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cutiee_xx (f)
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@ free, oh girl, u get anythin' else to say. na so i dey jam u for all the topics i don visit for this site, and na so so 'next' u dey say.  |
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kellorah (f)
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people with lack of 'handwork' post rubbish!! |
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Dime (f)
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oh i thought i was the only one that noticed that nonsense, free if you are bored that has nothing to do with us either you find something to keep you happy or you fade fast you are also wasting space. |
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naijacutee (f)
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Nameless, what I am going to say will be quite controversial but I'll say it anyway.
I'm not saying what this man has done is right. Because it is not. He has gained your trust by talking to you, pretending to understand whatever it is you were going through when you met him. This guy has kept up this game and when you were most vulnerable, he used you. That is disgusting, coupled with the fact that he is a so-called "Man-of-God"
However, this might be one pit-fall in this man's life. He might have backslidden since meeting you, he might be praying to God to save him from you. Or he might not. We will never know. We don't know what conversation goes on between a person and God in the privacy of their bedroom. Which is why I'm not quick to judge either of you.
However, you are making matters worse by sitting down and keeping quiet about the issue. If this guy is struggling with this, just like you are (if you weren't, you wouldn't have posted) then what keeps him doing this might be the fact that everyone sees him as a man-of-God, someone who can do no wrong and can therefore not be corrected. It is now up to you not to sweep the subject under the rug but to ask him if this is right in God's sight - Leading a young, unmarried young woman into sin. If he doesn't think he has done anything wrong, then suggest that you two should share a brief prayer whenever you meet and lets see if he will try to kiss/finger you after praying for God to "bless this meeting".
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Free (f)
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@ free, oh girl, u get anythin' else to say. na so i dey jam u for all the topics i don visit for this site, and na so so 'next' u dey say oh i thought i was the only one that noticed that nonsense, free if you are bored that has nothing to do with us either you find something to keep you happy or you fade fast you are also wasting space wtf  wot did i do, plz dnt get me started   |
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tonyobj (m)
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Iyemeeeee  !!!! "Lord deliver us from temptation!!!" U r both wrong my sista! Wetin u dey wait? Abi u wan get belle before u borrow sense? Have u ever heard about 'adultery' or r u willing to break up newly weds? U don't love him and he doesn't love u either. U r just 'friends with benefits'. Just there to fulfill each others erotic desires, though u haven't been living up to ur role in this r/ship. Walk away from impending scandal, my sista. |
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JustGood (m)
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make FREE go meet her own people if Nigeria people dey make am sleep
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dreban
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Nameless,d bible says "flee from d devil and he will flee from u"
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Belinice (f)
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@ Nameless
Youve got to stop going to that church
Ask God to forgive you because what youre doing is wrong,as for the pastor he is going to face the consequencies if not on earth it will be in hell.
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gbengaijot (m)
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@Nameless, from all you've posted, i strongly believe that you live in England and possibly London.
Please pleas and please, cut the relationship up. He is even a young pastor. don't ruin your life, you need to be in control of your emotion and not your emotion in control of you.
I will say again and again that you are very young, @ 22, and you are even going out with a pastor that is married, if everyone gets to know, you will suffer humilitaion and emotional hurt.
Back off nowwwwwwwwww, please back off,
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Dime (f)
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yes free fade fast! Okay guys lets stop picking on her she has apologize to me personally, so on behalf of free, i apologize to my peoples |
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Free (f)
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Dime ma sista u be funni plz dnt feed them lies |
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Free (f)
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cutie wot should i apologize 4 , plz tell me n' i will |
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OgaMadam (f)
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Amazing.
I don't think you need anyone to tell u - fact u asking conscience tells you its wrong. respect to Dvamp, gaby them for dropping it like its hot. I think they went straight to the point mince no words. NOW
RUN FOR THE HILLS AND GET OUT OF THIS MIRED DODGY TWITCHY RELATIONSHIP. ITS ON ITS WAY TO NO GOOD, ID GET OUT FASSSSSSSSSSST.
for other people, don't let other peoples expereinces give you an excuse not to go to God's house, just find the best place to worship HIM, but don't rule Him out just because of others, its an excuse.
I FEEL SO SORRY FOR THE WIFE.
