How Can An American Girl Get A Nigerian To Be Serious About Her Past Just Sex?

@TaniCarr

Have you been with a Nigerian guy that treated you or thought of you
as a harlot ? OR are you just going by hear say ? 

sorry,,,,,,tell BET to stop presentin AA girls as booty calls and maybe that will help. Also NIgerian men mostly like family oriented women that care about his family as well, not one that will come in create a gap. In general Nigerian men prefer nigerian women because of the same reason that i am explaining this thread to u. NIgerian women just get it because they are nigerian u see?,,,,,,,

yeah,,,,,,one more thing,,,,,do u have a thick accent, as in a strong AA accent,,,,,trust me that might not be helping either

I guess it is difficult to shake off the stereotype conferred on AA women. Same as nigerians being labelled as scammers or arabs as terrorists. That's how our world is today, thanks in no small measure to the all mighty media. All i can say is just keep plugging away and you'll eventually get what you desire. The qualities you possess will someday attract a gentleman of similar character. Then you'll live happily ever after 

I do have to admit that the stereotypes that are portrayed against AA women are sad, but anybody who sees stuff like that on t.v. will always have that in the back of their minds even if they don't just come out and say that to you.

Your best bet honestly, is just to look for a guy that will love you, and I don't see why you feel the need to just limit yourself to Nigerian men when there are so many guys out there (I'm not knocking on my naija bros out there though  ) But just as you wish for Nigerian guys to open their eyes, you need to open your eyes as well that there are actually other guys in the world out there, and many that are perfectly capable of loving you just the way that you are. Don't keep chasing after something (in terms of relationships) that have failed many times before. Because if it's not working, then it's not working and it's time to move on and try something else.

But whatever your decision is, I wish you luck 

lol tanicarr, don mind those foolish naija men, what are they doing in church? pray that God will give u ur own non-419 man ojare

nigerian men are overrated, and i think most of them were naturally born with minimal brain damage.  hmm u sure u want that,  i guess just don't have sex with them

@katherinae

How dear you say such?

Ur Future Husband will surffer From minimal brain damage- May be ur numerous boy friends are overrated.

well katherinae
the problem is not with the men it is with the ladies, how ? u might ask
girls love guy that tell them lies and treat them shabily, u should ask your self how come u ladies don't fall for guys that treat u like a queen, an angel which u indeed are with all of your beauty.

well until women begin to follow their heart and sepreate real guys from quacks am hell sorry many will be treated wrongly and they  would be forced to generalise that all guys are same,

mind u your mr intelligent may or maynot be mr caring, mr loving, mr smouching, mr romantic may not be all u  think he can be but just note he might be mr loving.
 
take care and don't date dumb men your too beautiful

or Chinese Nigerians!!

 

Its like you have more to say, spit it out.

Who's the Nigerian boi that made you cry? how could he?

Mention his name and let me deal him a karate kick!!!

chiang??
haya!!!!

u need help
if u feel ghanian or whatever
are better than nigerian men
these days people don't generalize that way
did u do any research before
coming to that conclusion
u really,really need to be examined

Word! Like begets like.
The Person that complains that flies are becoming a nuisance should think more of what is attracting the flies.

I wonder how u arrived at this lopsided decision

katherinae

hey god know say u fine! your fine no bei small! can i give you a ride baby!

hey remember soldiers dnt joke around. hope you remember that one . however i must say that lips looks so appeallling to my satisfaction! no offence intended I'm only tryin to be myself well nigerian man ! hope you havnt got a problem with that

@TaniCarr

i posted this while you were away. i just thought i will bring it to your attention. Always good to have it at the back of your mind.

U said Nigerians believe that sex matters should be kept for marriage, well not strictly. It should be if u are a woman.

@TaniCarr

Ive followed your posts and i was quite impressed when u said that u knew how to cook some nigerian dishes eg Egusi. Looks like u have an open mind mind towards other cultures. It seems u are really intrested in Nigerians
  That said, if u want to do things do them because its what u want to do 4 yourself. Seems like all the things u do are influenced by what the Naijas do. Well if u finally end up with a Naija Manchester United should be straight but always have this in mind

IN NIGERIA THE WORLD OF A MAN IS DIFFERENT FROM THE WORLD OF A WOMAN.

for eg in your church now u have had to stay away from sex totally in order to build up your reputation
Does any man in the church have to do that for even a day in order to build up a reputation, NO Y? because he is a man
U mentioned something about your not beign a virgin beign a kind of a bad mark on u in their eyes.
is it so for any of the guys NO Y? because he is a man.

As long as u realize that that u have to be under certain behavourial confines because u are a woman then u are ready to deal with life with Nigerians in general. Goodluck too