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Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #672 on: December 25, 2006, 05:00 AM »

@4play

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You have to admit that the feeling of dislike between some AA and CA is mutual.U just can't give the impression that is it is all one way.

You need to read more carefully, I talk about AA people and their ignorants all of the time. I give equal treatment to both sides.

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Here in London,u are probably more likely to get racial abuse from an Afro-Carribean than a white person .I have to say I get more insult from Nigerians then Carribeans and then Whites in that order.

If you understand anything about blacks and being black you would understand that everything about us is blatant, nothing for you to go looking for because it is right there in your face.

White people are the complete opposite, they are subtle, if you want dirt on them you have to go and find it or wait for the results of their dirt to slowly manifest because they are not going to show you their true colors straight out and you better be smart enough to pick up on the subtle signs or else you will miss it all the time. If they did out right show us their dirt, we could use it against them. They have studied us enough to know how to manipulate us to do whatever they want us to do and that includes even more so fight each other.


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U did not say anything when Drusilla said that African men don't date women but rape them


I can't say anything about that if I didn't see it. Besides, AA people and C/A are always having a missed communication, you should be asking Drusilla what exactly did she mean.
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #673 on: December 25, 2006, 05:04 AM »

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In the spirit of the Xmas season we are giving Sista a break .

lol.
that's the spirit!!

oh crap I'm late for church. lol
Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #674 on: December 25, 2006, 05:09 AM »

@WesleyanA


You have to leave so soon and we were just beginning to have some fun.

That's so funny, if they had never said anything about Christimas, you would have not remembered church. LOL


Have fun, talk next time.
Donzman (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #675 on: December 25, 2006, 05:16 AM »

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White people are the complete opposite, they are subtle, if you want dirt on them you have to go and find it or wait for the results of their dirt to slowly manifest because they are not going to show you their true colors straight out and you better be smart enough to pick up on the subtle signs or else you will miss it all the time. If they did out right show us their dirt, we could use it against them. They have studied us enough to know how to manipulate us to do whatever they want us to do and that includes even more so fight each other.

@Sista

See the sort of slave mentality you're living with? You go around believeing every white person hates you and is just acting nice to you in order to use you for some greater purpose. How are you supposed to get ahead when you're that paranoid about racism and race issues?, You need to sit with a psychiatrist for proper assessment because your issues are greater than Donzman can deal with.

WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #676 on: December 25, 2006, 05:22 AM »

Quote from: Sista on December 25, 2006, 05:09 AM
@WesleyanA


You have to leave so soon and we were just beginning to have some fun.

That's so funny, if they had never said anything about Christimas, you would have not remembered church. LOL


Have fun, talk next time.

yeah. i totally forgot. funny  Cheesy
but hey I have to wait for my parents (they take forever) so i still got little time. lol
Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #677 on: December 25, 2006, 05:26 AM »

@Donzman


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@Sista

See the sort of slave mentality you're living with? You go around believing every white person hates you and is just acting nice to you in order to use you for some greater purpose. How are you supposed to get ahead when you're that paranoid about racism and race issues?, You need to sit with a psychiatrist for proper assessment because your issues are greater than Donzman can deal with.


Is that slave mentality? You don't know what you are talking about, even some slaves liked or loved their white masters and mistresses. So how is what I think slave mentality? You don't know what you are talking about.

Also, you are to busy with trying to get me to see that not all white people are bad. You don't get it. I don't care about all white people, I care about all black people. White people are not suffering so why do you feel you have to protect them away from little ole me? Concentrate on your people for a change and stop fighting for a cause that does not need to be fought for. White people don't need you to go around convincing black people that some of them are nice. Nice white people are not stopping slavery or colonialism and apartheid. They are actually reaping the benefits from those things, so do me a favor and miss me with the nice white people Gig. So called white people only further the confusion of black people who look for white people who actually care about black people.
Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #678 on: December 25, 2006, 05:26 AM »

Glad you got some time WesleyanA  Kiss
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #679 on: December 25, 2006, 05:32 AM »

@ Donzman, you'D like to see this article. It pretty much sums up sista's comments about 'subtle' racism.

the housing investigation is the most fascinating to me.
that's why blacks continue to live in ghettos infested with drugs and violence. i guess.
why continue to segregate housing? and we thought that ended in the 1960s.

those subtle ways!!



