How Can An American Girl Get A Nigerian To Be Serious About Her Past Just Sex?

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well i guess its complicated but some part of the African culture and Nigerians in general behave in ways that would make u wonder.

Maybe because some are brought up to actually think that beign a woman is a disadvantage.
Here are some of the things some nigerians believe about men and women that sometimes influnces the way he thinks because thatz whatz obtainable where he grew up. As a man he might feel like

1 I don't have to worry about beign devalued after having sex once.

2 I am not regarded as beign of higher value because ive not had sex and of lower value if i have sex once

3 I don't have to stick and cling to an abusive marriage because i fear that no other man will want someone that another man has used and devalued

4 I don't have to worry about living the rest of my life without good sex because even if i don't have  good chemistry with my wife, i can always have hot sexy momas outside giving me the real rubbish

5 I can always sleep with 42 women and marry  virgin and if she is boring in bed, i will have like 3 mistresses outside who will blow my mind   

WHAT A WONDERFUL WORLD THE NIGERIAN MAN LIVES IN 

So when he mixes up with women from other places, having been told that a woman having sex once devalues her, he finds it incomprehensible that a woman would be intrested in a man just for physical reasons.

He wants a submissive wife and a freaky mistress because he comes from a place where it is obtainable.

If his house and his car would be taken away from him (including part of his accounts) too like itz done in the west for infidelity, i don't know anyone will still be thinking like that.

its funi how oyibo man come in here dey fool some people! i mention eguwsi soup here time and time, so if he see am copy am and paste hey does that mean he knows about egwusi soup! we no wan double colonisation, no bi am

dnt give away ur birth right just like that.

katherinae are u in london

 well really am new here but i read some things said over here,  I jst want to add my own palaba because its really a shame the way we nigerians are treated outside nigeria,  We are ambassadors of Nija when we out but we turn not to deliver our promises ,  I want to which this person a very best of luk in what ever she choooses and aore to it,  Jst keep ur head up and grab d best guy 4 ur self even if he is not a nigerian because if he really loves u hell make u happy every day,

@Tanicarr

Nigerian men are not the only group of black men who attend church and  then want to turn around and have premarital sex. So if you are looking for a black man to not try and sleep with you because he is Nigerian or goes to church, you can forget it.

Also, AA men will try to use you for sex as well as the Nigerian men but Nigerian men also know that if a woman is weak, no matter if she is Nigerian or AA, it mite be a chance he can get some punnany from that woman. Nigerian women sleep around as well but in Nigeria, it is not talked about like gossip is in America.

There are some real good Nigerian men out there. Yes, you should just be your self and so far you are doing good because at least you don't think they are innocent just because they are Nigerian. Anything an AA man does, so can a Nigerian man do.

Don't let these Nigerian sisters in here try to make you feel like you can't be with a Nigerian man because you are not a Nigerian black woman. Black is black and to show you something interesting, even some Nigerians won't mess with each other because they are from different tribes. Consider yourself from another tribe. You are a black woman and of African descent. If Nigerian woman don't like you with a Nigerian to bad and tuff!

All that crap about Nigerian men prefer a Nigerian woman is crap. As long as you are family orientated, you will do just fine with a Nigerian man.

o superman

by the way i don't date nigerian men.  i have a lot of nigerian male friends and two very wonderful and handsome brothers who I'm constantly trying to give advice on how to treat women, and they do a marvelous job.  of course they themselves would prefer if i dated nigerian brothers but y the hell should i when i see what my guy friends do to girls or what my girlfriends go through, o and yes i do generalize so get over it or (BITE ME).

haha  k katherinae hha oh well i heard u so if u no de y date my side which side u de y date hmm hope u understand that

hnmmmmn,

xtremely possible.

Actually a matter of seeking for smtin from d right place n time.

gat loads of right thinking guys around.


YEA!!!!!