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mali (m)
Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« on: October 12, 2005, 12:47 PM »

Why ladies date older men: When you see a pretty lady going out with a much older man, some will say she is a gold digger, that she has no love for the man or it was because of the man's money that she is going out with him.  This may be true in some cases, but there some things that attract young ladies to older men and not just their money. 

In the first place some ladies like attention: they like aman who can pet them, make them the fucos and centre of their lives.  Older men treat a woman this way more than younger men.  An older man would be proud that he has such a beautiful girl to call his own.  He would be very appreciative of what he has, so he will treat her with much reverence.  He will pay her all the attention she needs, and pet her, treat her like a queen and a lady.

But a younger boyfriend will not give her all the attention or treat her thesame way.  What do you think?
da808cutie (f)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #1 on: October 12, 2005, 05:39 PM »

personally, if i were to go out with an older man, it would be because he's a lot more matured in mentality. but older men aren't my thing really.
adesodgi (m)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #2 on: October 12, 2005, 07:36 PM »

i wonder how old you're,that u need a more matured mentallity?HuhHuh?/ Grin
layi (m)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #3 on: October 13, 2005, 02:13 AM »

Whatever an old man can do. A young man can do, better
Latoya (f)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #4 on: October 13, 2005, 02:19 AM »

I disagree with that your statement layi, Older guys are far more matured than the young ones,they have experienced  all areas in a relationship.They are more patient and understanding unlike the little men that ladies have to battle and teach everything.
Greatpeter (m)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #5 on: October 13, 2005, 06:58 AM »

Talking fro experience?
mali (m)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #6 on: October 13, 2005, 12:47 PM »

Layi, you don't undrestand.  Young men will promise you heaven and earth just to get what they want, and as soon as they get it they will change, because there are many young ladiesout their.  But older men have tested everything in that game, so they will like to pet her so she won't leave.
Scorpio (f)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #7 on: October 13, 2005, 09:03 PM »

They're more matured, more caring and sometimes, they're really interested in you emotionally, spiritually etc than physically.
layi (m)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #8 on: October 13, 2005, 10:24 PM »

Dont be parochial. Older men are more experienced true but it could be used against u. They know d best way to get u down as well.
Greatpeter (m)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #9 on: October 13, 2005, 10:39 PM »

Layi talk talk too much oo.

Older ones not only experience they are wise and caring.
Scorpio (f)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #10 on: October 14, 2005, 12:30 AM »

I meant some older men, not all of them.  Cheesy
alter ego
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #11 on: October 14, 2005, 12:40 AM »

older manz have weak hearts and deep pockets. all the thinks a real girl wants Tongue
Scorpio (f)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #12 on: October 14, 2005, 12:40 AM »

Umm, u wrong.
hot-angel (f)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #13 on: October 14, 2005, 03:23 AM »

because older men are naturally spose to be more matured. And also because... You don't want to date someone that's your age and reason just like u do.

But ehh.. some older men could act like babies.
nddy (m)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #14 on: October 14, 2005, 05:36 AM »


This is the reason I Hate CELINE DION and MARIAH CAREY
hot-angel (f)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #15 on: October 14, 2005, 05:39 AM »

lol. because they went for older men ehh? Crap. But they can sing!
nddy (m)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #16 on: October 14, 2005, 05:44 AM »

Mariah Carey is the most annoying , she is in her 20's going for a man old enough to be her father, i mean i could mess around with an older lady but not marriage . That would be gross
hot-angel (f)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #17 on: October 14, 2005, 05:44 AM »

Anyways, i don't blame them.
nddy (m)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #18 on: October 14, 2005, 05:47 AM »

why would you blame them when you are doing the same (just jokin)
hot-angel (f)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #19 on: October 14, 2005, 05:49 AM »

haha... lol. nice one. Well u shouldnt blame them too because you're R.kelly the second.  Wink
nddy (m)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #20 on: October 14, 2005, 05:53 AM »

how am i R.kelly?  when i don't date girls below my age or class, ummmmmmmm i don't think i fit into that category. 

nddy (m)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #21 on: October 14, 2005, 05:55 AM »

i meant black
hot-angel (f)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #22 on: October 14, 2005, 05:55 AM »

just messing with u.  ANyways where the MODIFY thingy.
nddy (m)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #23 on: October 14, 2005, 05:57 AM »

i don't know where Admin took it
hot-angel (f)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #24 on: October 14, 2005, 05:59 AM »

yeah...
esconedge (m)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #25 on: October 14, 2005, 10:21 AM »

i don't think its cool,i quite agree with nddy,he haz a very good point...
hipcaramel (f)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #26 on: October 14, 2005, 12:16 PM »

i think it all depends on how mature the girl is. i've got a friend that was dating a guy that was 33. she's younger than me but more mature than me. she obviously couldnt go with a guy that was in her age bracket. a lady that's 19 is older than a guy that's also 19 by 2 years(that's just how it is). now imagine this lady that's 19 and is even more mature than i am(and i'm older than she is), what kind of guy do u think she would go for. definately not a guy that's in her age bracket. she'll wear him out and vice versa. u dig?!!
razor (m)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #27 on: October 14, 2005, 12:27 PM »

the reason is simply given by hot-angel and l quote '~*I love Boyz, [b]dey r stupid [/b]^__^ *~
niceguy (m)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #28 on: October 15, 2005, 12:12 PM »

young girls like older men so that they will cheat on him and if its comes to marriage, the old man
will die quickly and they starting messing up. to tell u how wicket girls are.
Scorpio (f)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #29 on: October 15, 2005, 06:56 PM »

kai, see dudes hating on the older men  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
debola (f)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #30 on: October 16, 2005, 04:36 PM »

you people are suprise about an older man dating a younger if it 10 to 15 years is better atleast we will say she likes him kind of but i went to a wedding the groom was 70 years and the bride was 29 years can you imagine even her father is 55 years her mother is 50,, the old man's first is 64 and second is 50 can you guys imagine the difference... Shocked The old man has money.. i still like bianca's marriage too ojukwu atleast is not that bianca was poor before she got married to him that she loved him, imagine a known man in this town (musicians) sang at a naming ceremony of a new born baby but when the baby grew he got married to her that RIDICULOUS don't they think of the shame or age........
da808cutie (f)
Re: Why Young Women Often Date Older Men
« #31 on: October 16, 2005, 06:51 PM »

@ adesodgi, i need a man that understands when i talk not one that's more concerned with irrelevant things. but hey i already got one, so i aint complaining
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