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origina9ja (f)
Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« on: January 30, 2009, 05:26 PM »

gosh this valentine's day fing is lyk everywhere fam
every damn place u go is valentine even baby's of 10years old
for crying out loud why can people keep their lovers day in your mind and imagine it alone
as we all know that being lonely on Valentines Day is the most painful emotion that one can experience. You feel empty inside. You know you are alone. You are restless. You have this intense desire to be needed by others. You feel left out. No one asked you to go out on Valentines Day. So you feel so rejected and unwanted. You dream of a relationship that never existed. The recurring negative thoughts bring you to this anxious, miserable hopelessness so now what advice can you give to lonely peeps especially on Valentine day


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chamotex (m)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #1 on: January 30, 2009, 05:28 PM »

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brein
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #2 on: January 30, 2009, 05:39 PM »

Its a real pity,  i dont have any one i can call my VAL on val's day, cos niger girl would jump from 1 guy to another and from 1 man to another,
just can't leave among this bunch of cheats!,
kritikul (f)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #3 on: January 30, 2009, 06:05 PM »

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Nautillus (m)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #4 on: January 30, 2009, 06:10 PM »

Quote from: brein on January 30, 2009, 05:39 PM
Its a real pity, i don't have any one i can call my VAL on val's day, cos nigger girl would jump from 1 guy to another and from 1 man to another,
just can't leave among this bunch of cheats!,

Hey! ! !. . .dude, you gave you an atomic wedgie that's making you throw around derogatory words

please check yourself
kritikul (f)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #5 on: January 30, 2009, 06:16 PM »

I will get myself a seat in the church the whole of that day, cant put my trust on any man than God. Most men have become polygamists, even bachelors. cant aford to share my man with anybody. so would rather spend my val with god.
JJYOU
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #6 on: January 30, 2009, 06:25 PM »

Quote from: kritikul on January 30, 2009, 06:16 PM
I will get myself a seat in the church the whole of that day, cant put my trust on any man than God. Most men have become polygamists, even bachelors. cant aford to share my man with anybody. so would rather spend my val with god.
Quote from: brein on January 30, 2009, 05:39 PM
Its a real pity,  i dont have any one i can call my VAL on val's day, cos niger girl would jump from 1 guy to another and from 1 man to another,
just can't leave among this bunch of cheats!,
does it have to be this way?
DaPhoenix (f)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #7 on: January 30, 2009, 06:28 PM »

Girl get a hold of yourself. Valentine's Day isn't all that and men aren't worth that much. Go get your girls and hit a club up or something. If that doesn't work out, spend it with your family. Never make your life centered around love, men or relationship.
cvibe
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #8 on: January 30, 2009, 06:32 PM »

It's just another day on the calendar.
Okanran (m)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #9 on: January 30, 2009, 06:36 PM »

Better out than in. . . abeg let the sistas pour out their mind, joor. Who knows, some of the lonely fellas up on here might come along and console them. Me, I've got 2 weddings 2 attend that day, after which ama really get ma groove on n rip the club apart! Cool
kritikul (f)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #10 on: January 30, 2009, 06:56 PM »

Why do people fix their wedding on vals day? i ve seen like 5 weddings coming up that day.
pc guru (m)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #11 on: January 30, 2009, 07:06 PM »

@all u guys are boring.haven't you heard of alcohol and a good comedy to take off your mind off val. @brein dude your whining bout nigeria girls starting to piss me off.there are nice girls everywhere maybe the problem is you. U'll find a good girl but also foreigners are also cool too.but you should know that where the source of fucking around came from.western world.wad up
DaPhoenix (f)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #12 on: January 30, 2009, 07:14 PM »

Quote from: pc guru on January 30, 2009, 07:06 PM
@all u guys are boring.haven't you heard of alcohol and a good comedy to take off your mind off val. @brein dude your whining bout nigeria girls starting to piss me off.there are nice girls everywhere maybe the problem is you. U'll find a good girl but also foreigners are also cool too.but you should know that where the source of fucking around came from.western world.wad up

Maybe?
allboyz (m)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #13 on: January 30, 2009, 07:16 PM »

Quote from: kritikul on January 30, 2009, 06:56 PM
Why do people fix their wedding on vals day? i ve seen like 5 weddings coming up that day.

I really do not buy that idea Tongue
denony (m)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #14 on: January 30, 2009, 07:16 PM »

there si no reliable girls around.
so i will celebrate it with my male friends.
First with God
iceblue (f)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #15 on: January 30, 2009, 09:52 PM »

Loneliness? I never heard the word!

