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TEASEME2 (f)
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I am not the only person that has discovered this, i have realised that most Nigeian guys (the ones that live in Nigeria) are so rude , Its either they lack home training or prolly the forget about home training as soon as they leave there fathers doorstep. I went to Nigeria recently common *thank you* is too much for a Nigeria guy to say , let alone please. I must say that you lot have no respect whatsoever and thats why i can never date any of u because i can't stand your gut, Ladies any experience of this sort please share it here lets teach this guys some respect ,
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Busta (f)
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I take that back. As for Nigeria guys in Nigeria don't know bout their rudeness or attitude but i know some of them or most of them abroad can be rude at times too and very pompous!!!
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dynamo2000 (m)
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Guys in Nigeria have too much to worry about these days hence no patience for anyone or anything else…especially respect. To say the least as these guys only respect money period*  |
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TEASEME2 (f)
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@ dynamo2000 , guys in nigeira have too much to worry about right? saying thank you or please takes less than a millisecond so i really don't get your point saying having too much to worry about makes there lips tooo fat to say thank you . If they only worry about money let them go a** there money period
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HH (m)
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@dynamo2000
Kudos, like u read my mind
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HH (m)
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if you gave someone money or a gift and he dint say thank you, too bad, otherwise, would someone just see you and say thank you or please?
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TEASEME2 (f)
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its not about just giving gift, i mean showing common courtesy, i see you don't get it and am not gonn bother explaining
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clocky (m)
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@Teaseme.
What is it with u and nija guys. the other time u said they are not good in bed now u say they are rude. Abeg take your time o else i will deal with u the niaja way
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kiki (f)
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girl i feel u on this they just think because they r a guy they r errtin and wellive bot been to nigeria yet since i got here but they got that pride in them i'm a guy and i can't stoop that low attitude
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Damsal (f)
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girl i feel u on this they just think because they r a guy they r errtin and wellive bot been to nigeria yet since i got here but they got that pride in them i'm a guy and i can't stoop that low attitude
Word!!! I don't know if it's about them living in Nigeria or not but some of them are so arrogant and rude and dynamoo2000 them having too much issues is not excuse enough for them not to courtesy, but then i've met a couple of them that are such darlings and example is Walelead (hope he deosn't see this might get too big headed) he's such a gentleman |
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omonozozo (m)
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An Asian cab driver, asked me one day if I am Nigerian. I asked why? He said because you are huge and polite.  |
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Damollar (m)
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its not about just giving gift, i mean showing common courtesy, i see you don't get it and am not gonn bother explaining
@teaseme2 - mayb u not just been specific and outspoken. What really is your problem with Nigeria smart guys? I can sense a feeling of not been secured in u. r u sure a Nigeria smart sharp guy is not all u desire? |
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clocky (m)
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@Damsel I am even more gentle than walelead. seriously |
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Bossman (m)
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I Will not necessarily say it's just Nigerian Guys. It's just the culture in Nigeria. If you have lived in this part of the world for a substantial amount of time and got used to the culture here, and you visit Nigeria, you will observe that kind of behavior from anyone. But, not necessarily just Nigerian men. You really can't compare the kind of service you receive here to what's there. Actually, customer service exists very minimally out here. Not, that any one is wrong, it's just the culture. But, as time goes by that will change. At least some of them thank you now when you buy food at some of the joints. There was nothing like that in the olden days. But, it will eventually get to acceptable levels.
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don jazzie (m)
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NA WAH OH  |
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ckenneths (m)
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Rude or not, I still think they are best in bed or what do you think ?
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kiki (f)
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Rude or not, I still think they are best in bed or what do you think ?
u kiddin rite |
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Bhola (f)
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It is called cultural differences. I don't understand why people don't take the time to learn about others. Saying thank you, (from a guy) is not our culture. Is it wrong not to say thank you when something is done for you, hell yeah. Should you generalize because of that and say Nigerian men are rude, hell no.
You have to treat people as individuals. Learn to be tolerant as well. Believe me, it goes a long way.
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Busta (f)
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Rude or not, I still think they are best in bed or what do you think ?
wish harder  |
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lauryn (f)
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Hell no!  |
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Damsal (f)
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@Damsel I am even more gentle than walelead. seriously And just as modest.  . |
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TEASEME2 (f)
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@ clocky , they are not good in bed and they are rude , period .
at least i have someone feeling me on this topic someone like kiki, damsal
@ damollar, trust me i don't want you guys in anyway
@ ckenneths , sorry am i seeing double, your status is set to male how do u know nigerian men are good inbed can u clarify, is thats a mistake or are u queer
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Damollar (m)
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@ damollar, trust me i don't want you guys in anyway
@Teaseme2 - sure u don't |
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manakins
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Nice reply busta. Suppose TEASEME2 was mingling with the wrong crowd, OR You are just a whitie person that is opinionated about we correct nija niggers. Well we could do without one of us that doesnt believe we are civil,cultured and above all well mannered.
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Damollar (m)
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@teaseme2 - If a Nigeria guy was 2 u, it just
means that he wanted to get rid of you,
You need to think about how the interaction
went, and TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for the behavior and
communication that made him rude.
Again, think about it and make improvements.
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Raymand (m)
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*PLEASE*, Just because he's Nigerian doesn't make any diffrence!! we're all humans, sh*t happens! DEAL WITH IT and move on. . . if you don't like the way the guy treated you, talk to him, communicate!! it's a free world, you don't hold back and then come on to the internet and generalize!! and ohalmost forgot. . . *THANK YOU*!! |
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Roscodaddy (m)
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Wetin Nigerian Men do una for this room,if one nigerian man offend you,or he no gree look your side as you dey scope am no vex,na wetin sef,haba,our Nigerian women love us as we dey oh,even oyibos sef dey use eye find us,we too much.Please and thank you.
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Felo (m)
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It all depen on the angle you view it from or may be from personal experience as a result of temperament or social function or better still too
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edygirl (f)
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I think the problem here is that in Nig not only the guys but females too, when they ask you for money or anything,in their mind they have already known what to expect from you and whereby you give them below that they will be busy cursing you in their mind instead of saying thank you.
Once you are in USA, they don't care all they think is that you have money without knowing that you don't, that everything you make goes on bills and you can't explain that to them, they don't understand. So my dear that's the only reason they don't say thank you. I know for sure that it is in their nature to say thank you but due to their insatiability, they don't. As for being rude, some guys are really idiots.
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Damollar (m)
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It all depen on the angle you view it from or may be from personal experience as a result of temperament or social function or better still too
@Felo - I think u have an idea of what you're saying. She has a made up mind bout Nigeria guys and here u are trying 2 console her with your sentiments. A lot of guys have learned that being "nice" to people makes them "like" you. Unfortunately, no one has ever told most of us guys that making a woman LIKE you isn't very important. Making a woman feel ATTRACTION for you IS. So whats d need MRS. TEASEME2? |
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En1gmat1c
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Let me try and understand whats going on here,
some girl comes on a Nigerian messageboard, makes a broad statement that 'NIGERIAN GUYS ARE RUDE' and wonders why, with the kind of attitude she's displayed why people are rude to her.
What puzzles me though is where are her family from, are they Nigerians, do they live in Nigeria, do they have men, are they rude?
Are all Nigerian Girls Stupid? No, I seriously doubt it, but some people take the biscuit.
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