Ladies And Married Men

Who is to blame?
a single lady that agreed to date a married man knowing fully well that he is married, yes even if the unfaithful man came fooling himself after marriage, did he force the lady to date him?, i have a chance to say that the lady retains the decipline to say NO to him knowing the effect of such affair to the mans family, but she ignores and gives in, so whos at fault?

ofcouse yes i don't care who ever slept with her.

dnt forget hun,there are times when the so-called married men, wont just give the single ladies breathin space. _{them don marry ohh, but its never enough, hiss!}some ladies cheap shaa!

They are both to blame. 

Most married men offer ladies (most of the time young women)  materialistic things like (cars, houses, shopping sprees, travel packages and all these things) on the other hand, I think that a married woman knows her husband's cheating she just doesn't say anything about it most of the time.


But most married men i've met who do this, do it not because they don't love their wives but for the sexual thrill and excitement.

Makes sense but most men don't see it this way. The treat their wives well, give their wives everything under the sun and just ask for a tidbit of freedom.


Don't get me wrong I don't condone this but I know too many married men and this a huge part of their reasoning.

I love my wife but I need some _sexual excitement.

_{Do you think Elliot Spitzer doesn't love his wife or even the other democrat candidate his name skips me at the moment.}

I think thats why many marry women who sense their husbands are cheating most of the time don't ask questions,  especially if their husbands are giving them every materialistic thing under the sun.

That is why it is imporatant to make sure you take care of all of his needs.  

That way if he cheats then he just cheats and packs his bags knowing he traded in a great thing for a maybe f,uck in the street.

80/20 rule.

spitzer

good point but sometimes even "meeting all the needs" is not enough

That is why i said if he still cheats then packng his shit is not hard to do.  I can pack his shit knowing i have done all i can as a wife to please and take care of my man but he still wanted to go out there and get his d,ck wet.

Well, if you stay in the states, I think the husbands know their wives to an extent. He'd know what to say and what not to say.

I remember a married man was dating one of my friends. There was nothing he didn't give this girl. But then, he also gives his wife everything under the sun. In fact, I think that the wife knew of this romance.

Anyways sha, to cut the long stroy cut, the girl wanted him to marry her and all that jazz but he's like, do you know how much i'm worth if I leave my wife for you, I won't have any money so please leave me as I am,  (divorce and alimony payments and all that)

Anyways sha, they broke up and the babe is searching for her own property.

what do u expect from an American woman ,

L O L. meaning ?

many white Americans (_{I don't know too many black Americans married to Nigerian but}) white married to Nigerian men I know don't leave and yet they KNOW full well their husbands are cheating.

Do you mean Nigerian American ?

was tryin to say , you cheats , they are off ,

off to court
off to anywhere, 

And a woman is supposed to sit around and accept her cheating husband back home with open arms.  Plllllllllllllllllllleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssssssss sssssseeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!

Feed that BS to someone else.  I did it w/o you before you and i can do it w/o after you.  I will not lay down beside, kiss, love, f,uck, suck you, wash your clothes, cook your meals and cater to cheating man.  He can kisssssssssssss my high yellow ass.