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Name (m)
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No be small thing ohh, That pastor is evil and he is just looking for a way to have you as a sex partner. He started with Kisses ,Now Fingering after 2month Sex. and after every sunday after service you would meet yourself in a hotel room. LoL , Nameless, You better go find better boyfriend wey go take care of you, Use your head. |
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deejay1 (m)
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i don't reli see d point in not exposin this so called pastor usin d name of God 2 get sometin off u in a way. this is ganna ruin u with time if u don't stick with some of this advice
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tammy82 (f)
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Girl i am not trying to judge you, but i think your so called "pastor" is taking advantage of you. I will advice you to look for a better church and move on with your life, because he ain't never going to divorce his wife. Why are men so mean and full of evil? he has a wife to go home to and he doesn't want you to have a boyfriend! I'll advice you to read between the lines he is only trying to mess up your precious life for his own selfish reasons.
Well, all i will say is" a word is enough for the wise". Please be smart don't let a useless man take away your joy. If you can, reconcile with your ex, because he never deserved to be dumped the way you did.
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MP007 (m)
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You made ur choice, u know its wrong but u keep doing it, u just basically enjoy ****, don't be acting all ignorant ,
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sisqology
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Gurl,simply tell d pastor to mess off! He is only tryin to gt advantage of ur cunt, simply bone him and look for another man and another church.aint u beautiful? C'mon kip off and find another game
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Epon Agbo! (m)
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me tinks u r tellin a big lie.
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dankmen208 (m)
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You are nothing but a sinner, how on earth can you date your Pastor!!! Look hell is your Home since you had the mind to seduce the (so called) man of god. Run away from Sin my dear and cahnge for better.
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wham (m)
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@darkmen
Are u many? (your name says "dark men 208").
This thread had long died. Why revive it?
Maybe the silly author is changed now. (Though I feel it was just a fake nollywood tale)
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fabulous10 (m)
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My dear nameless!!!!something like this happen to my neace, she cliamed to be pocess or something. My Anuty took her to one apostolic church in bariga. After casting out d demons, d pastor descided that she should spend more days in d church with him.Days turned to weeks, weeks turned to months, as i tell u, she has spent a year with the pastor. Even the pastors wife has left him, she cliams that d pastor is having an affair with my neace. My anut has gone there so many times , but d stupid girl has refused to come back home.
its a shame with how some pastor tend to use the name of the Lord to commit evil deeds.
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dada22 (m)
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girl u need a total overhauling & maintenance in your life.I imagine a young girl that has been abused & just when she
thought it wuz ova,her messiah puts her in deeper cage & confused state.
my dear,u need a single real man,responsible & God fearing,
let me break it down like this:
REAL MAN:he's got a decent job,u trust him & he cherishes u
RESPONSIBLE MAN:respects u,listens to u,advises u & makes u love yourself
GOD FEARING:prays with u,makes u love God & will not lead you to sin
last note:it may take a while of waitin,but God 'll surely bring this MAN your way,mean while watch & pray while making reference 2 The BIBLE, You R BLESSED 4 sharing your experience
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ndumart
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@Poster
I doubt if that Guy is a real pastor. He's married and still engaging in some stuffs. I believe you should find a way of stopping that act with him or better still look for some other church to go. That guy will stop you from having a man of yourself and he wont marry you also, so you lose at both ends.
It could be pretty difficult for you to disentangle yourself but you just have to start now, the earlier the better
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biife
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dear,
since this is a church thing, carefully consider what the scriptures say.
first corinthians six verse eighteen; ephesians five verses three to seven.
so, what can help after establishing your guilt?
i think confession is vital and true repentance is inevitable.
confess to whom? a spiritually mature person, who will help you
and the pastor to get out of the spiritual and moral wilderness you\'re in.
someone who\'ll solve the issue without raising more dust.
something to ponder on:
how will you feel if you were the innocent wife
of the pastor?
do you think it\'s true love for a man to break his vow to his
marriage mate?
do you think he\'ll not eventually fail you too?
don\'t you see the relationship as an illusion?
act wisely and very fast too!
and as a postscript: is fingering not sex? not a sexual act?
it is!
may God help you out.
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Iyanlax
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Your post sounds like a fantasy from your diary  However, I give you the benefit of the doubt. My friend, get out of this church and report him, What kind of pastor is this. Omo I beg, don't let him abuse you any more. Please read Corinthians 2, CH 11. Adultery, False Prophets! Galatians, Corinthians 1  For you my dear, read Proverbs 31. |
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