Having 'Too Much Sex' With Your Wife-to-be (or Husband-to-be)

Abi na village girl you want marry? I have wasted my time. Even ladies in religious cycle do longer wait till the wedding night.

Too much sex with your wife to be(or husband to be)....hmmmmmmmmm......will b back

@hnd i always like your contributions this way, it makes me laugh.

@fifi please come back and say something don't just shy away like that.

I repeat sex can't be too much for real lovers.

Jumfol should be married woman.

I smell it in her post, wrong?

still Sex?....  sssssseeexxxxxxxxxxxxx

Greatpeter, you are wrong! I am not yet married. But I am suggesting what a decent man should do to his wife to be.

You've all bn trying 2 redefine sex.

Now, let me tell you som'. Sex is a natural phenomenon. It's trigered by a driving force of nature and if that girl or guy really qualifies as your wife-to-be or husband-to-be, then you can't always resist the desire to have sex when the urge comes.

Hello Guys,
It's quite unfortunate that the age in which we live has succeeded in throwing away morals for illicit sex.
We have thrown away our dignity for 'Oyinbo' live style. 
My humble advice to whoever cares to listen is to go back to root and avoid sex before marriage, this way we can restore our lost glory and also help in securing the coming generation from destruction.
we can still do it again if we choose to.

Many thanks

Found your discussions very lively. I'm a Nigerian outside the country.

When we speak of pre-marital sex we must not look to what we think, or what others have experienced but rather at the sex's manufacturer's instructions.

You know that if you bought a piece of electronics the best place to recieve direction for maximum satisfaction from the equipment is the manufacturer's instructions book.

So what does the manufacturer of sex - God, our creator say about pre-marital sex? He says it is evil. He says it is not good. So if you want the maximum satisfaction from sex wait and faithfully enjoy it within marriage.  I have been married for 12 years after courting my wife for 5 years without indulging in fornication (the Creator of sex calls all sex outside marriage fornication). And those five years helped us build a solid foundation of friendship that has blessed us a lot.

Five years without sex  ..hmmmm............. and i've been seeking for such Grace.
But tell me,..... 5 whole years, where u guys in a distant r/ship or just masturbating[sorry o]

I think henry has a problem that needs to be dealt with.  If he gets tired of his women just after having sex a few times, it definitely will continue after marriage.  So, my dear get help; don't be ashamed to do so.  Trust me.

AM a going to ROAR at someone soon

Besides nobody said anything about being desperate toget married. I'm justb 19. still have 6 confortable years to spend before thinking about it
though i wish i could get maried tommorrow

@uchetobi u are just 19 please ooh my advice to u better keep it... like u said u still have 6yrs to go...

But truly, come to think of it; I think Henry has a problem an I quite agree with saalma.

Onething Henry can do is to totally overhaul his orientation and change his mind set about this thing now. because if he doesn't do that, the problem will still raise its urgly head after the some much cherished wedding. If "too much " is the problem, then may I ask what he intends to do in marriage? Henry, oya.... Are u going to starve the babe to death with sex when you eventually get married so that you wont get tired of her?

please try it with all conciouseness of the problem at hand and with the serious mind set of never to get tired. Get attracted to her by something else other than sex and lets see whether you are still tired of her.

Waoh, this is a very interesting topic but there are a lot of questions to be raised? Firstly, pre-marital sex is not absolute though God commanded us to refrain from it but if you look at our society today more than 50% of our ladies have engaged in one pre-marital or the other and what most of them do after the expiration of the so-called time of  ignorance is just to join a bible believing church, get hooked to an innocent guy and now try to convey the God's commandments to him so  that he won't find out until probably after marriage.

I know a story of a brother that was forced to obey God's commandment against premarital sex by a sister only to to regret the action after the marriage. I think you understand what I mean. The guy felt deceived and believe me the marriage is still in shambles till today.

In conclusion God's commandments are for our good but there are a lot of people that have defiled themselves and afterwards start preaching abstinence until after marriage. Premarital sex could be to measure up the degree of compatibility of both partners if it matches the  relationship  goes on if not it stops. Honestly, sex is not anything in relationship but it is something that cannot be de-emphasized