[url]http://edition.cnn.com/2006/US/12/12/racism.poll/
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Donzman (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #680 on: December 25, 2006, 05:35 AM »

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Is that slave mentality? You don't know what you are talking about, even some slaves liked or loved their white masters and mistresses. So how is what I think slave mentality? You don't know what you are talking about.

Slave mentality in my books is when you're out there beleiving that people are out to get you based on your skin colour. Why don't you take everyone as good until they do something to you (not to others) in order to warrant the hate?, Isn't that how a smart individual should live?

@Wesleyana

How am I supposed to believe that when I live in a neighbourhood where I and my bro. are probably the only blacks in sight? If they were out to segregate, will they let me secure a place in this predominantly white neighbourhood?, The image you project, more often than not determines the reaction you'll get from people. Keep an open mind and people will keep an open mind with you. Go out there believing that everyone is out to get you, sure enough you'll find evidence of discrimination (even when there isn't any).

Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #681 on: December 25, 2006, 05:43 AM »

@Donzman

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Slave mentality in my books is when you're out there beleiving that people are out to get you based on your skin colour. Why don't you take everyone as good until they do something to you (not to others) in order to warrant the hate?, Isn't that how a smart individual should live?

What you talk about is not slave mentality. Slaves already knew because they were black they were slaves, they were already in captivity.  What you are talking about is something else it looks to me. Maybe you should have told that to white people. Not to enslave African people because they were black and backwards. Not to colonize Africa because they were black and didn't know how to run their continent.

Not others? You mean other people who happen to be my people? Where I come from, if you hurt my family you hurt me.
Where I come from, if you know the color of your enemy, you don't give them a chance to hurt you. In fact you already know what they are capable of so you prepare your self and you don't get caught slipping.


If you know that a dogs are capable of biting, are you going to put your self in the position to get bit?
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #682 on: December 25, 2006, 05:46 AM »

Quote from: Donzman on December 25, 2006, 05:35 AM
Slave mentality in my books is when you're out there beleiving that people are out to get you based on your skin colour. Why don't you take everyone as good until they do something to you (not to others) in order to warrant the hate?, Isn't that how a smart individual should live?

@Wesleyana

How am I supposed to believe that when I live in a neighbourhood where I and my bro. are probably the only blacks in sight? If they were out to segregate, will they let me secure a place in this predominantly white neighbourhood?, The image you project, more often than not determines the reaction you'll get from people. Keep an open mind and people will keep an open mind with you. Go out there believing that everyone is out to get you, sure enough you'll find evidence of discrimination (even when there isn't any).



lol It's because you probably don't know how it works.
Of course they don't say 'move away from this place. whites only" or "move out of this place: blacks only"
like the article says:

A three-year undercover investigation by the National Fair Housing Alliance found that real estate agents steered whites away from integrated neighborhoods and steered blacks toward predominantly black neighborhoods.


I don't know exactly how real estate agents do business
but even my history teacher pointed out the same thing in class (she's white!) they give you a whole bunch of conditions. like you have to buy extra land to live in the suburbs or 'white area' but according to them, the purpose is to 'save land'. they won't tell you that it's pretty much to keep rich whites together.
also, they'll leave at least around 2 families in the neighborhood to show for 'diversity' lol

so unless you're rich, you can't live in a certain area and even if you're a rich black, after much isolation and whatnot, you might be forced to move out being the only black in the neighborhood. Their names won't leave the whitebook pages though.
I personally won't want to be the only black family in my neighborhood (rich or not).

but then, you don't live in the US, do you?  Undecided

I don't go out thinking everyone's out to get me but then you can't also go out thinking everyone loves you.

If these people really wanted integration won't they promote blacks to move into the areas?
Donzman (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #683 on: December 25, 2006, 05:50 AM »

You want them to give you houses for free? If you make enough money to live there, you'll live there, it's that simple!
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #684 on: December 25, 2006, 08:16 AM »

Quote from: Donzman on December 25, 2006, 05:50 AM
You want them to give you houses for free?

why should anyone in their right mind sell a house for free?  Huh
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If you make enough money to live there, you'll live there, it's that simple!

that's exactly their 'cover up' excuse!

hypothetical example:
instead of selling a plot of land for 50k (they will if they want you there), they'll tell you that you have to buy three plots for 150k  and tell you it's for the purpose of 'saving land' when they know that it is to scare you away to go live in the city, ghettos among other blacks.











WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #685 on: December 25, 2006, 08:20 AM »

there's an article about it

Donzman (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #686 on: December 25, 2006, 08:29 AM »

Does it have to do with skin colour or the unruly behaviour of these hormonal teens?I was about to hop on the bus the other day and a group of white teen kids got kicked out of the bus and they were calling the driver a fucking faggot. If the kids were black, I suppose we'll overlook their unruly behaviour and brand the driver racist for kicking them out?

Look at what you put out there and it might help explain the way people treat you.

How was your church service? Grin
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #687 on: December 25, 2006, 08:40 AM »

Quote from: Donzman on December 25, 2006, 08:29 AM
Does it have to do with skin colour or the unruly behaviour of these hormonal teens?I was about to hop on the bus the other day and a group of white teen kids got kicked out of the bus and they were calling the driver a fucking faggot. If the kids were black, I suppose we'll overlook their unruly behaviour and brand the driver racist for kicking them out?

Look at what you put out there and it might help explain the way people treat you.

How was your church service? Grin

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you think that's a legitimate reason to close down a school?

WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #688 on: December 25, 2006, 08:41 AM »

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davidylan (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #689 on: December 25, 2006, 08:42 AM »

 Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy
I must be pretty important because the number of times the names "David" or "Davidylan" came up in sista and wesleyanA's posts where just mindboggling. More like they needed to conjure my name to make some sense out of their posts!

@ sista,
You do like to say things you have absolutely no knowledge about! Helped by a white family? when and where? Is that why you refer to me as a "sponsored" child? Oh so when did it become a crime to room with a school colleague? Simply because she had white skin?

the more of such misconceptions i see, the more difficult i find it to believe even a line from your posts!

. . . and lest i forget, merry christmas!!!  Grin
WesleyanA (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #690 on: December 25, 2006, 08:55 AM »

@Donzman
yeah my church service was fun!

Merry Christmas.
 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Donzman (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #691 on: December 25, 2006, 09:41 AM »

Merry Christmas to you too Wesleyana and to everybody else.

I do not believe that is anything close to a sufficient reason to shut down a school but I'll be interested in knowing more about that case. They just can't shut down a school because a bunch of residents don't like inner city kids cming to the area because that just stinks of racism. Where in the US. do you stay by the way? Undecided
Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #692 on: December 25, 2006, 11:50 PM »

@Donzman

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Does it have to do with skin colour or the unruly behaviour of these hormonal teens?I was about to hop on the bus the other day and a group of white teen kids got kicked out of the bus and they were calling the driver a fucking faggot. If the kids were black, I suppose we'll overlook their unruly behaviour and brand the driver racist for kicking them out
?


Had it been black kids, the bus would have been pulled over and the Bus driver would have sneaked to call the police. If the kids would have gotten off of the bus before the cops got there, the bus driver would have remembered the description of those kids and he would have told the cops the last direction he saw those kids going in after they exited the bus. White kids get away with a lot, you don't have to believe it but I know it and I seen it all my life. Even black people feel compelled to let white kids get away with things they wouldn't dream of letting black kids get away with.
Donzman (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #693 on: December 25, 2006, 11:53 PM »

That's just in your own little race clouded mind Sista.  Cheesy
superman (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #694 on: December 26, 2006, 12:56 AM »

superman still on it!

some years back this superman was on the shopin centre premises and some idot white boys were runin over the place in the shop right in which i was in the shop, this is the old white women oh dnt mind them they will grow up!

now question if it were black what would she have done!

now 007 yr near the corner still dnt have time for fake a$$es!

stupidity is always blind folding

god bless white bless black

and fore most proudly blk
Sista (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #695 on: December 26, 2006, 04:32 AM »

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That's just in your own little race clouded mind Sista. 


