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Drusilla (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #640 on: December 25, 2006, 01:34 AM »

dru

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clarified on that comment!  sori if it wasnt what u meant babes

Superman,

Thanks for being a Super Man about it. Preciate that.
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #641 on: December 25, 2006, 03:18 AM »

david, why are you so spiteful of your race?  Tongue

i bet you're one of those rare black republicans.

Donzman (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #642 on: December 25, 2006, 03:40 AM »

He's not spiteful, he's an intelligent realist. You can't have women with kids like Sista and Drusilla being filled with misguided hate, spells doom for the future.
Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #643 on: December 25, 2006, 03:51 AM »

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Proud of it! I never dreamt i would see the day i would be talking with a welfare dependent and crack addict in cyber space!



Where is your proof that I am on welfare? You are sponsored by white people, your getting more for free from white people than a welfare recipient would ever get.  Undecided  Where is your proof that I smoke crack? What you say is all made up speculation because I am African American and of course you are trying to pay me back, remember, you don't like me.  Grin Any way, Who cares?

Everyone knows because you said it, you are a poor sponsored African child. You know what that means? It means you were some poor African kid White folks felt sorry for and they took you in like a stray cat to feed you and clothe you and shower you with the potential that you could be some body, that some body meaning being just like them. Well, their little project proved to be right, look at what you have turned into. You have got a stick so far shoved up your ass that it is not even funny.  Grin 


I see how you have repaid white people for all of the generosity they have bestowed upon you. You make sure to share all of what you have earned and accomplished with one of their elite white feminines. It would be shameful, disloyal , ungrateful and callous of you to bring home a black woman to all of those white people who supported you and helped you get over the helpless African hump.  Shocked

hmmm, I guess you have to, you are so white washed that a black woman would probably see you as even more so foreign.
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #644 on: December 25, 2006, 03:55 AM »


@donzman

He most definitely is being spiteful.
I see more hate in him than Sista.
He hates African Americans just as equally or more than Sista dislike most whites!
which is worse tell me.

sista is actually the one being more realistic.
subtle racism pretty much dominates in the US. nobody wants to acknowledge that it exists anymore.
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AA's have no excuse, in a nation that is virtually over flowing with opportunities, that they choose to value disjointed single family existence, jail terms, drugs and violence cannot be attributed to poverty but a severe lack of cultural identity!

I don't know what to say when people make comment like this. It's like they don't know what's going on  Embarrassed
blacks have virtually overflowing opportunities? wth?
Uche2nna (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #645 on: December 25, 2006, 03:55 AM »

It seems I have missed some portion here,
So when was it suddenly decided that David is/was a sponsored child  Undecided
Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #646 on: December 25, 2006, 03:57 AM »

@Donzman

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you can't have women with kids like Sista and Drusilla being filled with misguided hate, spells doom for the future.


Talk what you know, I have one child age 14. I don't have kids, get it right.


@WesleyanA


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i bet you're one of those rare black republicans.


I almost feel sorry for the poor thing, he works so hard each day but not because he knows he can do well. He works hard to show and prove that he is not like the Akata's and that he is not like useless Africans who were not lucky enough to escape the drudgery of Africa and it's uselessness.
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #647 on: December 25, 2006, 04:00 AM »

sista was being sarcastic.

DAVID said that the good white people of the US give poor black people plenty of opportunities and he was the only one who took it.
the rest of the black people decided to be on welfare
so basically, he's a sponsored child  Grin
Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #648 on: December 25, 2006, 04:02 AM »

@Ucche2nna

Davidylan is not here right now but maybe Donzman can enlighten you on the fact that Davidylan is a sponsored child. Sponsored adult or what ever you wish to refer to him as.

WesleyanA I wasn't being sarcastic, David is being so called helped by a white familyor he was in the past. At least I heard him say something pertaining to that. If I am not mistaken even Donzman knows about this.

