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i know its kind of like almost a general mentality that guys should be d 1's who make d 1st move but 4d ladies if u love a guy, must u wait 4 him to make d 1st move?what if he doesn't?what will YOU DO?
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Remmzy (m)
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It shouldn't be only a man thing  , you like what you see make perfect prepared moves you might be lucky  . But if you want to wait for him to come & ask you out , i tell you another lady might take him off you completely. Be time conscious!
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lauryn (f)
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It doesnt matter who makes the first move. Guys sometimes respect ladies that approach them and they also sometimes see them as cheap, desperate cunts, but either way, it still shouldnt matter. If a man/lady sees what he/she wants, best deal is to go for it. While some ladies may worry about self-esteem issues when approaching a man, well if U don't go for him and u stand there looking like boo-boo da fool, some broad might just ask him out or he could just walk past U, or out of ur sight.
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GNature (m)
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@lauryn great point  For ladies, make sure you can handle rejection (just in case). We men are kind of used to it. |
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lauryn (f)
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Thanx rejection stings like a mofo' |
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GNature (m)
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lauryn,
Just out of curiosity, are you a student overseas? I just saw your picture
and you are looking seriously fly.
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lauryn (f)
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lol. I live overseas as u put it . |
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GNature (m)
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Wow. Well I saw the 9.99 (price), so I figured its either
the UK, US or Canada.
Well you look very nice, like a model. I am in Maryland, US.
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lauryn (f)
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Oh yea, THAT!, sales my brother I'm in Canada Back to topic please  |
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GNature (m)
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How things for Canada? My friend visited Toronto last year.
He said it was nice, but things are expensive
I bet you are used to getting complements aren't you?
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lauryn (f)
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Not that. We r going offtopic and the Admin wouldnt appreciate that.
Toronto is a lovely city, so U plan on visiting?
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GNature (m)
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Yes, next year (summer).
You are right, need to get back to the topic.
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gigitte (f)
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a guy must make the first obvious/tangible/verbal move
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otokx (m)
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This days na babes dey make 1st move o especially if the bobo dey work for oil company or bank.
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dondele (m)
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i do not toast girls. they toast me.
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otokx (m)
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How do you that? dondele
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dondele (m)
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i tease and insult them so they get close to me to make me say sommin nice about them and bang, i got them. i have many girls here that hate my guts on this forum but they like me with all their heart. |
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otokx (m)
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did you say on this forum? |
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Oracle (m)
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Well itz a generally believed thing that the guy has to go for the girl because it is believed that guys cannot survive without girls, recently that notion has been contradicted.
these days we see that itz girls who actually are more interested in guys.
well i would advice a girl that really wanted a guy to wait for him to approach her, in an event where nothing is forthcoming or there is no reaction, she should go for what she wants, some guys are really turned on by Bold girls.
However, some guys also feel bad when girls approach them, they kind of feel underated.
it depends on the mentality of the guy involved.
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dondele (m)
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yeah, on this one.
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eloquent
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what marvellous contributions esp that of lauryn.personally i see nothing wrong in a girl letting out her feelings to a guy
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dennylove (m)
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SEE,ELOQUENT,to be true,to you, in,the olden days,if a girl woo a guy,it is considered ABOMINATION,and the girl will not be regarded as anything,but,in the WESTERN WORLD,of today,ANYBODY can make the first MOVES.
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mactao (m)
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Some girls would do it the wrong way . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
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habumaks (m)
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It depends on what you meant by "first move". A girl can give guy a "welcoming" sign, kind of invitation you know. But come to think of it, a gurl to walk up to a guy or stop a guy on the road and start telling him stuff? we are in a 21st century sha. bold gurls could do that you know.
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ima1 (f)
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Yes because if we women do you would think we are cheap. with your fish brains.
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ibkaye (f)
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they don't have to, but i would prefer it that way
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studio43 (m)
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they don't have to, but i would prefer it that way
na that wan u dey wait for?, na hin be sey u wan quick old see yo head like osama slippers |
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ibkaye (f)
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na that wan u dey wait for?, na hin be sey u wan quick old see yo head like osama slippers bla bla bla I can never make the first move   |
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jassie
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@ibkaye
what if u have a strong crush on the guy?
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ibkaye (f)
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@ibkaye
what if u have a strong crush on the guy?
I still won't |
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studio43 (m)
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u can never make tyhe first move abi?, well, na grammar u still dey speak. u go smell am when e don dey burn. i like white chicks for that one. when they like you, they tell to your face and forget whats going to happen later on |
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ibkaye (f)
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u can never make tyhe first move abi?, well, na grammar u still dey speak. u go smell am when e don dey burn. i like white chicks for that one. when they like you, they tell to your face and forget whats going to happen later on burn for where? only for ya mind kudos to white chicks  |
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