Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?

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edygirl (f)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #32 on: September 08, 2006, 04:12 AM »

coomot am my girl.
dremoney (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #33 on: September 08, 2006, 12:25 PM »

bros I'm an accountant bt u can bring that ur babe to my aprtment for test, i wil do d check-up for u, no tnx.
twinkledew (f)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #34 on: September 08, 2006, 01:05 PM »

can u lot bring good ideas rather than writing trash on here.
Greatpeter (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #35 on: September 08, 2006, 02:54 PM »

Your girlfriend might need a minor sugery but see a gynaecologist.
But try this out: Do a lot of fore play and let her come before you advance.
candylips (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #36 on: September 08, 2006, 03:29 PM »

Quote from: abakinola on September 08, 2006, 12:25 PM
bros I'm an accountant bt u can bring that your babe to my aprtment for test, i wil do d check-up for u, no tnx.

not too fast bros
zebudaya (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #37 on: September 08, 2006, 04:22 PM »

Quote from: Bhola on September 08, 2006, 01:22 AM
Oh God, please make me not meet someone like Zebudaya. Please God, because one of us is going to come out without his/her teeth. Thank you Lord.  Cheesy

Zeb, for real, did you read the posts before yours? It is not about lubrication. It is about the location of her womb. Abi you get pink eye, you no sabi read?  Cheesy

easy there babe! i was just teasing. And i don't like agressive sex i would love to keep my teeth! however I could help you out if you need spanking and lashing. Cheesy by the way i could find a better use for your fingers Grin
@Author of the post

The truth of the matter is that since her ovaries are in the wrong place, sex would be painful for her, menstruation too. And i really doubt she can carry a baby for 9 months. This is serious so listen to me and do as I say.

You have to make a choice If you stay with her you are stuck with oral sex for the rest of your life/relationship.(which ever ends first Grin). I don't know about you, but oral sex doesnt do it for me, I like to do some sticking and looks like you only have one other place to stick it(if you and your chick are superfreaks). I don't advise you to stick it there because after some time you would start getting turned on by Brokeback mountain and start watching queer as folk but thats by way so in summary No kids, no sex!

Your other option is to run away, but you would damage her, and she would hate you for life

Another option is to cheat  but you would damage her, and she would hate you for life.

You're preety much screwed, but if i were you I'll stay and go head!
engr17 (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #38 on: September 08, 2006, 04:33 PM »

I didn't know till i notice just recently that ladies could be as nice as a good sherpherd
A lady is having internal pains and here almost all the ladies are calling for cardle from her gyno

well IT IS WELL
but i can still make it out for you
just contact this specialist his name is Felix ( A NIG registered Pharmarcist) he will direct you to there company gynaecologist
(An English Man) .Hey, Its not the money try and see him wt ur gul and give me feed.Perhaps i'll asssist in the bill alone
engr17 (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #39 on: September 08, 2006, 04:40 PM »

I didn't know till i notice just recently that ladies could be as nice as a good sherpherd
A lady is having internal pains and here almost all the ladies are calling for cardle from her gyno

well IT IS WELL
but i can still make it out for you
just contact this specialist his name is Felix 08037229002 ( A NIG registered Pharmarcist) he will direct you to there company gynaecologist
(An English Man) .Hey, Its not the money try and see him wt ur gul and give me feed.Perhaps i'll asssist in the bill alone
candylips (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #40 on: September 08, 2006, 04:50 PM »

ok nice
kayoday (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #41 on: September 08, 2006, 06:45 PM »

thanks zebudaya
i think u got it right, i learnt it is almost impossible 4 her 2 keep pregnancy 2 last for 2 months, i av made my decision, know 2 me & myself alone.
zebudaya (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #42 on: September 08, 2006, 06:48 PM »

you're welcome dude, goodluck in whatever you do
candylips (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #43 on: September 08, 2006, 08:52 PM »

yes goodluck with ur decision
omo (f)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #44 on: September 08, 2006, 08:58 PM »

