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Damollar (m)
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Let me try and understand whats going on here,
some girl comes on a Nigerian messageboard, makes a broad statement that 'NIGERIAN GUYS ARE RUDE' and wonders why, with the kind of attitude she's displayed why people are rude to her.
What puzzles me though is where are her family from, are they Nigerians, do they live in Nigeria, do they have men, are they rude?
Are all Nigerian Girls Stupid? No, I seriously doubt it, but some people take the biscuit.
@En1gmat1c - >>>MY COMMENTS: I think you should apply for a job as Indiana Jones' main sidekick in his next movie. Man, you're a trip. |
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TEASEME22
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@enigmatic , you know what i said is right only if u are a 7 yr old boy. deep down you knwo u lot r rude , PERIOD
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En1gmat1c
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A wise man once said " The difference between Genius and Stupidity is that Genius knows its Limit" Still, Teaseme doesn't get it. How sad  |
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aloib (f)
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i ave also noticed it, most of y'all are rude, don't even know how to treat a gurl, hiss
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manakins
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@aloib Suppose someone stung u where it hurts Anyway i still feel you can't generalise b'because i say cross ur heart u would definitely have seen plenty civil,nice,well mannered and cultured nija guys.  |
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aloib (f)
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of because, some are really sweet, me i could care less sef, wats my own wid their being rud, its their business, one thing my boyfriend/ husband can't be rude, so i could careless
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Damollar (m)
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of because, some are really sweet, me i could care less sef, wats my own wid their being rud, its their business, one thing my boyfriend/ husband can't be rude, so i could careless
@aloib - Well it's very sad news for me,We were beaten to it. All the same, thanks to those who tried to make it frivolous. “Rudeness is the weak man’s imitation of strength, In Nigeria - Rudeness is taking hold of our culture. |
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En1gmat1c
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What is rude?
If, for instance I call the person who started this thread silly, would that be rude. What if I think she is really silly, am I not been honest?
I mean, isn't it even more idiotic, that someone will totally agree with the thread starter, but turns around and exclude her boyfriend/husband. For crying out loud, the thread goes 'NIGERIAN GUYS ARE RUDE'. Nobody's boyfriend, husband, father, brother, son, uncle, grandfather and great-grandfather is excluded, you can add unwanted step-sons to that list.
I see stupid people (apologies to 6th Sense)
Yeye dey Smell
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aloib (f)
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me sha for me o being rude, is talking shit like as if, u don't know shit bout me, never met me before, and then u start telling me shit, ehen then disrespect, respect my opinions and i respect urs, chikena
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Damollar (m)
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There's no clear, consistent link between the use of personal intakes and rudeness. People who has never left the comfort of their homes are less apt than we to say but a few.
Some people should never be alowed to post on this page because they talk crap. U don't v 2 want to be in when can't fill in, aloib don't u get.
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En1gmat1c
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Free Advice
When putting ones opinion on a public message board, be sure to have thought it through and consider the implications. Half thought-through opinions always seem to have a way of biting their authors on the backside.
Peace
Me <=== Ain't mad at no one
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Damollar (m)
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Aint mad @ cha
Cause I ain't mad at cha. I'm Quick to holla at a hoochie with the same line. You was just a little over - reacting.Now we was once two people of the same kind ,
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En1gmat1c
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I guess you was a lill smaller but we still rolled   Just having fun playa No diggity |
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Damollar (m)
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Change, shit
I guess change is good for any of us
Whatever it take for any of y'all niggaz to get up out the hood
Shit, I'm wit cha, I ain't mad at cha
Got nuttin but love for ya,
do your thing boy
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okereke (m)
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all over the world are rude people. so saying that nigeria guys are rude is just an understatement. inspite of this fact, we still have the good and gentle God fearing ones such as me
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Damollar (m)
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all over the world are rude people. so saying that nigeria guys are rude is just an understatement. inspite of this fact, we still have the good and gentle God fearing ones such as me
@OKEREKE - It's not always possible to ignore bad behaviour and focus on the good. |
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CHRISTEL (f)
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i'm yet to find that out, but 4 now no comments on that  |
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Damollar (m)
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ents i'm yet to find that out, but 4 now no comments on that @CHRISTEL - Excellent only, Good and better, Neutral and better, Bad and better. No Comments – Be the First to Comment! , |
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CHRISTEL (f)
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Damollar i don't understand your post can u explain that to me  this time slow & steady if u know what i mean  only then will i be able to commend on this topic. |
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Damollar (m)
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@CHRISTEL - With no big vendor behind it, I just want read your view on d topic.
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CHRISTEL (f)
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@CHRISTEL - With no big vendor behind it, I just want read your view on d topic.
damollar u have to experience it to know, i have no idea but i have been told by few of my friends  that nigrian men whom they re or were dating are rude & proud. that they want things done their way. i really cannot agree to that like i said earlier, i have not experienced it |
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Makeda (f)
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I have never experienced this. When I was in Nigeria with my husband 4 months ago all the men I met there were very respectful, sweet and kind. Even the Nigerian men I meet here in my city are sweethearts. Perhaps it is your own attitude.
