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kayoday (m)
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Help! Why is it that my girlfriend feels extreme pain during Sex.
I spent the rest of the week regreting having sex with her. She met the doctor and he said it has to do with the position of the ovary. Could this be true?
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kayoday (m)
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Not her first, Doc said it is a Diseased condition whereby ovaries is places on a wrong place . Actually i don't know much about d conditn. Doc in d forum let us know if this is true. She alway has extremely Painful Mentruatin lasting @ least 2 wks every month. i am about RUN.
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Seun (m)
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Do you expect us to know more than your doctor? The best you can do is try another doctor.
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Bhola (f)
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Kay, there is a thread under health, where you can ask the doctors in the house, questions. I hope they will find time in their busy schedules to come and reply. This is very sad.
Please don't run. I am sure she is already miserable as it is. Please, stay with her and help her solve this puzzle.
I am sure you are considerate and that is why you are concerned. Do the right thing, help her find a solution. Got some doctor uncles and cousins, I will ask them the question, though I might have more questions for you.
Good luck!
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doubletree (f)
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i agree with seun.see another doctor.preferrably a gynaecologist(deals with female health issues)
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Busta (f)
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really weird and feel sorry for her, at Bhola said, don't leave her for that reason, afterall, u sexed her and found out. Will also ask people I know and let u know.
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BlackMamba (m)
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Did the doctor tell you the condition is incurable, or is it a question of cost?
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Chxta (m)
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I could have sworn that I posted here before  |
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kayoday (m)
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actually i read about a similiar condition in a book, said it is incurable the know cure is the total removal of the ovary so ease the pain permanently, the book said such ladies av difficulty conceiving. but the particular case was having 3 wks menstral pain in a month.
Mean in a year she would be in pains 9 months in a year. don't know if it is a similiar case though her is 2 wks.
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doubletree (f)
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kayoday,what is the name of the condition that you read was incurable?please see another doctor and don't self diagnose.
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bernieman (m)
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I advise you see another doctor as others have advised.As a measure of reducing the pains during lovemaking too,I advise that you have a lot of foreplay as in alot of romance before you make love to her.I think this will soften that region and allow for a less painful sex round.Good luck.
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lovestinks (f)
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whoa, am sure if you try hard u can find some sexual positions that does not cause much pain.lubrication might help too.u can try KY jelly and durex has some really cool products.(don't ask how i know).ur girlfriend is really brave to still continue having sex.i can't stand pain at all.stick with her for there is more to a good relationship than sex(not sure how much  ) |
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kayoday (m)
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Na only spanking?
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candylips (m)
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spanking LOL |
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dude (m)
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@ kayaoday,
turn the girl on properly next time before penetration. it could take an hour, a whole day or even a week before she gets stimulated, but make sure she is well lubricated before you attempt penetration next time you want to enter her centre of excellence. be a REAL man.
cheers
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doubletree (f)
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dude. awhole day? a week.damn! where were you when i was single? |
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pecutrea (f)
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I felt sorry for the lady in questions because I know how painful a menstrual period can be but u got to stick with her. Although I acknowledge ur braveness but u av to be strong for her. Yoruba do say "eyele ki n ba olowo e jeun, ko di ojo iku, ko yeri". I know that that is what u are trying to do.God bless u for that.
The goodnews is this, there is way and the only way is JESUS. He is the ultimate doctor. If u and the lady really believe in the word of God and his works, believe me, her case is nothing. I'll be assisting u in prayers because prayer do all things. And I pray, by the grace of God the maker of heaven and earth and her creator, she is healed.
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nico (m)
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@ Dude centre of excellence? Is she a university or College |
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lunafish (f)
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@ Kayoday
Your girlfriend could have Endomitriosis. (hopefully I spelt it right.)
She has the symptoms. She should visit a gynaecologist.
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edygirl (f)
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@lunafish Endometriosis. @Kayoday, Please, next time say somebody I know has this problem instead of mygirlfriend just for security purpose. In an answer to your question, go see a gynecologist. Before somebody comes here to diagnose her Hiv tve.  |
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*Shentz* (f)
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My friend don't leave her she needs you now when she is in pains and ur here talking bout running
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Bhola (f)
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This is the thing I really dislike about my fellow country men. He did not say she is tight, or he can not get it in. The problem probably lies inside her not outside.
Like it is said, go see a doctor. Though, not to put Nigeria doctors down, they probably are just book doctors. Make sure, you and her, go see a specialist. Someone that has been practising for a long time. At least, that is what I did when I was in Nigeria. Not going to a book doctor to diagnose me.
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mo money (m)
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"TOTO-SWEEET" what sort of wired name is that?  and be serious. |
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Brownsuga (f)
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No you are terribly wrong, removal of the ovary is not the only solution!!!!!
Oouch don't do that! That is a woman's sanctuary!
It is also important you keep in mind that the pain is not external but internal-
so though u could do lots of foreplay, use gels etc, the pain will still be there.
Because your privates pushes into her womb- which evidently is laying very low, she feels the pain
And it hurts like hell, i know because i have it too.
But not soo painful like ur woman.
My gyno adviced changing positions, the side, It works for me.
don't you dare run away and leave that poor sistah alone!
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zebudaya (m)
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Use a lot lof lube with her, turn her on though if symptoms persist after 3 bangs run away find someone you can feel "deep" with |
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Bhola (f)
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Oh God, please make me not meet someone like Zebudaya. Please God, because one of us is going to come out without his/her teeth. Thank you Lord.  Zeb, for real, did you read the posts before yours? It is not about lubrication. It is about the location of her womb. Abi you get pink eye, you no sabi read? |
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egoldman (m)
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I felt sorry for the lady in questions because I know how painful a menstrual period can be but u got to stick with her. Although I acknowledge your braveness but u av to be strong for her. Yoruba do say "eyele ki n ba olowo e jeun, ko di ojo iku, ko yeri". I know that that is what u are trying to do.God bless u for that.
The goodnews is this, there is way and the only way is JESUS. He is the ultimate doctor. If u and the lady really believe in the word of God and his works, believe me, her case is nothing. I'll be assisting u in prayers because prayer do all things. And I pray, by the grace of God the maker of heaven and earth and her creator, she is healed.
But did u check if JESUS would permit sex with girlfriend before marriage ? (non - fanatic )  |
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ikamefa (f)
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Oh God, please make me not meet someone like Zebudaya. Please God, because one of us is going to come out without his/her teeth. Thank you Lord. Zeb, for real, did you read the posts before yours? It is not about lubrication. It is about the location of her womb. Abi you get pink eye, you no sabi read? lawd ! have Merci " " can i be a spectator? |
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Bhola (f)
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Sure, six fingers. Watch me, use my karate skills to comot pesin teeth. |
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