eya Sad Sad, i sincerely feel for you, knowin ur girl's story has made me appreciate d gift of menstruation more, and all that(because i hate it when i hav pains durin my menses, not that mine's extremely painful). i advise u and/or ur girl to see a very specialised doctor, i know its not easy  but try and abstain frm sex so she doesnt have much pains. my heart goes out to her and i pray d Good Lord wil help her out of her situation Amen. if u dnt leave her (and i advise u not to leave her), that will just be very great 4 her; on d other if u do, i dnt completely blame you because its not easy esp if u want to have kids in future.as 4 zebudaya, i have to say that ure funny. Wink
blablabla (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #45 on: September 08, 2006, 11:21 PM »

Give me some more info,
how did your doc reach his diagnosis? did he use ultrasound to locate the ovaries? did he collect any samples from her vagina? Does she have any sort of vaginal discharge? did this pain start from her first period or much later in her life? has she always had this pain during sex abi na your member and speed of start to finish dey cause wahala?has she had any sort of surgery down there in the past?any problems with stooling or urination?

so my dear there are tons of questions to answer and tons of tests to do, you need to see a doctor, yes, don't scare us, she most likely has endometriosis which is rare in Nigeria, it is treatable and with some assistance (if really necessary) should not interfer with child bearing.

what is a book doctor? Nigerian doctors are one of the best in the world, we help our patients without the aid of so many tools available to our collegues from other climes and that is no mean feat.

summary

go to a general hospital and see a gynaecologist.
Bhola (f)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #46 on: September 09, 2006, 12:09 AM »

Ok Zeb, there will be no spanking, no lashing, no kicking  Cheesy.

@ topic, if it is only about sex to you, then I guess staying will be bad, but remember something and to all the guys in here, what if this was your daughter? Do you expect all men to run away from her? Do you want her to remain single for the rest of her life? Think things through.

When faced with problems, do you run away or look for solutions?
candylips (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #47 on: September 09, 2006, 08:03 AM »

you most likely look for solutions
katherinae (f)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #48 on: September 10, 2006, 04:51 PM »

hmm kayoday

seems like ur girlfriend has a hereditary problem, she was born that way, and that can't be helped, I'm afraid she might have bigger problems in her future so plsplsplsplspslpsl, beg her to get herself checked out before she thinks of getttin gmarried.  i am in school right now and i barely have time to do more research if not i could have givin u some potential names of congenital malformations regarding the female ovaries.  ssoo sorry but that will not end any time soon, what u guys could do is try and do differnet positions  maybe side to side, or her sitting on u becaue when the lady straddles the man she can control how deep she wants it to go.  also regarding the climax. u guys might want to play for a long time that way when u penetrate her it wont take either of u a long time to orgasm.  goodluck kayoday, oh and by the way I'm a medical student so we did learn about conditions such as ur girlfriedns.  i am not a doctor so i can't diagnose her but my best advice for her is to go to a specialist.  Goodluck
bobotee (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #49 on: September 10, 2006, 07:46 PM »

@ Kayoday, my brother I feel for you. Please take things easy and do what the experts say. GOD IS ABLE
Makeda (f)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #50 on: September 10, 2006, 07:47 PM »

@kayoday
Women can experience pain druing sex for a number of reasons. Here I have listed a few reasons for you. If you want to know more check the link to WebMD I have included:

What Causes Female Sexual Pain?
In many cases, a woman can experience pain during sex if there is not sufficient vaginal lubrication. When this occurs, the pain can be resolved if the female becomes more relaxed, if the amount of foreplay is increased, or if the couple uses a sexual lubricant.

In some cases, a woman can experience painful intercourse if one of the following conditions is present:

Vaginismus This is a common condition in which there is a spasm in the vaginal muscles, mainly caused by the fear of being hurt.

Vaginal infections.These conditions are common and include yeast infections.

Problems with the cervix (opening to the uterus). In this case, the privates can reach the cervix at maximum penetration, so problems with
the cervix (such as infections) can cause pain during deep penetration.

Problems with the uterus These problems may include fibroids that can cause deep intercourse pain.


