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soko (m)
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My name is soko. I love the forum too much.
Please advice me, because I need money to further my education. She said that I should sleep with her before she will release the money.
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adesodgi (m)
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Ye! u r a lucky guy o,sleep wit ar and go2church for confession am sure God will understand ur situation,wot does she look like i hope not a bag of rice o..
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layi (m)
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Why go to your brother's wife for money in the first place?
**What if it was a test between her and your brother OR her only?
**What if u get caught...maybe not redhanded but later?
**What if she refuses to give u the money after d act?
Its risky bro. don't do it. Go meet your friends or brother. someone else would help.
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vexxy (f)
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I must agree with Layi here.
This is not a situation in which you'd like to take part in. Anything can happen. If you respect your brother, if you respect yourself, if you respect the institution of marraige don't do it.
Surely there must be another way, a better way to get money for college. Weigh the rest of your options, this one should definitely be scratched from your list.
V
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hot-angel (f)
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Ohh don't do that... Just have faith and God will help you. Please don't sleep with her.
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Scorpio (f)
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One word, RUN! run like you're running 440 or wtv race they do nowadays, but don't sleep with her abeg. Instead ask your brother for the money, he will not understand 3yrs from now if he finds out that u've been/are banging his wife.
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hipcaramel (f)
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i totally agree with Layi. don't do it, please. u're not sure of getting the money even after u've done it and if u don't get it what would u have gained. ask yourself WWJD(what would Jesus do)? He too was tempted by the devil to turn stones onto bread(He had just completed a fast and was very hungry). He didnt give in; instead He overcame the temptation with the Scripture and after everything, angels came and attended to Him. Hold on to God. He sees your heart and knows your need(s). u will overcome and He will send an angel/angels to attend to your every need(s). be strong.
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Greatpeter (m)
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Ye! you're a lucky guy o,sleep wit ar and go2church for confession am sure God will understand your situation,wot does she look like i hope not a bag of rice o..
Ha! what an advice? Soko please for God's sake don't ever do it. But if you think you can play with fire without being burnt go ahead. But sleeping with your brother's wife won't fetch you the money I bet you. It will complicate your predicament. God will be annoyed with you, and He suppose to send you a helper but if He is annoyed with you now how will you get His attention? Do not do it so you don't incure His wrath. |
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adesodgi (m)
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i agree wit with of ya,i think i was talking out of ma ass,hey man be prayerfull and you will have a miracle i bet.......
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angela k (f)
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Na wah oh! which kind wahala! na you cause am. If you were ugly would all this happen? Well take it easy, fine boy, plenty trouble. Just ensure that you don't ever sleep with her. Be careful boy!
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exu (m)
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I hope this is a bad joke...
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casper (m)
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don't sleep with her please oooo remember seun's joke about his girlfriend's sister and trying or should i say testing him for temptation it miight just be that kind of situation that is about to occur here in other words IT MIGHT BE A SETUP to test you don't do it plsssssssss
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Sir Kay (m)
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Layi has said it all, please stay off. God will provide money for you miraculously
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nddy (m)
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why is everyone saying what if it is a test, what would bring up such test ? I know its wrong but if you gat issues with your brother try to settle it, I don't think sleeping with his wife would solve anything. If it was just his girlfriend, i would have said, try it out, but no we are family and i think its more important than an outsider
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uchesco (m)
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Even if it is the girlfriend... it will be DANGEROUSto try it... But the story really sounds too scanty, why would he have to contact the brother's wife instead of the brother??? Does he have any beef with the brother, or did the brother travel and leave him in the care of the randy wifey?? Me thinks there is more to this than meets the eye...
Soko should explain the matter well
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nddy (m)
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my own issue is this test of a thing
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tulex (m)
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[i][/i][b][/b]well u didn,t tell whether ur brother is alive.
if he is why should u go to his wife for money
its not appropriate. if he's alive please don't sleep with her
2:if he's dead u might want to sleep with her-besides her hubby has past away
its not adultery
3:before sleeping with a woman she has to posses the factors u require in a lady
so is she sexually attractive?
if yes then don't hesitate.so
u will sleep with her only on the condition that ur brother is dead, and the woman is ok by you
and please don't forget ur condom
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kazey (m)
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hmm, I don't believe . Before it was my step mother. Soon it would be my sister wants to sleep with me. Lets get real, Nigerian women are not desperate, and if they are, there are guys always willing to provide such service.
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timmy (m)
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sleep with her now!! sho, wetin dey there?
Guy if youve got the gutts do it, nothing dey happen, sin is sin, as long as ure a sinner go all the way to commit more, just make sure she doesnt enjoy it so she wouldnt ask for more
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jenny247 (f)
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c'mon men.. do you want to sleep with her?
why didn't you ask your brother for the money afterall he's the one you have the relationship with.
get the money from another source and leave your brother's crib..
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loveth (f)
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Abeg don't do that oooooooooooo is not good at all.ok?
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SALIMAN
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Don't allow him.  |
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bagoma (f)
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if this's a true story, i don't think its a test. to what end? what would give them the right to want to do that?
having said that, please soko, don't do it, regardless of the temptation. she is family and its wrong from every angle. what if she asks for more.
don't complicate your life with this "small" act. you can't wipe off history.
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goodguy (m)
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Layi has completely said it all. sin is sin, as long as ure a sinner go all the way to commit more We all should be looking for ways to reduce our sins and not increase them. The fact that we all are sinners doesn't give us the priviledge to commit more sins. Infact, the more we commit sins, the farther God stays away from us; hence, the slimmer ur chances of meeting your destined helper in life. Remember, on the judgement day, if your "bag of sins" weigh more than ur "bag of righteousness", u'll be thrown into hell fire! So please soko, remember the story of Joseph in the Bible. |
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holyghost (m)
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well life is like that but can u take it if you were to be your brother?
that is just the common law that all of us have do to others what u wish them to do to u
now its up to you will u do it? yes yes yes yuor guess is as good as mine.. fire do burn
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opeyemi (m)
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Bro, I beg u, please don't do it. Layi has said it all.
go to someone else for the cash or go and carry pon-pon to raise the cash. But why must you go to your brother's wife when your brother himself is there.
Just thinkin......... what if the story goes like this: That your brother is in jand and u requested for money which he gave through his wife here in naija' bust she wants to heve u to release the dough.
My response to that is that you should halla ur brother that she has refused to release the cash and try as much as possible to paint the picture so bad that he should not want to send it tru her Ask that he send it through other means but not her. Questions may caome up or he may ask his wife. Decline to tell him the real story (and be sure she will never say the truth).
I believe that, depending on how well u handle the matter, you will get the cash without going to her again.
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opeyemi (m)
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Or say you brother don pai (God forbid) and she seems to be the last resort.
please still don't go to her again for the cash but look else where.
I'm damn too sure that you will get this money without going into her. please. beg if it comes to that or go do conductor self instead of going into her.
If you dare go into her, u will lose more than you will gain..... Yuo may be caught, she may get pregnant, it may be a plot against you, both of you may falling love/lust and not be able to stop it easily.... (please count the consequencies).
Stay blessed and remain sharp and prayerful.
opesar
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goodguy (m)
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true talk  |
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Greatpeter (m)
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I will rather say this man is the one that wants to sleep with his brother's wife.
Iwa ika ni mama se.
It's bad, don't do it.
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Motee (f)
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I know good looking guys who do Conductor's work to send themselves to school so therefore do not bother about who to pay for your fees. Infact it shouldn't be an issue.
I can feel it so strong in me that you are also not interested in her!
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