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vexxy (f)
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Younger women date older men for the sake of maturity. The older man seems more stable and able to focus on the woman. He is also experienced in relationships because he's had time to work out his game. Yes, older men do still play games.
I also think that *most* older men date younger women because of her lack of experience. I say this because *some* younger women are easily manipulated by the "idea" of the older man being more mature and experienced so he in turn can use that against her. He can give her the *sense* of security and she in turn will be willing to abide by what he does thinking, "He's older so I know he know's what he's doing."
There can be a great many reasons why this occurs but mostly from what I've seen it's the above stated situation.
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K2DaC (f)
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nddy don't like black girls?  i gueesss anyways i like guys that are older than me not like 5-10 years older me but like maybe a couple of years or somethin' they just seem more mature about stuff. |
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fabian (f)
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Younger women date older men, because they are- you guessed it- more mature! I know the feelings of insecurity a younger man can give, because their attn span is usually short, and they are always looking at the other woman.
There's nothing wrong with a younger girl dating an older man, as long as he is not already married.
Anyway, I still prefer keeping to my age-group, ultimately!
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Greatpeter (m)
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So what is your age group Fab?
Experience lady in the house.
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fabian (f)
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I'll have you know i'm not the only experienced lady in the house! Meanwhile, I fall in between 25-30!
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Greatpeter (m)
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I guess you're 26? So it is true that older men treat the ladies well than the tender boys  Kudos to we old men in the house. young ladies listen to these experienced ladies' advise. |
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vexxy (f)
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I dey listen!   Did I say that right?But younger ladies should be careful because not all older men use their "matured experience" for good. They can also use it to manipulate the minds of the younger girls. |
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Greatpeter (m)
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Huh! Not anyone of us can do that vexxy.
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vexxy (f)
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I don't think you would, GP, but there are predators out there that one must be warned about.
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Greatpeter (m)
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I agree with your intelligence Vexxy.
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fabian (f)
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I dey listen! Did I say that right?Yup! Right on target! The other part is right too! tread with caution ladies, or you might be manipulated! |
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layi (m)
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Now y'all flowing wit me.  |
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WesleyanA (f)
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i really wouldn't go out with a guy younger than me.i wouldn't go out with a guy way older than me either. just a little age difference 0-3 years is alright.
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fabian (f)
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, i reserve my comments like Great peter
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-Destiny- (f)
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Simple:
Girls like older men because its very rare to find a mature man their own age!!!
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I'm 28 and have found myself "falling" for a 52 year old? is that bad? he totally has no deep pockets, in fact I am the one with family $$$ ...whaddya say now? have never gone for older guy before...in fact have only had 2 serious and several..."casual flings" (not out of choice) ... - what do y'all think? ps. I'm H.O.T...(no joke) |
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Scorpio (f)
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I say go for it if he really loves you n if you feel the same about him too.
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enchantra (f)
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Older men treats you alot nicer, they care for you, they really love you and they respect you!!!! and i know for a fact that if you date an older man and he treats you well, there is NO way you would want to go back to anything petty and/or childish.
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Oracle (m)
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Itz obvious, they date them simply because of their money
their cash
cooooooooool cash
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cheekee (f)
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it just doesn't make sense for a 21 year girl to date a 18year old boy does it???i think older men are much more generous,,,they are willing!!!not just to play around like yong men!!!
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misserin (f)
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hey there guy's & gals,
my name is erin, i'm a 23yo administrative assistant in new england. the love of my life, is mark, who happens to be a respectible 49, and works as an IT manager. we've just celebrated our 2nd anniversary, and we couldn't be happier or more in love. now allow me to say, that in the begining when we'D met... we didn't know each other's age, he believed i was ten years older (i didn't take it as a compliment, lol) and i assumed he was in his mid-late 30's (he's just that good looking). when the reality of our age came to light, there had already begun to have feelings..... it was strange, and neither one of us thought it would be appropriate to begin seeing each other intimately. so for about a month, we both tried to put the idea behind us. although, all of our friends (who are very open-minded people) would ask - 'do you have things in common?', 'do you have things to talk about?', 'do YOU have an issue with the age difference?' - yes, yes, no..... 'SO THEN WHO CARES! GO GET HIM/HER!'. it was funny, we were the only people who cared about what anyone else thought. now it's two years later, and have a saying that we just enjoy each other's company.
anyhoo, the end result is that neither of us are interested in marriage or children. i have none, want none, he has 2 - one is 27 (whom i get along with wonderfully), and the other is 7 and is so sweet. but we went into this knowing it doesn't last forever, let's be realistic here. it's just a simple fact that we enjoy each other and have this comfortable, supportive, patient, and passionate love. should it last for another day or the rest of our lives, so be it..... it'll be good while it lasts:). the key is no pressure and enjoy it!
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chrisd (m)
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Because they are more experienced.
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Rhodalyn (f)
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exactly
i always go for older g u y s
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curiousNja (f)
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Older men for me anyday. I don't date anything less. I love them for their maturity, care, concern, intelligence,
Doesn't have to be about money.
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chinani (f)
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MATURITY! MATURITY! MATURITY! MATURITY! MATURITY! MATURITY! MATURITY! ***Repetition is Necessary for Emphasis*** |
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TYPOP (m)
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@curiousNja
are you a lady? Your sex is not being displayed.
If you are a young man and all you have is a small amount of money with one car and there is an older man with much money and cars, if you want to think about it, your love goes to MR MONEY. But ladies, not all that glitters is gold.
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chinani (f)
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@ vexxy
I agree with you. Some people use their maturity for, ahem, ***evil***
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TYPOP (m)
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I think u people are right because i will marry a lady i'm older than. I don't know why but thats the real situation of things. There are a few exceptions though.
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chinani (f)
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@ TYPOP
who's the footballer in your profile picture?
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