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Jezzy (f)
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@Poster,where is this man's wife as both of you are playing okoso with each other?Na you be the only sista wey need counselling for that church,eh?He's even had the guts to tell you that he would have married you had he met you before his wife.Kai,have you no sense?He is married,so keep off.There are other places of worship in your area are there not?Move away from that church since you don't seem mature enough to tell that louse to keep his fingers to himself.That you are joining him in this act of blasphemous rebellion is sad.If you are genuinely a christian,repent and live your life like a christian woman should.
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nancyekpoh (f)
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Hi Nameless,
I can't be a judge over two of u, but if i should say something, i will tell u that what both of u are doing are wrong, he called himself a pastor let him be sure of himself and where he is heading to. Unless u like this, but if not i will advice u talk to him and tell him that this is bad let him stop the act beside he is a married man. Confess your sins to God with a broken hearted, the Bible said in the book of Psalms that a contrite and a broken heart, God will not despise, so he will forgive u.
U have your own life to live he will not marry u so try to avoid that kind of act with that so called pastor.
Hope God will see u through.
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larrygold
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Hi nameless,i suggest you really have to change your way`s your pastor is more than a sinner i guess and he keeps taking advantage of your present and future on through your body ,girl wise up please before it`s too late.
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SOJ (m)
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I kinda read this post late but i gotta say that the poster is in a real quagmire here (pigdin: wahala!).The so-named pastor is using all his resources to manipulate and control this girl, both spiritually and emotionally.Nameless is held in emotional hold the pastor has on her by filling a gap left there by someone( probably her father/mother). From what i can glean from here,she lacks a father-brother-figure and this she interpretes as a desire for intimacy from a male.And who is in the best position to offer that other than the one she regularlr confides in and shares her deepest thots to! She probably has no friends of the same sex she confides in and keeps men at arms length becos of this "pastor". Well, the unanointed "Man-Of-god" has identified this and is using it to his advantage. Nameless, if u get this know the hard truth: Your pastor is simply using you to satisfy his uninhibited sexual fantasies.Ask yourself why you should be the object of his fantasy and not the wife he placed at home;who he claims to love? Might not be too late to change, take the step u think is best!
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skfa1
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Hey sister thats not good o , The best thing to do is to run away.For him to be fingering you or what ever shit then you can tell thats not a pastor OK?
Dont allow him to be fingering you again cause there is fire on the mountain run run run.
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sessytony
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by not having sex with u i dont think it is fornication or adultry. because i dont think romancing is a sin but a gateway to sin. so u hgave opened your hell gate down get rid of the pastor and report him to the congregation and wife and carry on with your life
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Busta (f)
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lol, this topic is still on?
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stag (m)
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lol, this topic is still on?
 but if it is .@poster better run now and start your own life cos calculating he's made u stay away from the search for your own man for about two yrs now |
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Qby
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Eh ya Nameless. Pele(sorry) Pastors have done much worse to me o. I no fit laugh. NO be small thing. I aint proud of it and I pity the “men of God” involved but it helped me build my faith (of course that was much later). I trust no one and don’t listen to dogmatic crap from anybody (including pastors). I respect and love God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. The Bible helps a lot for guidance n I pray wella. So girl dust yourself; men are men, whether pastors, gigolos, presidents or boys. Dem be dogs. hahahahaha. He’ll just mess up your life and still ask for forgiveness. Look for another church (like me) and move on. There’s no path or future for you there.
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adeboo (f)
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Woman of God dont think anyone is gonna judge u.
That Pastor is just bone faced wrong!
He used his position to take advantage and he shouldnt do that.
Girl and u have to careful - do not even try to tell the Pastor's wife cause she will not understand o - she will call u a jezebel that is seducing her man.
What i feel u should do is get maybe a pastor that your pastor respects - someone he is close to maybe his mentor and speak with him.
Girl its so unfortubate that he is like that - God is not in anyway like that so dont use him to judge God He is so not like that.
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omogenaija (f)
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@ nameless u know what u n your "pastor " are doing is wrong , we dont need to tell u that .  @ others dont think this story would make a huge hit in Nollywood, omotola being nameless , pat atah as the pastor  |
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tulk2mi
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Could dat man be a pastor? dont honour him with dat name.
U said u missed your church, i ask again can a blind man lead a blind man? it is not the church your missing it is d man who called himself pastor.
The bible said " by their fruits u shall know them" refering to pple who will claim dat they know did lord but r agents of the devil. wat is not of God is not of God n u case is a typical example.