Endometriosis[./b] A condition in which the endometrium (tissue lining the uterus) grows outside the uterus.


[b]Problems with the ovaries.
Such problems might include cysts on the ovaries.

Pelvic Inflammatory Disease. The tissues deep inside become badly inflamed and the pressure of intercourse causes deep pain.

Ectopic pregnancy. A pregnancy in which a fertilized egg develops outside of the uterus.

Menopause. The vaginal lining can lose its normal moisture and become dry.

Intercourse too soon after surgery or childbirth

Sexually transmitted infections. These may include genital warts, herpes sores or other STDs.

Injury to the vulva or vagina. These injuries may include a tear from childbirth or from a cut (episiotomy) in the perenium (area of skin between the vagina and the anus) that is made during labor

http://www.webmd.com/content/article/107/108501.htm
candylips (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #51 on: September 11, 2006, 10:51 AM »

@bobotee

this ur id sounds very familiar  Wink . is that ur nickname in reall life . if it is e bi like say i know u o . BoboT. BoboTyson . original street fighter  Grin
sikiru_4me
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #52 on: September 11, 2006, 11:11 PM »

do u know that what u did was sinful,sleped withj a girl that u ve not paid her bride price .remember that u need prayer from that sinful act.
SweetLola
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #53 on: September 12, 2006, 12:14 PM »

She should go see a doctor

a friend of mine had the same type of problem. when she went to the doctor it turned out that her hymen wasn't torn properly , so it kept causing pain when ever she had sex , and it was a simple procedure to rectify
kellybaba (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #54 on: September 12, 2006, 03:19 PM »

Quote from: sikiru_4me on September 11, 2006, 11:11 PM
do u know that what u did was sinful,sleped withj a girl that u ve not paid her bride price .remember that u need prayer from that sinful act.


Gbam ! abeg leave the LORD out of this: these folks r in2 outrught Fornication wch is anti-God. please repent and come 2 him for healing.He is ever Merciful n Faithful.
God bless u !
krazysage (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #55 on: September 15, 2006, 12:16 AM »

some of the symptoms you have mentioned are characteristic of fibroids [heavy menstration with pain and the pain during sex]. she need to see a gyn  who might refer her for an embolization.
pecutrea (f)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #56 on: September 15, 2006, 12:23 AM »

Hey Egoldman, I wasn't concerned with the man in questn but the lady. because even if the man didn't settle down with her, someone else will. So I said the only way that I know which is the best. Ko ya gbenu e soun.
dremoney (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #57 on: September 15, 2006, 06:27 PM »

@Bhola
Bhola,u b very funny girl

@topic
  really sex is not permitted before marriage so u guys should be aware of the fact that u r all talking n promoting sin here,
acidrop (f)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #58 on: September 26, 2006, 08:46 AM »

 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked, i got freaked out when i read the topic, but thank God they said its a sickness  Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley
Brownsuga (f)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #59 on: September 26, 2006, 06:03 PM »

well, like i said earlier, its all about the position!!!
mo money (m)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #60 on: September 27, 2006, 11:24 AM »

what must have caused this?

ok, may she was not stable when her turn of creation was going on, she was like shaky shakying

Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
acidrop (f)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #61 on: September 27, 2006, 11:43 AM »

OMG  Huh Huh Huh this thread is quite complicated, can someone please borrow me a dictionary, i think i really need it Undecided
Brownsuga (f)
Re: Painful Sex: What Is The Cure?
« #62 on: October 03, 2006, 04:09 PM »

Makeda, thx for posting that piece of info: people need to be enlightened about this serious woman-only prob!
Like i wrote earlier, i too had that discomfort, believe me removal of the ovary is not the solution! nor is the usage of lubricants.

I think our sister needs to discover her bdoy, find out which position suits her best
and most importantly see a gyno right away!!
richard12
masturbation
« #63 on: September 18, 2007, 10:39 PM »

is masturbation right or wrong,i ask b'because my friends bliv its right because its not a sin ,but i bliv its wrong(i BLIV ITS DIRTY),i want ur views people
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