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texaschick (f)
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Help me please, my friend wants to know wether to stay or leave her new boyfriend but not sure wether he's a control freak  . please. help her  she doenst know what to do, ladies guys please help her . |
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Ugwumba (m)
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Help me please, my friend wants to know wether to stay or leave her new boyfriend but not sure wether he's a control freak . please. help her she doenst know what to do, ladies guys please help her . so, what exactly does he do to make her think he is a 'control freak'?  |
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Seun (m)
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How come you're not sure?
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kiki (f)
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all i'm gon say is if she thinks d guy is 2 controllin for her ther is no point in movin on with him because it ain't gon work out anywayz because one day she gon get tired of his little controllin ass and decide to cut him i just hope it ain't to late by then
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texaschick (f)
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she told me he doesn't let her make decisions and always telling her " I got it don't worry " . he picks her outfits , tell her where to dine and so on . |
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kiki (f)
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oh well maybe the guy is trying to show he is caring but she thinks it is controllin all she got to do is tell him u they really need to talk about it and tel him she got it she can handle herself he ain't got to stree himself that much u know somtin like that i don't think he is controllin like that
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lionheart (m)
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Hmmmm I suggest she nips his behavior in da bud quickly! with candour and humor , let him know that she has ideas too, and if the 2 of them are to have a chance at being in a relationship , she expect to contribute or be an active participant. The way he responds to her clarification on this matter will be a good indication of how flexible he is and whether he believes she should be equally involved in planning shared activities, then she will know wether to stay or let go the relationship. |
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kiki (f)
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hey lionheart where u been wll just sayin hi
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lauryn (f)
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*clears throat*
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texaschick (f)
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kiki i think he 's controlling , he tells her what 2 wear and where 2 eat dinner or which rstaurant to go at all time, lol i can't take that from any guy , lol nice respond lionheart |
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lionheart (m)
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LMAO @ lauryn  chillin kiki  ty texachick, just looking out |
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kiki (f)
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@lionheart
Kool
@texaschick
yeah he might be controllin to an extend but he might not know he is controlling he might think he cares so all they need to do is talk d girl need to tell him i got this thanx 4 carin and all but i ca do it my self i've been doin it 4 i met u and i can do it now 2 it all about conversation
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edygirl (f)
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You should discuss that with him. Tell him you don't like it and let him know how you would prefer to be treated then if he doesn't stop it, you drop him like it's hot. Otherwise if you wait so long it's gon' be difficult for you to let go.
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spade (m)
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boring, boring, boooring!
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agnesoseka
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i think so too!!
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agnesoseka
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i think so too!! yawn yawn.
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Free (f)
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how can U not be sure if hes controllin |
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