I really don't see the humor in this.  Undecided
superman (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #696 on: December 26, 2006, 06:10 PM »

oh *hit!
OpeLovely (f)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #697 on: February 07, 2007, 03:35 AM »

All i can say is that women will always be women irrespective of tribe, race, e.t.c.
ebeledi (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #698 on: April 11, 2007, 07:03 AM »

very interesting thread , but i think the topic is rather quite ignorant because it goes both ways

for the most part

YOUNGDICE$ (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #699 on: April 18, 2007, 07:16 PM »

because of beauty problems i think.
TMBghostX (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #700 on: April 18, 2007, 09:24 PM »

This thread is kind of Ignorant and pointless, don't you think?
MayNjoku
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #701 on: June 09, 2007, 04:05 AM »

I'm sorry but as common as it is for IGBOS to be light skinned it is also common for us to be dark as well. Now I know it might suit you to pretend that light skinned blacks have white blood in them and perhaps you like to live in dreams but I'm sorry but that is not the case here. We Igbos were born light and will remain to be light across the generations.
We are successful and I don't think we need some half breed mongrel (yes mongrel) telling us what we have known for centuries. Maybe if you tried to sort your own issues out your own people would be more successful. Always whining why light skin as you say is so prized then sit there pretending you have white blood because you are light,  well no.

We Igbos will not sit around and let some confused non igbo tell us who we are. In regards to Igbos lookinmg like black americans,  no that is not the case, it is you who look like us not the other way around.
That is one good thing about the Igbos. We will not tolerate glory hunters. What makes you think you can jump from defending Yorubas (60s) as your heritage then switching to Igbos because that is today what you think the white man likes?  Huh
I hardly think a beast like Flava Flav can be representative of the Igbos. Unlike others we are known to be quite proud and I feel no shame for stating the truth.

As for the British well your pretences of us being favoured by them is off by a longshot. If that is so why were they cosy with the dark skinned Hausa? Why did they promote the Yoruba over the Igbos? The Igbos were considered  some of the most backward tribes in Africa because of their stance agiants the British and their refusal to give up their culture. It is a documented fact that some of the white slavers had kids with women on the coastal areas all over west africa

I have no patience with glory hunters and the insult you stupid people have tried to give us by claiming you are part of us.
I'm sorry but your pathetic claims will not wash. As light as we are it is natural and we will not change it for the world. Me to start to pretending I am white like black americans.
Then these are the same people who try to preach to us that black is beautiful. I'm sorry but the fact that your folk are pretty much losers will not wash here.

The funny thing is that these fools have completely disregarded Igbo history (recorded and written by Igbo writers) and are trying to fashion their own.
As for Tiger Woods he is not a black man period. I guess the achievements made by Igbos would look good on your report card as you don't really have much to say for yourselves otherwise.

Black as sin southern black americans trying to tell us what we already know about ourselves.

Drusilla a self identified mulatto trying to tell us we are not black?
Hero some confused black american telling us who we are.

@Light skin: Well the Ijaws, Ibibios, Fulani are as light as we are  what are they not black. don't EVER have the sheer disprect to come here and tell us about our own. The fantis of Ghana strangely enough have recorded European ancestors but I don't see black americans trying to claim them as their own.


My anger is coming from the sheer cheek of it- a confused dashiki wearing, kwanzaa studying, ebonics speaking, baggy trouser wearing uneducated idiot?

I'm surprised at how people are not more annoyed with these muppets.  You sat there breeding ugly kids ad now you have nothing to show for yourselves you want to turn round and come to Igbos/Naija telling us that we are mixed race?

I really find it pathetic how black americans will try to do anything to curry favour.  Dumped the Yorubas in favour of the Igbos. Please. Unfortunately for you you will find us more proud than the Yorubas. The sheer arrogance of it all.

Long post I'm out.
MayNjoku
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #702 on: June 09, 2007, 04:09 AM »

@Topic

Shouldn't it be the other way around. Now the vast majority of black american women do not come close to the mulattos/caucasians/latinos displayed on tv in the looks department so do not even try to front.

All those I can't find a man/white woman taking our men away from us blah blah is hardly an Igbo problem. Black american women in general would be far better looking if they tried to lose the weight a bit. Grin Just shut up about slavery and white people and how your were mistreated and maybe you would be better off. LOL.

I'm out.
ebeledi (m)
Re: Do African Women Dislike Black American Women?
« #703 on: June 09, 2007, 04:26 AM »

well said  Grin
saying we are mixed is an insult
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