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edygirl (f)
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You were there with your husband, you probably must have given them enough money.
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Donzman (m)
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I am not the only person that has discovered this, i have realised that most Nigeian guys (the ones that live in Nigeria) are so rude , Its either they lack home training or prolly the forget about home training as soon as they leave there fathers doorstep. I went to Nigeria recently common *thank you* is too much for a Nigeria guy to say , let alone please. I must say that you lot have no respect whatsoever and thats why i can never date any of u because i can't stand your gut, Ladies any experience of this sort please share it here lets teach this guys some respect , Oh please, we're not interested in dating you neither which might explain why we're rude to you. Take heart, clean up next time you visit Nigeria. |
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Makeda (f)
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@edygirl We did not pay them anything. The men I met were nothing but gentlemen, and I wanted for nothing while I was there. Nigerians are some of the most hospitable people I have ever met. I was telling my husband that I would love to live there in the future. By the way, my husband is Nigerian and he is the sweetest, kindest man in the world, and true gentleman. If you get negative responses maybe you should check your own attitude and the energy you give off. Try being a little sweeter and a more humble woman, it will get you a long way. Have a Great Day!! |
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edygirl (f)
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They are really hospitable and sweet like my mikky and brothers and some guys but she is saying that some are rude and that is very true. And this rudeness mostly comes from the youths.
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Damollar (m)
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damollar u have to experience it to know, i have no idea but i have been told by few of my friends that nigrian men whom they re or were dating are rude & proud. that they want things done their way. i really cannot agree to that like i said earlier, i have not experienced it @CHRISTEL - I think the rudeness is compounded when the person being rude is trying to pretend , Honesty about rudeness might still be rude, but at least it's honest. , Rudeness means taking advantage of the other person's sense of decorum or tradition or civility that keeps that other person from striking back or, worse, |
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adconline (m)
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@TEASEME2
Iam not a mind reader. Could you tell us your experience with some Naija guys. Did you do a favour to some Naija guys and they failed to show appreciation. Just paint the picture for us to understand the scenario.
By the way, we should always try to jettison this attitude that " I'm from away" and I know better.Naija people don't easily give in to intimidation. Also our society had been so much militarized.
By easily generalizing a particular set of people , it makes little or no difference between us and our detractors. Do not put everybody in the same box. Every story has two sides.
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lady kool (f)
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it is true o! thread starter
they r rude o!really rude but it is some! the ones that r rude i feel like slapping them weneva i talk to them!
it was really out of hand i couldnt take it anymore that i slap this guy o and ran away before he does anything bad!
that aspect of them should change because is not good!
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ell77 (f)
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I could not even stand to finish reading the thread-why do people generalise many milions on a few observations.
DO YOU KNOW 1 IN 4 AFRICANS IN THE WHOLE WORLD IS NIGERIAN! That's how many there are of us yet the couple of spots you have encountered Nigerian's means you now have eveidence that all Nigerian's are rude?!
Of course some are rude, it must be so, 'because no nationality is perfect. But I have not me t any ohter black race I have found that is morenrespectful and polite than Nigerians. Politeness and respect is even part of the culture! Demonstrate, when you give a Nigerian a present that they really appreciate and you give a white man a present they really appreciate - a white man will at most hug you and say ''thank you I really appreciate it. A Naija man will be like 'Thank you madam, eh , you don't know what you have just done for me God will bless you continuously, he will ,makesure wherever you found the money to buy the thing he will replenish this stock in abundance, may God continue to Grant you all your requests', he may, bow to you, hug you kiss you, lift you in the air.
What is common courtesy - that is another issue, have you been to china, they may see you as rude there based on local customs. Nigeian men do have common courtesy but of course a different culture has different ideas on what they call common courtesy. For example here in England, if you see your friend and are in a rush you can just nod at them or throw a smile, even if neither of you are in a rush you can do the same. Your friend will be happy and sees that you have acknowledged her and will be happy you even made eye contact and smiled only. In Nigeria if you do that it is possible to start a quarrel, as alot of people see this as NOT AKNOWLEDGING them. You need to stop, cross the road and actually enteract, if you can't cross shout fromacross the road - this is in Nigeria common courtesy. To them a British person may seem rude. Please don't think I am angry with you for thinking these people you have met are rude, because in all likelihood by your culture they probably are, they may be rude even bybtheri own culture also! I just think you should not generalise based on those ubhave met. Whe I go to the village I have never met a Nigerian, who does not say please or Biko, who does not say thanks or Daalu, who does not say welcome or Nnoo. there are some things we easily misinterpret, in Nigeria if you enter a cab they will adress you as madam and say where do you want to go in London they may not even address you. No race is ruder than the other, people raise their children in certain ways and children either follow this example as adult or don't simple! Please don't give up on your brothers I think you have just been unfortunate.
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kaecy5 (m)
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i think we should put an age limit in nairaland
children show up and make assumptions and expect every one to respond
well like begets like she has shown she is extremely rude so far
why wont she follow rude boys(underage)
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