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Suga4ya
My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email
« on: January 05, 2009, 11:10 PM »

My ex and I were together for 1year. He didn't treat me right in the beginning, but after I called him out on it he began to make amends. Nevertheless, the damage was done  and I resented him for his prior mistreatment towards me. In time he started to fall for me, but I couldn't get over his earlier treatment, so I began treating him badly as well. Eventually, he got tired of me not prioritizing him and he left. I was heartbroken, and went through the usual 'don't realize what you have until it's gone' phase. So I tried to win him back, but to no avail. He wanted to be friends, so I agreed. The friendship wasn't working, because you can't just switch from a relationship to a friendship immediately. Anyway, the breakup slowly started to take a toll on me, I couldn't eat, sleep, or function effectively. I realized that the only way I could get over him is if we went our separate ways. So I sent him a goodbye email. It was very sweet, wishing him luck in life and all the good things I'll miss about him, but he did not respond. Fellaz, I need you on this, why would you not respond to a goodbye email? Why not even acknowledge the fact that you received it, and respond with a farewell as well? Please inform. Thanks.
H2O2
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #1 on: January 05, 2009, 11:11 PM »

You said it was a goodbye email, how come you are still expecting a hello?
Suga4ya
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #2 on: January 05, 2009, 11:13 PM »

I'm not expecting a hello, I just thought we could disperse amicably. Why would you not respond to a farewell email?
davidylan (m)
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #3 on: January 05, 2009, 11:17 PM »

perhaps you are no longer important to him and he doesnt consider acknowledging your email a priority.
H2O2
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #4 on: January 05, 2009, 11:26 PM »

Quote from: Suga4ya on January 05, 2009, 11:13 PM
I'm not expecting a hello, I just thought we could disperse amicably. Why would you not respond to a farewell email?
We are broken up. For me, the best way to avoid tension is to avoid you at all costs.
But if it bothers you that much, go to his job, call him, bombard his mail box,  go to his house and ask.  Just don't be shocked if he thinks you are crazy.
Suga4ya
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #5 on: January 05, 2009, 11:31 PM »

H2

It bothers me because he practically begged for my friendship, but now he can't even say goodbye? I don't want to bombard him. I'm in the process of moving on, but I keep wondering why he wouldn't respond. I have no intentions of contacting him, but I just wanted some male perspective on my pondering.
tope2000 (f)
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #6 on: January 05, 2009, 11:35 PM »

I'm sorry but you shudnt have emailed him, i don't think deep down u  the email was really about goodbye Undecided thats why you wanted a reply, u wanted a reply saying oh i want u back blah blah Wink my advice is snap out of of it Wink
doyin13 (m)
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #7 on: January 05, 2009, 11:36 PM »

He has reached what professional romantic analysts, agony aunts and so on call the ''point of no return

Una relationship get more twists and turns pass snake and ladders.

He prolly thought the whole thing through one random moment and epiphanically screamed ''SOD IT''
Vonny
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #8 on: January 05, 2009, 11:40 PM »

Just move on, if he wanted to contact you he could have done so
Busy_body (f)
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #9 on: January 06, 2009, 12:06 AM »

Quote from: H2O2 on January 05, 2009, 11:26 PM
We are broken up. For me, the best way to avoid tension is to avoid you at all costs.
But if it bothers you that much, go to his job, call him, bombard his mail box, go to his house and ask. Just don't be shocked if he thinks you are crazy.

Speculative Angry SieveSelective memory Angry What happened to her right to closure like Lips sealed Lips sealed Lips sealed


                                    ~ Cheesy Grin Cheesy ~

busybein
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #10 on: January 06, 2009, 12:07 AM »

busybodyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy happy new year ooooo
H2O2
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #11 on: January 06, 2009, 12:08 AM »

Quote from: Busy_body on January 06, 2009, 12:06 AM
Speculative Angry SieveSelective memory Angry What happened to her right to closure like Lips sealed Lips sealed Lips sealed


                                    ~ Cheesy Grin Cheesy ~


Anuofia, mechie onu, ewu!
Busy_body (f)
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #12 on: January 06, 2009, 12:09 AM »

Quote from: busybein on January 06, 2009, 12:07 AM
busybodyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy happy new year ooooo


It's a lie Shocked you mean we have not jammed this year Embarrassed Happy new year Iyalode***, i am on my knees Kiss Kiss Kiss
Busy_body (f)
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #13 on: January 06, 2009, 12:10 AM »

Quote from: H2O2 on January 06, 2009, 12:08 AM
Anuofia, mechie onu, ewu!

 Obiii Tongue ko dun mi, i no sabi wetin you talk, so hin no pain me Tongue Tongue Tongue
tope2000 (f)
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #14 on: January 06, 2009, 12:14 AM »

Quote from: Busy_body on January 06, 2009, 12:10 AM
Obiii Tongue ko dun mi, i no sabi wetin you talk, so hin no pain me Tongue Tongue Tongue

Rofl . . . . . . Grin Cheesy

B.T.W H202 When did u learn how write in igbo Grin Tongue
H2O2
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #15 on: January 06, 2009, 12:17 AM »

Quote from: Busy_body on January 06, 2009, 12:10 AM
Obiii Tongue ko dun mi, i no sabi wetin you talk, so hin no pain me Tongue Tongue Tongue
rotfl o serious.
H2O2
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #16 on: January 06, 2009, 12:17 AM »