Also, David admitted it. If I was being sarcastic, that woudl have been a good one. Grin
Donzman (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #649 on: December 25, 2006, 04:03 AM »

Quote from: Sista on December 25, 2006, 03:57 AM

I almost feel sorry for the poor thing, he works so hard each day but not because he knows he can do well. He works hard to show and prove that he is not like the Akata's and that he is not like useless Africans who were not lucky enough to escape the drudgery of Africa and it's uselessness.

You're an ignorant human being for that statement. Not everyone in Africa wants to leave, some people actually live comfortably and are not looking to come to America.

You have a kid, Drusilla has a kid, you both have kids. What does someone expect from these kids if their moms act with hate in their minds?
Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #650 on: December 25, 2006, 04:12 AM »

@Donzman

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You're an ignorant human being for that statement. Not everyone in Africa wants to leave, some people actually live comfortably and are not looking to come to America.


For you to have taken that as a literal statement coming from me, you are either really sensitive about African issues which I understand or you just want to make it look like I am talking bad about Africans.


My statement was made from a self hating, third persons, subconscious frame of mind, that being Davidylans mind. I can't believe how you conveniently misconstrue, either that or your comprehension level is at a all time low.


Before you assume something please, next time ask me what I meant before you jump to conclusions.
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #651 on: December 25, 2006, 04:13 AM »

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You have a kid, Drusilla has a kid, you both have kids. What does someone expect from these kids if their moms act with hate in their minds?

Personally, i've met  2 kids who come from afrocentrist background (at some summer program i attended)
 i sometimes wish more kids had afrocentrist parents

these kids get educated on a whole lot of things. They have so much more pride/positive attitude in/with their race and stand to defend it.

and they aren't getting info from one side only, they have the outside world to compare.
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #652 on: December 25, 2006, 04:14 AM »

I felt so proud when I finally met a black person who knew where nigeria was on the map and the three main languages spoken there.

unlike the rest who ask me if nigerians/Africans ride on monkeys!!  Sad
Uche2nna (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #653 on: December 25, 2006, 04:15 AM »

LMAO




Donzman (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #654 on: December 25, 2006, 04:15 AM »

Quote from: WesleyanA on December 25, 2006, 04:13 AM
Personally, i've met 2 kids who come from afrocentrist background (at some summer program i attended)
 i sometimes wish more kids had afrocentrist parents

these kids get educated on a whole lot of things. They have so much more pride/positive attitude in/with their race and stand to defend it.

and they aren't getting info from one side only, they have the outside world to compare.

False pride is worse than having no pride at all, end of story!

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My statement was made from a self hating, third persons, subconscious frame of mind, that being Davidylans mind. I can't believe how you conveniently misconstrue, either that or your comprehension level is at a all time low.

No you weren't. You've made that statement a million times and you weren't referring to Davidylan so stop bullshitting.

Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #655 on: December 25, 2006, 04:18 AM »

WesleyanA, trust me my child is very well educated and she will tell you in a minute she is a proud African.

That is of course only if you try to distinguish her from C/A's. It is not something she just yells out like she is trying to prove something but get this. One day her own teacher tried to separate an African kid at her school away from the AA kids as he was giving a so called African history break down, my daughter seen right through what he was trying to imply. My daughter kindly told him, "the apple don't fall far way from the tree."

You know what that means don't you WesleyanA? 
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #656 on: December 25, 2006, 04:20 AM »

Quote from: Donzman on December 25, 2006, 04:15 AM
False pride is worse than having no pride at all, end of story!

care to explain?  Huh

teaching your kids that African is a barbaric place full of monkeys, and that they should curse their genes for being black
is better than teaching your kids stuff about Africa, cultures and social news the media won't inform you of?

How is being proud of your race false pride.
I'm proud of my race and I never mind making stupid people look stupid when they argue with me about race at school. yeah we have ignorant people like that.
4 Play (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #657 on: December 25, 2006, 04:20 AM »

@Sista

Can u explain to me why African Americans are not enthusiastic about Obama.