My heart is bleeding 4 the other members of dat church.
u took a decision to be born again, u forsook so many things to make it rite with God, this one other thing u need to forsake i mean your feelings 4 him. Open your mind and look for a God fearing youngman but dont make d mistake of casting him in the mould of your so called pastor cos no other man will measure up. i hate to admit it but girl u hv been used and abused. whether u want to remain dat way or not is your choice. SO EXERCISE IT
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Abuseay (m)
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Nameless, Change your church, or else hell is inevitable, the reason why u gave your life to christ is eternity, dont loose it.
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megaboss
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Small girl de wound Pastor of doom and she de feel guilty.
The fool pastor is also married for pet's sake and you de
wound am. I wonder how many innocent girls that pastor
of Lucifer has wounded, do you know? Na God go judge all
una.
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lolly pop (f)
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i believe your pastor is just trying to use your head.there are some questions that you are supposed to ask yourself
first,is he a real man of God for him to be kissing you when he's married
secondly,are you the only girl he's doing these to
the reason why am telling you to ask yourself these questions is because my pastor in my former church was also like this,infact he's not a preacher but a teacher if you know what i mean,he's a kind of person you could fall in love with easily and he's gud at what he does.he makes his members feel loved and you get very close to him,before you know what is happening you cant do without him infact he leads your life and tell you what to do per time.am a very curious person so i took my time to study him becos its a new generation church and you dont know which is real,what i know about him his members that have been there for years dont know.i got to know that he has dated more than half of his members thou in his case he was divorced.he dates them promise them marriage,sleeps with them and dump them.all in the name of i don't want pple to know the girl would not tell anyone.since no one knows about the affair the pastor would move on to the next person and the same thing would happen again.if you want to try it out i could give you the name of the pastor,church,address and you culd worship there for just a month and you would see for yourself.so you need to be carefull and set your priorities well maybe you are not even the only one he's doing this to
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kalmebad (f)
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@ Topic and Poster
I don't kwn why Seun should not delete this thread of finger-fucking, rather he sometimes deletes the ones that make more sense
I have never been this hard in my responses but i will at this particular topic
U notice his d, pressing hard on u on the day he tried drawing u closer to himself and yet u didn't take to your heels, was that not enuf sign,rather u assumed ignorance of his intention.
What born again as u claim will be going to swim alone with her pastor after the first time with the wife
What little child at your age will go meeting her pastor at odd times, and allowing him in alone in your apartment?
Girl stop crying wolf here, u enjoyed every bit of it of his advances from the inception,and if u ask me,u encourage more of his action.
May God forgive him otherwise it's enuf to ban him from heaven and for u, i dnt kwn the moral justification u come seeking. Was the fact dat he was married not an enuf clue for u to keep a distance from him?
your story is so annoying, but in all never too late to ask God to forgive both of u and if u kwn wats good for u, re-trive your step before it gets late or the wife gets to hear abt it. May God have scandalous mercy upon u both.
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nyabinghi (m)
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Where is Davidylan. He should come and see this post.
This story moved my body, e be like say i dey watch dem.
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Honeyboy09 (m)
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Na Wa ooo , Pastors of Nowadays , God have mercy , You are both wrong in the Highest order, Pastor Indeed ,
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twigblu (f)
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You no well!seek delivrance,pastor dey do u,u sef dey do your self
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IFELEKE (m)
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My Oh My!
@Poster,
You need deliverance and special sessions with a good counsellor.
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estrella (f)
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human passions are the most difficult thing to combat once you become born again, This pastor brought you to Christ but you have to remember that the bible says you should work out your salvation with fear and trembling.what you and the pastor are doing is plain wrong and you have already attracted a curse to yourself by even letting a married man invade your space, forget the fact that he is even a pastor, you need to get out of that church, if your right hand causes you to sin,cut it off, it will be painful for you considering that you already have feelings for the man but you shouldn't let him destroy your relationship with God, Ask yourself this question, if you were the wife of this man,would you want another woman taking away his attention?, when you are on the verge of making headway,the enemy always comes to distract you, the man is a distraction, your boyfriend of four years may have been the person for you, you didn't even state why you left him, don't give the devil victory, its the message that counts not the messenger, you can hear Gods word in another church, Flee nameless, just flee!!!!
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sylve11
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@estrella, well said  |
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jamace (m)
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Sister Nameless, run for your life. The pastor is after your apples. If he succeeds, God will chase both of you out of paradise.
