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kemisuga (f)
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What is the BIG DEAL about Sleeping around? Is it that compulsory?
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techzone
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'Break' is just a break. Rest and treat yourself. Don't get involve with nobody else. It is OK to have friends during that time but be careful not to mess up.
A 'break' can strengthen your relationship with your partner if you guys get back together.
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jintujinta (m)
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Break! Well, it depends on what a break means to the parties involved. A break to me means no more relationship. If that is it, then each one is free to pursue his/her dream independent of the other. Nevertheless, one can not rule out the possibility of reconciliation. So if they eventually come together later, it shouldnt look as if they had a short break to resume later but that somehow, fortune or love or whatever has brought them together again. Nevertheless, i think a break shouldnt be encouraged, when the partners still want each other because a little crack will soon enlarge to a big hole and later a gulf between them.
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omosoul (m)
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Hey u guyz should cool off a bit  abi no be wen we dy break we dey chop  I SWEAR! THIS NA AMEBO JIST!!! |
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tulk2mi
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I cant understand y we called it a break if d option of seeing somebody else is not there. what is a break in d first place, is it not to re-evaluate your feelings, check if it is worth sticking around after all that u invested in the relationship? 4 d fact dat we agreed 2 go on a break means somthing is defintely goin wrong in d relationship. Besides while on a break anoda relationship will definitely show u d depth of your feelings for the one u r on a break from. so 4 me it ALRIGHT to explore while on a break. 4 those of u clamouring dat u will definetely go 4 good, just know dat it wont make much difference cos while on break your spouse will definetely get used to not seeing u n if d nu person is hmmmmmmmmmmm then inflation don hit your "i'll go 4 good" cos d value don depreciate.   |
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ashe2 (f)
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my ex once told me he tot we shud go on a break and i was like do i look like a snack i mean relationships are like marriage- befores u know tryin to check if it would actually work out that sort of tin i neva do understand d break because most relationships i know dat go gor break never resume from those breaks some get promoted others get demoted.so your bobo suggest u shud go for break dont bother about that relationship wat is it dat u pple cant settle that he tinks going on a break is d solution, sis delete dat number, go shoppin and get a new nick name start hangin out more meet new friends and move on i advise.if he wants u bak he will come toastin all over sometimes i wonder wat men think they are? they want abreak i mean sistas in the house how humiliating are u some kind of pest or wat?
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ibkaye
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What is the BIG DEAL about Sleeping around? Is it that compulsory?
THANK-YOU! |
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ashe2 (f)
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my ex once told me he tot we shud go on a break and i was like do i look like a snack i mean relationships are like marriage- befores u know tryin to check if it would actually work out that sort of tin i neva do understand d break because most relationships i know dat go gor break never resume from those breaks some get promoted others get demoted.so your bobo suggest u shud go for break dont bother about that relationship wat is it dat u pple cant settle that he tinks going on a break is d solution, sis delete dat number, go shoppin and get a new nick name start hangin out more meet new friends and move on i advise.if he wants u bak he will come toastin all over sometimes i wonder wat men think they are? they want abreak i mean sistas in the house how humiliating are u some kind of pest or wat?
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smurf (f)
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chamotex (m)
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Please if your gona have sex, use a condom!! |
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bigboyslim (m)
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It's called a break because both parties still have it at the back of their minds that there is a possiblity of getting back together after the break is over. Sleeping around during the break ultimately compromises the essence of the break. The break is supposed to help view your relationship from an outsider's perspective. A period of deep reflection to help you determine what went wrong and things you feel you can do to make it right. Sleeping around during that time will definitely cause more harm than good and so it should not be done.
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