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uchetobi (f)
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its good to hear guys saying they are virgins @Layi. I'm proud of you 
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goodguy (m)
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I'm a virgin too!!! 
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uchetobi (f)
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don't we all wish. LOL
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goodguy (m)
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what do u mean?? I'm one for real.. 
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Greatpeter (m)
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If everybody is claiming virginity then I'm one 
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goodguy (m)
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good for u  But really, I'm not claiming it. I am a virgin for real..(case closed!  )
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nferyn (m)
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Why do so many people over here claim pride for being a virgin? It is neither positive, nor negative, good nor bad. It is a non-factor.
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goodguy (m)
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Well, here in Africa, especially Nigeria, if a man maintains his virginity till he gets married, he's usually treated with more respect than those who've "uselessed" their lives at the early stages. Same thing goes for the women too.
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nferyn (m)
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Well, here in Africa, especially Nigeria, if a man maintains his virginity till he gets married, he's usually treated with more respect than those who've "uselessed" their lives at the early stages. Same thing goes for the women too.
OK, point taken. What's the cause of that belief Do you think that's a universal truth?
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goodguy (m)
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Nope. It's not something based on truth or otherwise. It's just the regard people will have for you when they find out your wife is the first woman you touched.
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nferyn (m)
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Well, I take fun over respect. I want the respect to come from other accomplisments, not my sexual abstinence 
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goodguy (m)
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Lol 
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CimonJorr (m)
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What defines "too much sex"?? 
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goodguy (m)
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too much sex - when u continually have sex with ur partner every now and then.
When women have so much desire for it, we call them "Nymphomaniacs"
When men have so much desire for it, we call them "Satyrs "
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Greatpeter (m)
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goodguy knows it all.
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Greatpeter (m)
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goodguy knows it all.
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nferyn (m)
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too much sex - when u continually have sex with your partner every now and then.
When women have so much desire for it, we call them "Nymphomaniacs"
When men have so much desire for it, we call them "Satyrs "
Just get a "Nymphomaniac" and a "Satyr" together and you'll get a perfectly happy and - especially - satisfied couple 
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bagoma (f)
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no! don't say satisfied because these ones are never satisfied. thats why they are called such, they keep craving more and more. certainly not satisfied. more like kill each other! 
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muhyi20 (m)
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I see nothing bad in this act in as much you have the energy to satisfy the woman.
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CimonJorr (m)
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Oh.. so sex is allowed.. and the problem is only when the sex is "too much"...  too much sex - when u continually have sex with your partner every now and then.
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goodguy (m)
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I only answered the question you asked, .. duhh!! 
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meme
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having sex before marriage depends on individuals, what works for me might not work for you.
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nicetohave (m)
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marriage is honorable in all but let the bed be undefiled
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kenflavor (m)
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ehen. Ok, go on sohun 
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goodguy (m)
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marriage is honorable in all but let the bed be undefiled
Abeg help me tell them again jo! 
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nicetohave (m)
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whats the problem GG, you've been behaving bad?
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