According to one commentator,he had a Kenyan father and so is not part of the slavery heritage and so is not a true African American.

What do u think
Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #658 on: December 25, 2006, 04:21 AM »

@Donzman

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No you weren't. You've made that statement a million times and you weren't referring to Davidylan so stop bullshitting.


What ever, you are just sensitive, I can understand, we are all sensitive and that is why we hate each other. We keep feeling like we are our own worst enemy.


Either that or you just can't comprehend. Undecided
Donzman (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #659 on: December 25, 2006, 04:24 AM »

@Sista
Do I have to go back and search for threads where you keep saying that Africans will give a hand and a leg to come to America?
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #660 on: December 25, 2006, 04:28 AM »

Quote from: Sista on December 25, 2006, 04:18 AM
WesleyanA, trust me my child is very well educated and she will tell you in a minute she is a proud African.

That is of course only if you try to distinguish her from C/A's. It is not something she just yells out like she is trying to prove something but get this. One day her own teacher tried to separate an African kid at her school away from the AA kids as he was giving a so called African history break down, my daughter seen right through what he was trying to imply. My daughter kindly told him, "the apple don't fall far way from the tree."

You know what that means don't you WesleyanA? 

i don't think i get it.
you mean that AAs aren't all that disconnected from Africa (didn't fall far away from the tree?)

yeah. I was really suprised when i met two kids that knew i was yoruba from my last name.
 
usually, most have basically no knowledge. they are ashamed of their roots and it's pretty obvious by the questions they ask "why do you go about naked in the jungles in Africa"
I want to ask why they don't teach them stuff at school. but i try not to get mad and instead I explain as much as i can to them. some actually get really interested.
It saddens me that sometimes, whites are even more intrested in knowing about Africa than blacks. lol

good thing some parents give these education to their kids.
Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #661 on: December 25, 2006, 04:30 AM »

@4play

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Can u explain to me why African Americans are not enthusiastic about Obama.

According to one commentator,he had a Kenyan father and so is not part of the slavery heritage and so is not a true African American.

What do u think

I think that is utter bullshit.

Not all African Americans agree with that but the ignorant ones do. This issue is no different than C/A's saying that AA's are not really African. Some AA's are capable of do the same stupid things. We are all the same, capable of fighting against each other and pulling each other down.


Obamas father was a Kenyan and some descendants of African slaves have Kenyan blood in them.

This Obama issue is the same as C/A's trying to hold on to what they have from the mother land and they use being born in Africa as a weapon against AA people. We are all afraid that one of us is going to outshine the other or take away from the other. It is really sick. We are all the same but we can't trust each other.

Meanwhile, white people sit back and say, " You see this is why niggers can't have anything, do you blame us for making slaves out of them and colonizing their land? And even after we have done some of them the favor on removing them from their land they are still a useless people. Even though we colonized Africa, they are still useless. We mine as well keep making the fools out of them that they already are."
Donzman (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #662 on: December 25, 2006, 04:33 AM »

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Meanwhile, white people sit back and say, " You see this is why niggers can't have anything, do you blame us for making slaves out of them and colonizing their land? And even after we have done some of them the favor on removing them from their land they are still a useless people. Even though we colonized Africa, they are still useless. We mine as well keep making the fools out of them that they already are."

Yeah that's what white people sit down discussing, come on you're 32 man!
4 Play (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #663 on: December 25, 2006, 04:37 AM »

Glad to hear u don't think Obama is not a true African American.I did see a number of articles that suggested that some African Americans thought he was not a true black having a white mum,growing up partly abroad and having a Kenyan dad.

Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #664 on: December 25, 2006, 04:43 AM »

@Donzman

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Do I have to go back and search for threads where you keep saying that Africans will give a hand and a leg to come to America?


