Beware Of Nigerian Men!

Nigerians, please stay away from our women. I have heard enough stories about you people coming here, marrying our women and taking them back to Nigeria to be house maids.  Some of you are doctors, others are here illegally.

Please be warned that Nigerian people are inherently corrupt, ugly in spirit, will do anything for money, deceitful and are very good at hiding their true nature.

I have not had the misfortune of being with a Nigerian man, but I have heard enough stories, and gotten enough references  about these disgusting Nigerian people who come here and pollute our country with their trickery.  We have enough to deal with.  Right now there are a bunch of you in prison waiting to be deported.

I am not a hateful person, but the more I learn of Nigerians, the less I like their nature.

It is true, the Igbo is not the Ashanti, all africa is not the same.  Poeple who are look for a Nigerian mate, be warned, be careful, these people will even do witchcraft to get what they want.

Peace,

Beautiful Trinidad

It's actually not that stupid. I have seen other people on this site talking about nigerian men.No one ever comments on the women,maybe they are good.The men are very tricky and if you don't have a spirit of discernment you will marry one thinking he is your one true love and later on find out he has a wife back home or girlfriend that is waiting on him and things like that.I don't think that most of them have the fear of God because they can get married and in their minds say it's not real and deceive the girl,they are not even afraid. It's one thing for too people to know they want to do a fake married and go to the court house and sign a paper it's another thing when he allows you to stand before God in his house and flat out lie that he will be with you forever or until death do you part.Know that is scary  

@Zulu Why you responding like that? Are you o.k. it's only a post.Girl get a life!How you know she fat.She might be able to still your man.You people are funny! LOL

Sometimes its the womens fault. The see the demon they are getting married to and go ahead.
You know a good friend  i had was going out with a Nigerian , and this man told her so many lies.
I kept telling her but she did not want to believe.She even claimed they will go back to Nigeria after the marrage. I ask her what she wants to do in Nigeria with out any skills.
I think this is common sense that any woman should know everyother thing is just deceiving onesself. i even went as far as telling her her sister will be better off in Nigeria because she is a backer and with that skill she many even end up making more money than her husband.
You do not just marry a man with out knowing the back ground.
The advise my mum used to give German girls in those days was to go and live in Nigeria for some time before getting married. But in those days people were not marring for paper
I ask were are the mother father friends of your "so poor victims" when they are jumping into the hell fire

yes sure u can go on and on! please go on sexy!

@ to all


You guys need to check things out more carefully and stop being so emotional. I think this woman is trying to promote her www.ghanaweb.com page. If you go to her profile, she has the website posted in there. I went to the website, looks interesting but It only has 88 registered visitors and 695 post. I think she may be trying to get some of you to come over there. On that websited it asks for people to leave their opinions on what they think about Ghanians. How about that, she comes to a Nigerian forum to get people worked up and then she is promoting a Ghanian website in her profile. This is just something for you guys to think about. This does not mean go to that site and be tit for tat.

I think she may be trying to promote the Ghanian web site 

Sista,

What a foolish assumption.  The only reason that webiste is there is because my fiance is Ghanaian, and I have friends there. 

But thank you for taking the time to read my profile.  I didn't even remember putting the webiste there.  In fact, what you have inadvertantly done is what you accused me of doing, only I wasn't.

You people are reading way too much into this.


Let them attempt to insult, everyone is free to give their version of what they consider to be an opinion.  Isn't that what this is all about? Certainly doesn't affect me one bit, otherwise I would have done them the courtesy responding. 

Only the truth offends, and it shows their level of maturity and intellect.  Why bother with them?

So if it doesn't bother me, don't let it bother you hon. 

I know what I say to be true.  Since you're enjoy following me around "Sis", read all my posts and you will see.

Kindest regards

my naija peeps you all will do well to ignore this thread. This girl is calling out for attention and you all are giving it to her.

@ Trini



If you read what I said about you in other post "Nigerian Men And African American Women" you will see that I defended you until the end.

My only reason for trying to get them to look at your profile was to detour them away from the emotion they were expressing. You are right, this is a free Forum for all to come to and say whatever they feel but you also have to understand, there are young people who come here. You seem to be mature so you have to show by example. When you generalize, you make it seem as though you have encountered all Nigerians. For some young Nigerians who have not mastered how to deal with a generalization, this can be very emotional. Your method may need a little tweeking.

But, I do agree with a lot that you have said.

My only things is, not all Nigerians are like that. One bad Nigerian or ten bad Nigerians should not make it bad for all of them. Black women period need to be conscious of their choices in men. It does not matter the nationality.

@ Blue


Blue, what are you talking about? If you look at all my post, I put everyones name in bold to catch their attention. It is easier for people to hurry up and see who my response is to.

I separated my statement because I was starting a new statement, didn't want to have the statements all cluttered. Blue, don't ignore what I said after that which was,



Blue your just a little upset and I don't blame you. However I do understand what Trini has to say as well.

Nice Thread

@ Blue



It does not make sense to claim this site as all Nigerian. It is not mature to invite people in and then when they say something you don't like you want to say this is a Nigerian site. What you are doing is no different from what Nigerians do when they get to America. They talk bad about A.A and then they come to America and benefit from the fight and struggle A.A fought to get equal rights for. The civil rights movement A.A fought for and died for, rights no Nigerian fought for or died for but they still benefit as black people when they come to America and yet they claim that they are not our brothers and sisters. Some of the Nigerian men use women to get those benefits and that is all it is to it.

I don't have a problem with helping my Nigerian brothers out. Me my self, I don't see a problem with marrying them to help them get to America but I would rather help them knowing their true intentions. I would not want to be tricked or used. If I am being used at least let me know that so we can make this a business deal

So, the woman can go where she likes and say what she wants to say, all she is doing is talking. Nigerians come to American and talk about A.A all day but they still benefit from what A.A fought and died for. Now how annoying is that I ask you?

Just trying to get you to see it both ways. We all get annoyed but that does not give us the right to censor and individual. Censorship is definately a form of racism because it say unless you do what we see fit, we will get rid of you, that logic is played out and ridiculous.

This seperation between black people is also very annoying, we fight like little children over what someone said.

We have other things we need to direct our attention to like what is going to happen to Africa in the next few years, will blacks even be able to stake their claim that Africa belongs to them? Or will black people continue from Africa seeking the easy way out instead of building up Africa?

@ Chinani




The point is black people and Chinese people do not have the mind set to create weapons of mass destruction, it is not in their nature to do such things. However, the white man has gained power through the use of his weapons and through the use of his weapons he will keep the power making him the only racist in this lifetime. Therefore, black people and chinese people will forever be incapable of being a racist. If black people did get a chance to be racist their only beef would be with white people and they would be justified in having that beef. same goes for chinese people.

You just proved my point also, Trini is not a racist because she does not have racism=prejudice+power all she has is her mouth which spurts out her opinions.

I personally think it goes this way prejudice+ power =racism

You can be prejudice all you want but if you have no power, you can not be a racist. The power is what enforces the racism. People will have to accept your racism and be below you because you have the power which is the money which was gained by weapons.
 

@Superman



Why am I a fake sista?

men this thread is becoming too stupid

@ LAKERS

it is somewhat important that we do not sweep dirt under the mat, but clean out the issue once and forall. It is better than for people to hold grudge and descretly persicute a member of the society.