Nigerian Men, Sex And Affairs: Non-nigerian Women Speak

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Men or no men, maybe when you test 100 nigerians and you see they are all the same, then come back here and tell us they are the same, i will then believe you,  i bet most of us here have parents eh? go and ask them to tell you how many men or women they have dirvoced before marrying eachother.
   every other parts of the world, mostly in western world, as i listened to on oprah's show, the american home consist of dirvocee, 90% married someone before now. even the young ones would have slept with a whole bunch of men and women and they will now expect to marry a saint, GOD forbid, you can only reap what you sow, na so no shaking,  waste your youthful life banging and flirting around and then expect to marry a saint when the time comes  una hear me those that care to listen,

nigerian men rock,  i wont have peeps dissin our men lik that, yea we got some bad eggs but so what, which nationality doesnt?
plssss naija men keep reppin

What's your point? Are you refering to anyone in particular or Naija men at large?

yes i agree that nigerian men can be heartless sometimes but then again we can say the same thing for all men! why stop at africans alone? it's a worldwide problem!

You should know who I am referring to.

She is just saying rubbish.

u will keep gettin used and dumped if your primary motivate or perception of a relationship is based on how good a guy is in bed,  u ladies just never learn, u just don't

I'm an African American woman married to a Nigerian man. What I find is his family operates different from mine. In my family, women are taught to be able to take care of ourselves whether we're married or alone. In his, it seems as though women are taught to be dependent on men. This may be fine if a woman is married to a man with a very stable, well paying job, but it doesn't make sense if she's not married, but expects for her brothers to take care of her.  There are also middle aged to elderly Nigerian women I know who don't have a dime to their name and rely totally and completely on their kids for support.

As far as Nigerian men go, when I was single I stayed clear of African men period who went back home a lot and who came here as adults after college. Many times, those are married men pretending to be single.

Stop with the generalising, its bad when a man uses you we all know it hurts, but you would have  allowed yourself to be used at the same time.

All this Nigerian man bashing, if they're that bad, stop dating them. Simple.

Some Nigerian men have their traits, but if you wait long enough and have your eyes open, you will at least get a hint of who they are.

I think its just part of their culture. My nigerian lover before my boyfriend was good at everything. He was kind, generous, wild, understanding, and I wanted to marry him. He told me I was the only one but when I ran into him at a popular beach it was clear he was a liar. He was with his family and he was hand and hand with some nigerian chick. This was all a couple of days after he introduced me to his father. I'm still heart broken but I've moved on. The nigerian man i have now is everything I could possibly want in a man. So even though it seems like the majority are creeps there still are some good nigerian men out there. Let them find u like mine did.

I'm dating a Nigerian man now,  definitely a new experience for a white woman.  The whole issue is are they a good man or not, not their race.  I've dated other nationalities and some of them were wonderful, some were asses.  A man is a man, they may be different culturally but they fundamentally they are either a good man or not.  Judge the man for his action, not the race.

My dear Non-nigerian ladies,

If you are not married to one, stay away from them. Especially Yorubas!!
If you are, then welcome in d club!

I'm trying to run away after all the emotional and some physical abuses, and public humiliations.

Thanx to me he was given a french and british citizenship, residence permit to his mum and brother, and visa to his other brother's wife. My best friend told me that I have actually saved a whole generation as this family won't have to stuggle for paper.

My mistake costs me 12 years and 2 children. Now I'm 31 and know better but don't know were to start because the man won't let me go. I've got friend that divorced their husband because they fled the home. But mine won't go because it probably b too humiliating for him.

I don't care anymore, I want out . HEEEELLLLPPPP!!!

If you make a public notice world wide saying

         ATTENTION !ATTENTION!! ATTENTION!!!
  SCIENTIFIC RESEARCH REVIEWS THAT DATING OR MARRYING A NIGERIAN MAN WILL LEAD YOU TO AN UNTIMELY DEATH OR A DISEASE THAT WILL MAKE YOU LIVE IN AGONY.

  My brother marriage and dating between a Nigerian man and non Nigerian woman will increase with 200%.
 they like that name Nigeria.

 in the city I'm living the number of whites dating Nigerianmen are getting out of hand that parents are wondering the looks of children born in the next ten years.


       Are the ladies foolish or the men are dam good for the game?

now let me tell yall bout south african girls, 80% of SA girls in the uk are either married or about to get married back home but act single in the uk, most of them got kids back home and tell u they don't, they drink alot, get drunk in public and its normal to them, sometimes i think they are worse than the english people, they want to party every other day, they FUCCCK too many niggaz in a row,
NOW TELL ME WHICH NAIJA MAN WOULD WANT TO WIFE YOU WITH ALL THIS,
and let me tell you girlz something, if you smoke and drink there is only a 5% chance that your nigerian guy would marry you even if he loves you because your culture classifies you as a HOE.
am writing from experience because i have dated 6 south african girls, i just love the way they speak, there accent.

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