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onyegbula (m)
Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« on: September 07, 2006, 02:39 PM »

Some times i feel it's not right to show a lady how much u truely love her because they end up abusing or taking advantage of it against you.


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iice (f)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #1 on: September 07, 2006, 03:22 PM »

Hmmmmm well i know most women need the man to show the depth of his love for her.

Quote from: onyegbula on September 07, 2006, 02:39 PM
Some times i feel it's not right to show a lady how much u truely love her because they end up abusing or taking advantage of it against you.

This is also true, i guess a man has to find the balance or combination.  Maybe something like sometimes showing the depth of his love and when he sees that she's getting too big for her undies LMAO then tone down the affection.  Who knows? I mean what works for one may not work for another.
mo money (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #2 on: September 07, 2006, 03:23 PM »

i beleive it's right, then you will know too whether she truely loves you in return (reciprocal love).
onyegbula (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #3 on: September 07, 2006, 06:21 PM »

well i believe u, but u know some guys like doing their things 100% & i think that was my weak point. don't u think ur girl will take it to mean u've gotten someone else & choose to kick her aside, u know ladies can be funny some times.
abbey02 (f)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #4 on: September 07, 2006, 07:33 PM »

yeah it very ok for u to show ur gurl how u really love her,but it depend on the gurl,because some gurls take love 4 granted while some don't. Grin
babonboard (f)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #5 on: September 08, 2006, 11:36 AM »

i will yes and no
reason for a yes is to amke her secure and rest assured that yes she has someone
and no because we are all human she might misuse the chance
onyegbula (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #6 on: September 08, 2006, 12:05 PM »

I agree with u abbey02, bt most of them think it's a way of showing how strong they are over their guys. well, i had such problem & chose to call it off, because i feel love should be 100% & 50 - 50 from both sides. That's why i am scared of showin how i feel about who ever is next.
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #7 on: September 08, 2006, 03:47 PM »

well hhm i think it depends on the lady involved cause not all human beings are the same.
damsol (f)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #8 on: September 08, 2006, 03:48 PM »

yeah,i think u need to show a lady how much u truely love her because if u don't,u have the chances of loosing her,
onyegbula (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #9 on: September 08, 2006, 04:48 PM »

But ladies in the house, could you let us guys know why some of you abuse real love. most of all when the guy has invested somuch love in you, you turn it to be a advantage over him. I believe that love is a man's solution & loving is a woman's solution.
okereke (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #10 on: September 08, 2006, 05:36 PM »

 ;)i believe that a matured mind that knows what he's into will certainly assure the lady of his love for her; though he's not supposed to unveil the whole thing from the onset of the relationship. it could make the lady puff up, but instead do it when you are sure to have won her heart. your doing it is not to keep her but to assure her of your seriousness in the relationship
CHRISTEL (f)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #11 on: September 08, 2006, 06:35 PM »

absolutelly yes 4 me, why not ? why would u want to
hold it back because then someone else might just show
her & wins her heart, thereby leaving
u in d cold Cheesy Cheesy. it better late than never Cheesy
dennylove (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #12 on: September 08, 2006, 08:12 PM »

CAPITAL,NOOOOOOOOOO,because if you do,she will capitalise on that and start acting FUNNY and STRANGE,i mean SHAKARA,DON ENTER,cmon guys, you shld understand it BETTER,though,is verse-versa kind of GAME IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP.
Egede (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #13 on: September 08, 2006, 09:00 PM »

The truth is; most ladies will always cash in on that  and mistreat u. I understand the human tendency to take things forgranted. Just find a balance between yes and no, that's where your maturity becomes handy.
candylips (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #14 on: September 08, 2006, 10:50 PM »

if u show it too much u would be taken for a fool. ur best bet is to keep them guessing
mo money (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #15 on: September 09, 2006, 12:42 AM »

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The truth is; most ladies will always cash in on that  and mistreat u. I understand the human tendency to take things forgranted. Just find a balance between yes and no, that's where your maturity becomes handy.