Quote from: tope2000 on January 06, 2009, 12:14 AM
Rofl . . . . . . Grin Cheesy

B.T.W H202 When did u learn how write in igbo Grin Tongue
Free me.  Help the poster with her question.
busybein
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #17 on: January 06, 2009, 12:18 AM »

busybody honey,u know u can always tell me to interpret for u,whenever one writes in igbo
doyin13 (m)
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #18 on: January 06, 2009, 12:18 AM »

Quote from: tope2000 on January 06, 2009, 12:14 AM
Rofl . . . . . . Grin Cheesy

B.T.W H202 When did u learn how write in igbo Grin Tongue

walahi talahi. . .

i could have sworn that was spanish
tope2000 (f)
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #19 on: January 06, 2009, 12:21 AM »

Quote from: doyin13 on January 06, 2009, 12:18 AM
walahi talahi. . .

i could have sworn that was spanish

Lmao . . . . . doyin r u high again 2nite Tongue Grin

Quote from: H2O2 on January 06, 2009, 12:17 AM
Help the poster with her question.

I have added my 2 cents Tongue
Busy_body (f)
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #20 on: January 06, 2009, 12:23 AM »

Quote from: busybein on January 06, 2009, 12:18 AM
busybody honey,u know u can always tell me to interpret for u,whenever one writes in igbo

I know babe Kiss but i knew what he posted was curse words, like I eventually did with Agaba123, lol Grin
H2O2
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #21 on: January 06, 2009, 12:25 AM »

Quote from: Busy_body on January 06, 2009, 12:23 AM
I know babe Kiss but i knew what he posted was curse words, like I eventually did with Agaba123, lol Grin
Mbanu, what I wrote was "I Love You". 
Busy_body (f)
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #22 on: January 06, 2009, 12:37 AM »

Quote from: H2O2 on January 06, 2009, 12:25 AM
Mbanu, what I wrote was "I Love You".

I have seen Jenny use the word "ewu" and "anuofia" before, and I am sure she was not feeling that person Cheesy does she ever, when is she not spoiling for a fight Grin Grin Grin

But I like to give people the benefit of the doubt, so I would trust you and pass on your romantic message to Morenike, I don't want her to step on me and crush me with her high heels Cheesy
busybein
Re: Guys Only Please --- My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email:
« #23 on: January 06, 2009, 12:40 AM »

Quote from: Busy_body on January 06, 2009, 12:37 AM
I have seen Jenny use the word "ewu" and "anuofia" before, and I am sure she was not feeling that person Cheesy does she ever, when is she not spoiling for a fight Grin Grin Grin


 Grin Grin Grin Grin I'm a changed person now,old things are passed away Cool

smone shout a thunderous hallelujah Cool
Busy_body (f)
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email
« #24 on: January 06, 2009, 12:47 AM »

Quote from: busybein on January 06, 2009, 12:40 AM
Grin Grin Grin Grin I'm a changed person now,old things are passed away Cool

smone shout a thunderous hallelujah Cool

We shall seeHallelujah Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
touchmeder
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email
« #25 on: January 06, 2009, 12:58 AM »

he treated me unfairly i spoke to him, he tried to make amends, but i cld not get over his earlier treatment, so he left, and you tried to win him back but it didnt work so we both agreed to be friends.

And now this good bye email thing girl the twists and turns in the relationship is unhealthy for both of you. some pple manage to remain friends with their ex but even this your own nor gree do. LET HIM BE, he has seen your farewell mail, mayb he sees no reason to reply, IT HAS ALL BEEN SAID AND DONE, this is a guy not a chick, has it occurred to u he probably has nothing to say to you, or does not want to say anything. This is a new year relax, u'd heal in no time.
doyin13 (m)
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email
« #26 on: January 06, 2009, 12:59 AM »

Quote from: busybein on January 06, 2009, 12:40 AM
Grin Grin Grin Grin I'm a changed person now,old things are passed away Cool

smone shout a thunderous hallelujah Cool

From Eshu, e turn to Luciferette
MoneyRule (m)
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email
« #27 on: January 06, 2009, 01:04 AM »

@ poster
he prolly doesn't know what to say or how to say it and that's why he hasn't replied.
I guess you are expecting a 'regret' mail from him so you can feel better and that's why you are upset he hasn't replied.
My advice to you;cut the crap and get over it! Even the world would one day come to an end!
benez6
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email
« #28 on: January 06, 2009, 01:13 AM »

we need to start givin out trophies for most ridiculous topic of the day,  yesterday it was mental virgin ,  today its acknowledgin goodbye email,    the guy doesn't deem it necessery to reply your weird email,  dunno y we r even respondin to your weird topic,  cum to think of it,  y did u send an email when there is SMS or even a fone call,  WEIRDO comes to mind,  Huh Angry Shocked Smiley Wink Undecided
touchmeder
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email
« #29 on: January 06, 2009, 01:15 AM »

Quote from: MoneyRule on January 06, 2009, 01:04 AM
@ poster
he prolly doesn't know what to say or how to say it and that's why he hasn't replied.
I guess you are expecting a 'regret' mail from him so you can feel better and that's why you are upset he hasn't replied.
My advice to you;cut the crap and get over it! Even the world would one day come to an end!


that got me laughing loud this night. phewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
Suga4ya
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email
« #30 on: January 06, 2009, 01:23 AM »

Benez6,

Please take your negativity to the nearest exit. Thx.
StephenP (m)
Re: My Ex Won't Reply To My Farewell Email
« #31 on: January 06, 2009, 01:24 AM »

He let you have the last word. What else do you want him to say? He's probably the kind who hates to play email tag; he responds, you feel compelled to respond and so the game continues. Get over him already!
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