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NotShy2Ask
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I notice that people like to listen to a good first time story and some virgins are curious but are too shy to ask anyone.Tell us (men arre encouraged to post) of how it was before during and after.Did it hurt?did you do something stupid?Was it you mate or just someone you got hot for?Nairaland needs to spice up the topics,come on people lets share. My first time was when I was 15. I had a boyfriend who I thought I was in love with.One day we were skipping school and we went to the beach.No people where around because it was earlyin the morning.We watched the sun come up and then we started kissing.Nest thing I know I told him I was ready to have sex.He was like,are you sure?I said yes,then I took my pants off and he put the condem on and he tried to put it in and it wouldn't fit. He had to use only half of his privates because it was obviosly too tight.It didn't even feel good to me and after we had finished he tried to make me feel happy but I couldn't believe what I had just done. :oThe nest few time hurted really badly and after about the tenth time of doing it,it started to feel good.All of my friends couldn't believe it when I told them what I had done.
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ufemia (f)
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15   ? Na waooooooooooo!
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LanreDaMan (m)
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well that story is quite Unbeleivable.
I had sex for the first time on my 23rd birthday last year when I was serving.
Beleive me you don't want to how it happened
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LoverBwoy (m)
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lanredaman u couldnt get it up? at the age of 23 wow no wonder there are so many aggressive people in lagos 
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nike4luv (f)
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don't laff at him because he got disvirgined on his 23rd, um lanre u have a lot of self control, well done
@ topic starter, it sounds like this story i read from this book [blue moon], nice atmosphere but wrong place for what you did!
and i get scared, does it hurt as much as everyone make it out as, with the blood and crying, jeez!
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Uche2nna (m)
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Well you think 23 is kind of late.I got disvirgined (if that is politcally correct) on my 24th birthday
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nike4luv (f)
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see!, its all about self control that the laughers don't have,  am proud of U guys jare, hope you did it with someone that was worth it 
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Uche2nna (m)
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well I never really enjoyed it.it was like wham bam thanks ma'm, kind of thing.If you get my drift
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nike4luv (f)
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 most stories i hear about teenage boys getting disvirgined is that they do with someone older than them to 'teach' them and stuff and they 'enjoyed it' @ uche were u glad to get it over with [because u wrote wham bam]
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Uche2nna (m)
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No not that.It was just i was so nervous.Can you imagine,at 24.So I did not do much experimenting
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ifemuonso (m)
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Believe it or leave it, but it was heaven, especially because I had the right kind of girl, but also because here, things like sex just have to be near-perfect. Otherwise, you're meat for the neighbors' next breakfast gossip.
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nike4luv (f)
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@ Ife, yeh france, funny thing! @ Uche, nothing to me worried about, the only thing you have to care about is that its right, doesnt matter even you are 40 [u watch the 40yr old virgin film]  , might be quite embarrassing if the other party is experienced, mhm sticky, u gata be afraid you don't stick it in her ear or something 
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Uche2nna (m)
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Well it was the first time I made love and you might believe it or not it was the last time since 4 years
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nike4luv (f)
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awww, eh ya, go knock up some booty! go tap some  um, on second thoughts thats a bad idea sorry 
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ifemuonso (m)
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@ Nike: Funny, maybe to you, but to me funny is one thing it wasn't. It was heaven because she enjoyed it - or so she said to make me feel good and to keep my bubble afloat - To me, heaven was one thing it definitely wasn't. Funny? Not on your life. Was embarrassed as hell. Had to force myself to look her in the eye afterward and tell her I'd had a good time (while I had one loud voice in my head telling me she'd had a good time making another black feel stupid)
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Uche2nna (m)
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I think i will go with the first advice, but only one problem , very few black ladies where i live and abolutely no nigerian ladies
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nike4luv (f)
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maybe it wasnt what you want, why would u tap someone if you didnt want to  , anyways, there always another chance good luck  um, uche, u r in de usa, there are blacks anywhere, um, good luck [booty call?]
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Uche2nna (m)
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Do not sound so crude.I was trying to say that at 28 I am still to have a meaningful relationship
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ifemuonso (m)
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There was the glamour - the hype: everyone's done it. U've not. Plus every blackman's dream is to lay a French girl. I've grown up since then, I guess, but even now, I still blush through my blck skin at the thoughts. Nice topic, but I think I'm done on this one
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LoverBwoy (m)
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uche visit the village sometime soon, then you will have meaningful relationships
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Uche2nna (m)
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Very funny.Anyway i can not right now.My programme in the US runs at least for 5 years and i am just in my first.Anyway what about UHow was it your first time
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LoverBwoy (m)
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you can't leave us till you finish you degree?? My first time hmm great was smiling for the whole week 
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Uche2nna (m)
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Lucky you , and of course the dude.So are u still with the same guy
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nike4luv (f)
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@ uche, i aint crude, its jus that-- [i'l jus shut up] 
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LoverBwoy (m)
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Lucky you , and of course the dude.So are u still with the same guy
guy? guy? guy? hmm no wonder u aint been in a meaningful relationship nope I'm not with the same GIRL 
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aloib (f)
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i was bout saying is lowverboy gay now, lol
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NotShy2Ask
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Some of you guys are cool. I just widh you would be more open instead of letting others know you don't like the topic.come on people,live a little!!!No one knows who you are. Do you think I would write these topics if you people knew me? I dare not try it  . I just like to have fun.
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LoverBwoy (m)
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i was bout saying is lowverboy gay now, lol
 come onnnn now don't make me go aqua on you 
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LanreDaMan (m)
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Mo money ,
You shouldnt make so much noise. I probably had sex with your Girl (Yes that Girl you love So much) Beleive me I might have dissapointed her the first time but When I got my act together Well she doesnt think I am a baby (Go on Ask her)
JUST JOKING 2
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