thumb up Cool
abbey02 (f)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #16 on: September 09, 2006, 10:50 AM »

onyegbula (m):my own to ur qestion.well as for me i think most ladies do that because dey don't hv any feelings not to talk of love at the begining of the relationship.they only pretend to love because they need sometin from guys,after getting wht dey want,dey walkout of the relationship without saying goodbye at all.i think we all need to be very careful in the game called relationship Wink
hayprof (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #17 on: September 09, 2006, 02:05 PM »

Why not do what u think she appreciates to show ur love for her,
don't go buyin some flower for some girls when all they really need is Mr Biggs,  Wink
rotbog (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #18 on: September 09, 2006, 04:21 PM »

Its Not Wrong. Infact its the wisest thing to do. Those who love and I mean Really well never lose. Love Conquers all.

I once had that orientation. I thot it weak to love because of the training I had back in my early years @ school.

Now I know it a trait that belongs to the strong and not the weak hearted. The strong willed always express their love. Its so hard for the weak and insecure, but in the world of the intangible you must give to receive. If u love u experience it.


Its always comforting to know u put in your best even when it looks like it wasnt good enough. Time always reveals the truth.

Ive been in war. but that never proved my strength, it infact revealed my weakness.

So brother, don't let every opportunity to xpres it pass u by.

geminibaby
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #19 on: September 09, 2006, 06:37 PM »

wot okereke said, some guys show emotions too early,  .comin out as weak(tho it may not be) and desperate to d gurl, in that situation d gurl might take u for granted since she found a mugu thats in love

just try and balance everythin so u don't look like a desperado
onyegbula (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #20 on: September 11, 2006, 10:55 AM »

I think i should show love but not as much as i feel 4her, until i am convinced that she share the same amount of love with me & above all ardors the respect i have 4her. with love comes respect.
smartsoft (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #21 on: September 11, 2006, 07:16 PM »

let me tell you something, no matter the love you have for her, you can never never satisfy a gurl
drayslide (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #22 on: September 12, 2006, 01:57 AM »


Here's a powerful tip: If you treat a woman more like a friend, rather than someone you're romantically interested in, this can really turn down the attraction. Undecided

some guy  recently told me about a woman that was so attractive he honestly didn't think he had a chance with her, so he thought he'D just realax and  have fun while they were together. Smiley

He didn't try to impress her. He didn't make any moves. He didn't act intrested  or needy, because he didn't think he was even in the "game."or up to her standards. Embarrassed

What was the result? Huh

Well, this unrellying non-wuss behavior worked like magic to super charge up the attraction between him and the girl, and actually set the stage for a long-term relationship. Cool

Attractive women are used to guys acting clingy and super-interested from day 1, and it's a huge turnoff. Lips sealed

So instead, lean back a bit, be cool, and then enjoy your results.holla at me if u want to get more of this tip and lots of other tips. Grin
onyegbula (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #23 on: September 12, 2006, 01:25 PM »

na wa o, naija guys una dey o. infact ladies r in trouble, see talks about ladies. easy o but i think i would go your way drayslide
Oracle (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #24 on: October 06, 2006, 06:07 AM »

If you love a Lady, Show her but let it get stupid
bluehorizo (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #25 on: April 26, 2008, 08:26 PM »

Yes
jennykadry (f)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #26 on: April 26, 2008, 08:30 PM »

@topic
abeg i don't see any problem in a  guy showing his babe that he loves her jare
Mc Omo (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #27 on: April 26, 2008, 10:39 PM »

let her know how deeply u love are  . . .and u are doomed !!!  Tongue
welli (f)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #28 on: April 26, 2008, 10:45 PM »

please try listenin to this song:if tomorrow never comes.
Mc Omo (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #29 on: April 26, 2008, 10:57 PM »

 Huh  Huh

abeg try use the @ key . . .thanx  Cool
welli (f)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #30 on: April 26, 2008, 10:58 PM »

talkin to?
Mc Omo (m)
Re: Is It Right To Show A Lady How Much You Truely Love Her?
« #31 on: April 26, 2008, 11:26 PM »

OK . . .LET ME USE THE @ KEY SO U WOULD KNOW AM TALKING TO U . . . Cool

@Well

please use the @ key so we would know who u were talking to . . .especially as u were talking about a song immediately after my post . . . geddit  Huh
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