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Jezzy (f)
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@Poster,where is this man's wife as both of you are playing okoso with each other?Na you be the only sista wey need counselling for that church,eh?He's even had the guts to tell you that he would have married you had he met you before his wife.Kai,have you no sense?He is married,so keep off.There are other places of worship in your area are there not?Move away from that church since you don't seem mature enough to tell that louse to keep his fingers to himself.That you are joining him in this act of blasphemous rebellion is sad.If you are genuinely a christian,repent and live your life like a christian woman should.
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nancyekpoh (f)
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Hi Nameless,
I can't be a judge over two of u, but if i should say something, i will tell u that what both of u are doing are wrong, he called himself a pastor let him be sure of himself and where he is heading to. Unless u like this, but if not i will advice u talk to him and tell him that this is bad let him stop the act beside he is a married man. Confess ur sins to God with a broken hearted, the Bible said in the book of Psalms that a contrite and a broken heart, God will not despise, so he will forgive u.
U have ur own life to live he will not marry u so try to avoid that kind of act with that so called pastor.
Hope God will see u through.
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larrygold
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Hi nameless,i suggest you really have to change your way`s your pastor is more than a sinner i guess and he keeps taking advantage of your present and future on through your body ,girl wise up please before it`s too late.
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SOJ (m)
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I kind of read this post late but i gotta say that the poster is in a real quagmire here (pigdin: wahala!).The so-named pastor is using all his resources to manipulate and control this girl, both spiritually and emotionally.Nameless is held in emotional hold the pastor has on her by filling a gap left there by someone( probably her father/mother). From what i can glean from here,she lacks a father-brother-figure and this she interpretes as a desire for intimacy from a male.And who is in the best position to offer that other than the one she regularlr confides in and shares her deepest Thoughts to! She probably has no friends of the same sex she confides in and keeps men at arms length because of this "pastor". Well, the unanointed "Man-Of-god" has identified this and is using it to his advantage. Nameless, if u get this know the hard truth: Your pastor is simply using you to satisfy his uninhibited sexual fantasies.Ask yourself why you should be the object of his fantasy and not the wife he placed at home;who he claims to love? Might not be too late to change, take the step u think is best!
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skfa1
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Hey sister thats not good o , The best thing to do is to run away.For him to be fingering you or what ever shit then you can tell thats not a pastor OK?
don't allow him to be fingering you again cause there is fire on the mountain run run run.
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sessytony
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by not having sex with u i don't think it is fornication or adultry. because i don't think romancing is a sin but a gateway to sin. so u hgave opened ur hell gate down get rid of the pastor and report him to the congregation and wife and carry on with ur life
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Busta (f)
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lol, this topic is still on?
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stag (m)
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lol, this topic is still on?
 but if it is .@poster better run now and start your own life because calculating he's made u stay away from the search for ur own man for about two years now |
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Qby
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Eh ya Nameless. Pele(sorry) Pastors have done much worse to me o. I no fit laugh. NO be small thing. I aint proud of it and I pity the “men of God” involved but it helped me build my faith (of course that was much later). I trust no one and don’t listen to dogmatic crap from anybody (including pastors). I respect and love God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. The Bible helps a lot for guidance n I pray wella. So girl dust yourself; men are men, whether pastors, gigolos, presidents or boys. them be dogs. hahahahaha. He’ll just mess up your life and still ask for forgiveness. Look for another church (like me) and move on. There’s no path or future for you there.
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adeboo (f)
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Woman of God don't think anyone is going to judge u.
That Pastor is just bone faced wrong!
He used his position to take advantage and he shouldnt do that.
Girl and u have to careful - do not even try to tell the Pastor's wife cause she will not understand o - she will call u a jezebel that is seducing her man.
What i feel u should do is get maybe a pastor that ur pastor respects - someone he is close to maybe his mentor and speak with him.
Girl its so unfortubate that he is like that - God is not in anyway like that so don't use him to judge God He is so not like that.
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omogenaija (f)
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@ nameless u know what u n ur "pastor " are doing is wrong , we don't need to tell u that .  @ others don't think this story would make a huge hit in Nollywood, omotola being nameless , pat atah as the pastor  |
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tulk2mi
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Could that man be a pastor? don't honour him with that name.
U said u missed ur church, i ask again can a blind man lead a blind man? it is not the church ur missing it is d man who called himself pastor.
The bible said " by their fruits u shall know them" refering to people who will claim that they know did lord but r agents of the devil. what is not of God is not of God n u case is a typical example.
My heart is bleeding for the other members of that church.
u took a decision to be born again, u forsook so many things to make it rite with God, this one other thing u need to forsake i mean ur feelings 4 him. Open ur mind and look for a God fearing youngman but don't make d mistake of casting him in the mould of ur so called pastor because no other man will measure up. i hate to admit it but girl u hv been used and abused. whether u want to remain that way or not is ur choice. SO EXERCISE IT
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Abuseay (m)
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Nameless, Change your church, or else hell is inevitable, the reason why u gave ur life to christ is eternity, don't loose it.
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megaboss
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Small girl de wound Pastor of doom and she de feel guilty.
The fool pastor is also married for pet's sake and you de
wound am. I wonder how many innocent girls that pastor
of Lucifer has wounded, do you know? Na God go judge all
una.
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lolly pop (f)
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i believe your pastor is just trying to use your head.there are some questions that you are supposed to ask yourself
first,is he a real man of God for him to be kissing you when he's married
secondly,are you the only girl he's doing these to
the reason why am telling you to ask yourself these questions is because my pastor in my former church was also like this,infact he's not a preacher but a teacher if you know what i mean,he's a kind of person you could fall in love with easily and he's good at what he does.he makes his members feel loved and you get very close to him,before you know what is happening you can't do without him infact he leads your life and tell you what to do per time.am a very curious person so i took my time to study him because its a new generation church and you don't know which is real,what i know about him his members that have been there for years don't know.i got to know that he has dated more than half of his members thou in his case he was divorced.he dates them promise them marriage,sleeps with them and dump them.all in the name of i don't want people to know the girl would not tell anyone.since no one knows about the affair the pastor would move on to the next person and the same thing would happen again.if you want to try it out i could give you the name of the pastor,church,address and you culd worship there for just a month and you would see for yourself.so you need to be carefull and set your priorities well maybe you are not even the only one he's doing this to
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kalmebad (f)
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@ Topic and Poster
I don't kwn why Seun should not delete this thread of finger-fucking, rather he sometimes deletes the ones that make more sense
I have never been this hard in my responses but i will at this particular topic
U notice his d, pressing hard on u on the day he tried drawing u closer to himself and yet u didn't take to your heels, was that not enough sign,rather u assumed ignorance of his intention.
What born again as u claim will be going to swim alone with her pastor after the first time with the wife
What little child at ur age will go meeting her pastor at odd times, and allowing him in alone in ur apartment?
Girl stop crying wolf here, u enjoyed every bit of it of his advances from the inception,and if u ask me,u encourage more of his action.
May God forgive him otherwise it's enough to ban him from heaven and for u, i dnt kwn the moral justification u come seeking. Was the fact that he was married not an enough clue for u to keep a distance from him?
Ur story is so annoying, but in all never too late to ask God to forgive both of u and if u kwn wats good for u, re-trive ur step before it gets late or the wife gets to hear about it. May God have scandalous mercy upon u both.
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nyabinghi (m)
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Where is Davidylan. He should come and see this post.
This story moved my body, e be like say i dey watch them.
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