Lemme see  Cool Cool I'm attending a wedding that day, until afternoon. Then i change outfits and move to a bar for tequila night and salsa dancing. I do not need a man to enjoy maself. In fact, if i did have a guy, he'd be cramping my style that day  Tongue Tongue
tobaaro (m)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #16 on: January 30, 2009, 10:13 PM »

Val's day brings pressure, anticipation,enthusiasm, eagerness, tall expect8ns, etc 4 her congreg8n.

Me, i'll jst get high

JahAngel (f)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #17 on: January 31, 2009, 12:27 AM »

Why you trippin about Valentines day??? Its a western money making scam. If you must involve yourself in it, have fun wid yo friends and party it up! If you got kids, make dem your valentines. My man is cool an all but mi nuh play dat valentine ting too much. If he gets me sumting, dats nice, but it aint necessary. More pressure man, just like christmas!
Treetop20 (m)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #18 on: January 31, 2009, 12:34 AM »

Quote from: JahAngel on January 31, 2009, 12:27 AM
Why you trippin about Valentines day??? Its a western money making scam. If you must involve yourself in it, have fun wid yo friends and party it up! If you got kids, make dem your valentines. My man is cool an all but mi nuh play dat valentine ting too much. If he gets me sumting, dats nice, but it aint necessary. More pressure man, just like christmas!
until he actually doesn't get you
anything. it will become necessary
offorbuike
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #19 on: January 31, 2009, 04:15 AM »

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iceblue (f)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #20 on: January 31, 2009, 07:05 AM »

Quote from: offorbuike on January 31, 2009, 04:15 AM
Guys,this is your opportunity 2 financial liberation. Check out this nigerian website, they pay in naira. They pay N100 for signing up. This is no scam. Interested persons should pm me or send their mail address 4 details. Its entirely free. My mail is [eminentbyke@yahoo.com]. Early bird catches the best worm. Check your spam folder 4 d message after u've sent your mail address .

well la-di-do-dah! isn't that where it belongs?
anthony16 (m)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #21 on: January 31, 2009, 10:28 PM »

i don't mind getting someone to be my val,but its just like any oda day
HIV4all (m)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #22 on: January 31, 2009, 11:44 PM »

If you are lonely, think about me. I want to be left alone this Feb 14. So everyone out there should remember to play it safe. If you are a lonely guy, you can have your one handed fantasies and for the ladies,  Shocked
MrCrackles (m)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #23 on: January 31, 2009, 11:46 PM »

Fuc.k this Valentine hyper shit!
Seeke (f)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #24 on: February 01, 2009, 05:31 PM »

I think Val's day is one over-hyped day;if there's anything like dat!!! For moi, it's jus anoda date on the calendar,  n most of the peeps making noise about it don't evn know nada about the origin of d day sef. N to think that some peeps mop-up all their savings to buy their 'loved ones' gifts on that day, it's laffable,









jus my opinion,
na2day? (m)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #25 on: February 01, 2009, 09:30 PM »

am sorry, what is Valentine's day?  Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided
everchris (m)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #26 on: February 02, 2009, 10:29 AM »

Well if u dont have a special one to spend Valentine's day with, how about keeping your self busy infront of your TV watching movies and before u know it, the day will be over.
mykali
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #27 on: February 02, 2009, 12:36 PM »

val is actually special, but the truth  is your mum, dad, small or big sis even your baby can b your val, so don't tale it personal
origina9ja (f)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #28 on: February 02, 2009, 03:55 PM »

Thank ya'll
the reason for this thread is because of some peeps that over hype this valentine.
and make themselves feels f*ck up because of a man 
i don't see anything so special about it
just like everyother day i guess Undecided


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tamai (f)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #29 on: February 02, 2009, 05:06 PM »

Its just anoda day, yes.But like christmas,u feel it
in the air,and can't ignore it.If u don't have that special person to spend it with,
then go show some love.There are a thousand and one children out there in need
of just a hug,spend your val day with them.Their excitment and joy,that  someone cares will fulfil the craving
in u for love.

Go, show some love.
kador (m)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #30 on: February 02, 2009, 08:01 PM »

"everchris"
Quote from: everchris on February 02, 2009, 10:29 AM
Well if u dont have a special one to spend Valentine's day with, how about keeping your self busy infront of your TV watching movies and before u know it, the day will be over.
d to

You get to watch TV where there is light. This kind of add to the pain of being alone on the faithful day.
LoL Shocked
kokoye (m)
Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day
« #31 on: February 02, 2009, 08:28 PM »

Did not realise there were this many lonely ladies on this forum.

Stop fooling urselves.

You wont stop hating Val's day until you find that special someone (date/ friend/ child) and then you start looking forward to it . . .until you get married!! Grin

After marriage, Feb 14 becomes the whites man's trick to sell chocolate and flowers.

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