My Pal's Wife Cheats Constantly

is your friend more concerned that the person who was alleged to have gotten her pregnant is white? is so then that's absurd!
could it be that the baby was your friend's but she just wasnt ready for another child considering all the problems they are having?
all said and done, its best to stay out of husband and wife palaver. seriously they are adults and can sort themselves out. good intentions often backfire and when they get back together. (like husband and wives always have a way of doing. ) you will become the enemy.

 

Then you gathered something wrong.
Du you not know that Holland is the Mecca for abotions in Europe?

whats ur business?

In most countries in europe  adultery is not a crime. That will not work out

wonders shall never end. if na the wife that caught her husband cheating, people will say that she should pray and fast so that he will come back to her. but na wife that is cheating and its a different reaction.

i don't condone either spouse cheating. if the victim (the husband in this case) thinks he can forgive and the wife is ready to stop then they should heal and continue the marriage if not then they should go their separate ways.

staying in a marriage solely because of the children is really not advisable. if one spouse is not happy, this can lead to resentment and eventually affect the children.
only stay in a marriage for the children if both parties are willing to work on their issues.

The guy should just package the woman inside container,ship am come naija ! 

Ugwumba u v bin noble all the while and u played the friend so well but ur job isnt finished yet. as much as u play careful not to get involved b/w husband & wife matter, the matter is no longer them matter but a social matter which still have hope of a happy end.
bad that she did what she has always done in the past & somehow the husband comes in the know. i deduse a lot from ur story 7 i make my case;
1.every problem has a solution but if a person keep on running away from the truth come solution of the problem then expect repetition of the problem at every opportunity.
2. every problem has a root cause. the repetitive nature of the problem is a pointer that the root cause is not yet known & or implimented.
3. running away may give u a temp releive but watch out that problem will soon shot up.
4. if the relationship matters so much to u & is something u want in a deeper sense, breaking up will injure ur health in the long run.
5. staying put in the relationship without proper address of the problem will also injure ur health i the long run too.
6. finally some women hav this way with them, that they r ever emotional, childish even with serious issues & not strong internally.

based on these point, my take or rather advice for ur friend tru u are as follows;
1. he shld get some space for himself to punder on many issues sorrounding the problem, its time for a soul search & problem analysis.
he shld tempoary let the wife off his presence until he had gotten a enough info of himself, the wife, the recuring problem, the children well being and the relationship.
2. he has forgiven before, & doing that again will not kill him but rather will be a launch pad to help the woman help herself.
3. he will sure need therapy or consult with expert, go buy books that deal with issues linked to the problem; he is not the ist nor will he be the last to have such problem;its already in a book.
4. then prepare himself well for the time to take the make or kill decision based on my 6 point above.
no matter the end of it, he shld write his book to educate those coming after, thats while the white are good because the keep records.

well this is my take and may not be pleasing to a lot of guys but as one that is aspiring to be a family consultant in the future, saving family is my joy.

  I totally agree with some people, trick her back to Nigeria and RUN like HELL, no good man deserves sucha woman and vice versa.
Its a pity, in most cases when u get a good man, he's usually with a bad woman, eish and good man are hard to come by.
RUN

Poster this your friend predicament get k-leg!!

I go pass

''Yes, part of my friend's annoyance is that it is a white guy (this time) - he has said that if na because of him performance madam dey stray, na further insult say white man dey perform pass am.''

So he would have been more comfortable if na black woman they do his wife? Your friend has not told you the truth. Do you know what i think? He might not be the father of the kids because she probably would have not aborted the pregnancy if it was a black man that impregnated her and the husband would have accepted the pregnancy and as usual the child will be 'his' but since it would be so evident if the child is born 'halfcaste' their secret go burst _{just my thought though}