Sister, it is high time you lectured the pastor on his role as a pastor. It is obvious that he has derailed from his pastorship.
Know it now that he will not marry you after tasting your apples. Your spirituality will diminish just like his.
Final word: Just flee from that devil of a pastor.
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Dayco (m)
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Damn, !@Anonymous why do you prefer to stagger,revolt and spark people's imagination and opinion.WOO TO YOU AND THAT YOUR SHAMELESS ADULTERER YOU USE YOUR ROTTEN MOUTH TO CALL PASTOR. KAI, ! UNLESS YOU REPENT MAY GOD PUNISH YOU FOR YOUR IGNORANCE. EVIL GENERATION WORSE THAN SODOM, Must you sucuumb to meet your sin partner's carnal pleasures in other to survive? Look,this is worse than prostitution you know,your type are uncountable in this very site.No wonder some girls understood you or rather your evil relationship with a married devil incarnate in human flesh.Well,i'm not that surprise ''sign of the end time'' Is it not written in proverbs chapt.11 vs 6 that "the righteousness of the upright will deliver them,but the unfaithful will be caught by their lust" if i were in your shoes,God, ! This is incredible shame to you it's taboo to christiandum.
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Dayco (m)
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Damn, !@Anonymous why do you prefer to stagger,revolt and spark people's imagination and opinion.WOO TO YOU AND THAT YOUR SHAMELESS ADULTERER YOU USE YOUR ROTTEN MOUTH TO CALL PASTOR. KAI, ! UNLESS YOU REPENT MAY GOD PUNISH YOU FOR YOUR IGNORANCE. EVIL GENERATION WORSE THAN SODOM, Must you sucuumb to meet your sin partner's carnal pleasures in other to survive? Look,this is worse than prostitution you know,your type are uncountable in this very site.No wonder some girls understood you or rather your evil relationship with a married devil incarnate in human flesh.Well,i'm not that surprise ''sign of the end time'' Is it not written in proverbs chapt.11 vs 6 that "the righteousness of the upright will deliver them,but the unfaithful will be caught by their lust" if i were in your shoes,God, ! This is incredible shame to you it's taboo to christiandum.
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d-angel
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follow your h@ nd listen 2 your concience
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enjeria (m)
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Conji and church don't mix,
Close your eyes and run, sex is sweet it would tell u things that make sense, don't listen to any heart or anybody, run and save urself shame and embarassment, u might find your true love soon,
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topup
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Stories like this make me feel sad.
No man of God, should be doing such a thing. You sound quite young and possibly naive, but I want to reassure you that you are right to think something odd of this, this is wrong. It is immoral, it's not right for him to be chasing you. He is simply a man who is giving into his urges - you would think that because he is a pastor and has more to lose that he wouldn't do such things, especially when he already has a wife - but I guess anything can happen in life.
It is wrong because:
- As a Christian he is committing repetitive sins by allowing his desire for you to grow and he sounds like he's grooming you, the way he asks you out, keeps you from other guys, it's all a tactic to make you fall helplessly in love with him.
- He should not be doing these sexual things, let alone thinking them, especially as he has a wife. He has already committed adultery and that is a sin. He has disobeyed one of the 10 commandments.
- You shouldn't trust your pastor more than you trust God, do you realise that the sexual stuff you're doing with him is wrong? If so, you know what to do.
Please, I urge you to take time away from church to read your bible, in the meantime, you could join a prayer group or meeting so that you still regularly socialise with likeminded Christians and true believers.
I think a change of church is even appropriate.
You also need to ask God for forgiveness, please, I know that you might have not been aware of the sins, but they are sins nontheless, it really seems like you were groomed, you were guided along this path.
*If I get my hands on that 'pastor'!!  *
Since I believe that he's grooming you, I don't believe he was grooming you so that his goal would be to finger you, I believe that eventually he would like to have sex with you. Please consider his wife, please, what if you were her, she doesn't deserve this. You deserve a true man of God, a true follower of the faith, not this guy who's using it as an excuse to get closer to you.
Please, not everything that feels good, is good.
Shame on this man.
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Outstrip (f)
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Nameless you are sleeping with another woman's husband. Respect yourself and go get your own. This is so wrong. Not only are you sleeping with a married man you are also being part of his stupid decision to destroy his ministry. God hates adultery. Don't put asunder what God has joined. Next time he is fingering you think of the verse that says that you will reap whatever you sow. For your sake stop this nonsense. It is not worth it.
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