rising here in the west?

Donzman,

Aren't baby mama's pretty standard in Africa? Average 8 babies per mama.

Being a babies mama and being a wife are not mutually exclusive. Wife indicates man you married. Being a babies mama indicates the life you brought into this world.

Humm, then all of those kids I saw wondering around the streets all over every nation I went to in Africa,  all day, every day weren't born of women? If so, wouldn't their mothers be a bunch of baby mommas?

Where I come from, kids are allowed to go out and interact with others in an open community. While I was growing up, I could hang out with my fellow kids on the street playing games, playing soccer on concrete, a foreigner like you will come by and wonder, don't these kids have parents?, The truth is that the parents do not have to stand like Grand Marshalls overlooking their kids all the time.


It is part of the reason why you are on the bottom of the economic chain in America. Sorry, that's the way I see it. There are many advantages to having a husband/wife family, I cannot begin to enumerate at the moment. See, whatever it is you believe in, you can do it. Donzman isn't mad at you, I don't know why you're getting upset over me pointing out the difference between Africans and Black Americans. You didn't know these differences existed or what?

So did you also go around looking dirty, begging folks for stuff, looking as if you were looking for trouble, and or sitting around on your butt doing absolutely nothing,  ALL before, during and after school hours, like many of the kids I saw were doing? Did your parents allow that as well?

@Hero

I probably went around looking dirty on a regular day but cleaned up to go out to special occassions. I play with my friends in dirt, come home to get yelled out, my mom will throw me in the bath and wash me up. Yeah, we did sit around sometimes just observing our sorroundings, no harm in that.Such is life and I don't see how that affects family life.

I don't know about begging for money, I never did that and neither did anyone I know and no, we weren't rich.


I was going to insult you but I just realized I shouldn't. Did Donzman ever say, good family values equals financial wealth?, Notice I used financial wealth because only God knows who is a wealthy man and who isn't.

There are many reasons why Africans are poor and our traditional family values aren't one of them.

There are many reasons why Blackk Americans are poor and their family values or lack of one, is definitely one of them. Seminar after seminar I go to, research paper after research paper I read, it's the same result. The out of wedlock thing isn't helping anyone except the black American man who can get away without taking care of their kids.

Hopefully, you get the logic now, thank you!  


Yeah it would have been KO if her interpretation of my logic was correct but as it turns out, she's the same old Druslliar who can't reason properly. As it is, we're back in the ring or more accurately, I'm back in the ring waiting for a worthy opponent.

Now I can comfortably say you'e an idiot without flinch. The African family model is what has brought success to different areas of the globe so it's definitely not the cause of our problems. Asians, traditional Europeans all adopt the model and they're successful.

The black American idea of family on the other hand, has been shown to be ineffective on every level. Should I begin to point out how dual income families fare compared to single baby mama families?, Please, don't be an idiot, reason with Donzman here.

The boy's got problems. He's obviously as senseless as that dead horse he's been beating the living daylights out of for the past several hours, now.

Donzman,

Your the idiot who claimed that Europeans and Asians were adopting the African family model --specifically marriage.

Now your telling me how it is Africans who keep their traditional African marriage and have adopted the European model of getting it done formally in a church.

Huh?

America has a divorce first marriage rate of 62 percent. The second marriage rate of divorce is even higher. Americans now talk about "starter marriages".

Maybe you should try to understand America and how husbands come and go also.

Marriage is simply for sentimental purposes, it has absolutely little to do with the actual foundation of a family. As long as both spouses are together playing their rolls properly,  and they are both content with that situation,  then that's all that really matters. Who is really the position to say they aren't proper for not signing some piece of paper and or jumping over the broom, or whatever else folks do?

Marriage doesn't get the bills paid, food on the table, kids looking right and living right, sexual desires satisfied while in a relationship; the grind and union of mutual cooperation between the parties involved dose, and this can be done whether they be married or not. Lot's of AA, white Americans and others--- have simply come to the conclusion of; we've been together 5, 6, 7 years--- with kids  or without, and living as if we were married, why the hell should we--- after all this time go off and spend a crap load of money just to get it in writing? The number one reason that I've heard many long time couples give for why they decided to get married--- is simply for INSURANCE and TAX SAVING reasons, and or their friends did it, so they did. NO JOKE! 

You still don't get it, do you?, The African model of family is the same as what people all over the world use and it was definitely what Europeans were using when they got wealthy - financially. Again, I see it's because you see me saying "African Model", your ugly presumptous mind already assumes I meant it originated from Africa. No, I don't know where it originated from, I do know that it is traditional in Africa and other parts of the world.

Just like your baby mama culture is traditional to you and like you said, it is working out for you. Bravo, you don't have to bug me now, do you?, Yours is good for you, now you will let me be!  , Or will you?