No Donzman, you don't have to go back and find that thread, I have no reason to lie or hide anything, I said that. I said that because Africans are always talking about how great AA's have it in the US, they damn near are jealous of AA people for what they feel AA people have. I am telling you, the so called benefits they give AA people ain't shit. But you don't believe me, you just think AA people are ungrateful. I say that is a sad thing to think that AA people should settle for anything but more after our ancestors built this land and worked this land for 300 years free labor. After all our ancestors have done, if we want to be lazy that is our choice and you have no right to judge AA people. What about all of the rich white people today who have not worked one day but they have passed down their wealth made from black slavery to their children. Their children don't work, they shop all day but I don't see C/A's talking bad about them saying they should get a job and stop living off of their parents wealth which was made from the blood sweat and death of my people.


You just don't have any respect and yes I made the statement your are referring to but I made that statement from a  different context in which we are now speaking on with Davidylan. Two totally different context.
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #665 on: December 25, 2006, 04:45 AM »

@4 Play,

Finally Sista gets an appraisal heh?  Grin

of course you'll rarely ever  find a DARK BLACK man in govt. positions (tell me about blacks having 'numerous opportunities. lol)
From what I learned, white people are more comfortable with people who look closer to them in positions of power, people they aren't scared of.

So, those hating better be ready to accept Obama 'cause that's as far as it'll get. unless of course Obama in turn appoints 'real' black people to position (that's how it usually happens).

I didn't believe collin powel (sp?) was black when i first saw him either. lol
Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #666 on: December 25, 2006, 04:47 AM »

@Donzman

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Yeah that's what white people sit down discussing, come on you're 32 man!

Now you understand my thrid person, when I refer to white people, how conveient.

My age has nothing to do with this. I will go and get quotes from the white racist threads so you can see what they think, but I think you already know.


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Glad to hear u don't think Obama is not a true African American.

Is that what you thought I said? To me he is both C/A and AA, he can jump both sides of the fence for all I care.
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #667 on: December 25, 2006, 04:51 AM »

just as we're blacks discussing race issues,
whites discuss race issues too (even in their homes) and they don't have good things to say about us.

It's even more sad when some of us blacks don't have good things to say about ourselves.
4 Play (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #668 on: December 25, 2006, 04:51 AM »

@Sista

You have to admit that the feeling of dislike between some AA and CA is mutual.U just can't give the impression that is it is all one way.

Here in London,u are probably more likely to get racial abuse from an Afro-Carribean than a white person .I have to say I get more insult from Nigerians then Carribeans and then Whites in that order.

My point is we blacks are a tribalist lot and it is part of our problem.  U did not say anything when Drusilla said that African men don't date women but rape them
Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #669 on: December 25, 2006, 04:52 AM »

@WesleyanA

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Finally Sista gets an appraisal heh?

You are late, Donzman and Davidylan are always picking on me because of my age. It is their last resort you know. Kind of how David bringing up your age is his last resort.  Wink

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of course you'll rarely ever  find a DARK BLACK man in govt. positions (tell me about blacks having 'numerous opportunities. lol)

Exactly! Damn your a smart cookie.

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From what I learned, white people are more comfortable with people who look closer to them, people they aren't scared of.
And even then if the person has an ounce of black blood in them, they fear that part of them regurgitating so the try their best to keep control over that part.

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So, those hating better be ready to accept Obama 'cause that's as far as it'll get. unless of course Obama in turn appoints 'real' black people to position (that's how it usually happens).

You got that right.
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I didn't believe collin powel (sp?) was black when i first saw him either. lol

I didn't believe he was black either, still don't  Grin


By the way, you were right in your guess of what the apple analogy was about.  Wink
4 Play (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #670 on: December 25, 2006, 04:54 AM »

In the spirit of the Xmas season we are giving Sista a break .
superman (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #671 on: December 25, 2006, 04:59 AM »

na lie sista no mind them ! u are stuck now and u know it! hey no going back u know, dnt try to be clever

stupidity is blind folding
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