If You Find Your Lover Kissing & Cuddling Your Best Friend

i'll open my mouth wide and back off the door

no point hitting..what if they were find in bed nko..im just gon back out de door..get home..hav a good cry..my boyfriend is  gon call me bk

ye,i pray am in agood mood then,if not i'll need a very good xplanation4dat..

It actually happened to me once, but it wasn't my best friend, just one of my friends(we where not so close). Anyway i walk in and they are so engrossed in each other that they do not notice me, i almost walk away when i change my mind. i wait for like the 2-5mins it takes for them to notice me, and when they eventually do. i just said "Sorry to interrupt, you can continue with what you where doing and i left" Well needless to say that was the end of my relationship with the girl, as for the guy, we still talk, go out and stuff, don't trust him though, but we are still friends. Afterall, it was the girl that agreed.

Arghh vexxy stole my answer. I'll deffinitely make sure they see me. When they do, I'll laugh like crazy and go out. 

I seriouisly will. I wont just cover my mouth with my hand and walk like i am retarded. I will laugh and leave. I will be laughing but it wont be funny.

That's the whole point. They should be confused. they don't know if the laughs means : I have forgiven them, I am mad at them, or i am about to go put their house on fire.  Not just a good laugh.. kind of like... Point at them, be walking back slowly and laugh crazy. 

Probably because the girl shouldn't agree no matter what. Both of them are to be blamed. But the girl kind of has more fault.

I really wouldnt cut them back. Like forget them. I'll just not be closer to them. I personaly take stuffs like this to be destiny. They r prolly meant for each other... But anyways it just shows who my friends really are. I won't lie, I have liked my friend's boyfriend before. Flirt.. but no kissing or all that rubbish. Stuffs happen for real.

  ooooooooooooooooookkkkkkay. And they still had the gutts to tell you??

Well, I suspected something because they were kind of acting weird and my bed was funky.  I approached her and asked her casually about it and she said nothing happened.  I told her that I'D already spoken to him (which was true but we didn't discuss this) and that she should tell me the truth.  That's when she thought I already knew so she confessed.

Why is it such a big deal anyway?

@tcherokee did your friend continue seeing the girl?

and why do you guys think its the girl's fault she might have honestly thought they had something real between them, i can't tell what could have convinced her to do something like that unless she absolutely had no scruples, and in that case you should have found out what kind of person she really was before you guys started dating. It hurts no doubt but humans will be humans so expect disappointment and pain

and forget all these cool calculated reactions you are playing out like crazy because unless you are, or have been in the situation you wont know what you are likely to do but for certain if you really cared about the person it would hurt like crazy.

Let's face it: unless you're married to your girl you can't expect 100% faithfulness from him or her.  She can be expected to meet other men and perhaps fall in love with them and go further to acts of affection.

If you want all her to yourself, go and marry her!  Where there is no ring, there is no bondage.  Same applies to men.

Seriously i will laugh. He already cheated.. he got the pass. Let him go on. I can't be with him any more. So.... why don't i just laugh my pain away! 

i'l call their names and greet them. like beyonce , jayz good morning. smile and get the hell out of there. that'l be the end of the relationship