Tokunbo (Second Hand) Virgins

At least, I didn't deny who your mother is. . . who come get the problem?

I just think it's weird that they think it's something all females are worried about. Most of those that do this is cos it's a do or die affair which is why it's a BIG thing in the middle east. But as usual the dorks assume it's something every girl wants to do *rolls eyes*

a few months ago, a 60 year old woman was celebrating her 25th marriage anniversary and she did the procedure just to be tight again for the night of anniversary. wonder what people have to say about that?  

Oh fcuk you and that bitch of your mother! How long are you going to continue with your stupidity? Did you even bother to read the crap you wrote up there? Denying that no woman has been killed because she wasn't a virgin? Denying that there is nothing as honor killing?

Insult my mother as much as you. I don't give a fcuk coz I'd rather be the daughter of bitch than be a bloody fool like you.

Tufiakwa!

You are mistaken again. I did not say you should not be proud of who your mother is. I was just reminding you.

Osisi perhaps you can translate ikomi's gibberish for me.

Young man you are being clever by half - the import of your post (clear to anyone with half a brain cell) is that the problem is not really one as such, and is likely a creation of the media. Such a statement can be rightly interpreted as a denial of the existence of the problem.

If you bothered to research even briefly, you would know that is a SERIOUS problem.

Your disregard for women is obvious, if not you wouldn't so casually refer to a person's mother in derogatory fashion.

Unfortunately your argument is flawed. Let us ignore the life threat issue (which alongside psychological concerns has actually been recorded as the predominant reason for carrying out this hymen operation), a woman doing an operation to "please" a man does not amount to an admission that she is subject to the desires of a man. Not at all; it is an admission however that she is aware that in as much as the world has moved on in leaps and bounds, we are still far from sexual uhuru and men still dominate things. Thus, such women from those cultures have found what they consider is the perfect solution in these present times i.e. carry on exactly as they wish and let the fool who cannot handle this fact (who wants a virgin) think otherwise. In other words, they are eating their cake and having it too. If they were "subject[ing]" themselves to the "desires" of men, they will not have had any pre-marital sex whatsoever. It is done in much the same manner like lots of female teenagers back in Naija have sex but actively promote an image or a front of innocence and virginity to their parents, because they know that being that way pleases their parents and their lives would be much pleasant if those parents were kept in their little cuckoo world. The fact that those girls hide their active sexual lives from their parents or overtly deceive them does not stop them being much more liberated than their counterparts a century ago. Would you say that those men who have affairs and children out of wedlock and hide this from their wives are "subjecting" themselves to the desires of their wives because they have lied and gone to great painful lengths to be deceptive about these affairs and children? Surely, the very proposition is ludicrous. It is basically the same principle when women talk to their boyfriends or husbands about their past sexual partners i.e. So many men cannot handle large numbers, so the women cut the figure down. If the guys continue to have ridiculous expectations and/or can't handle the truth, they will continue to be fed lies until women achieve equality in all aspects of life.

Thus, at the end of the day, these women are operating in mainly uncharted waters and have found a way to circumvent the nuisance of some men's ridiculous requests or the expectations of virginity as a badge to be worn. These women (from those nationalities that are affected) can have it all, they can sleep with whosoever they like, yet marry someone respectable that they want to (who though he is more than likely to have shagged about himself, does not want his wife to have done so) So the man wants a hymen? For goodness sake give him one. LOL ^{(How ridiculous is it asking for a certificate? Jeez)}.

Young man, your denial is undisguised.
Which research have you conducted and how many know people who have been so treated? Answer simple question and you come up with conjectures. I bet you're one of those people who will ask for figures and evidence if someone was to make a statement that you dont agree with. You are obviously uncomfortable when such are requested for things you believe in.

Since you seem to be in the habit jumping into anything as long as women are concerned, care to tell what you have done for the women that is so fantastic other than to try and make everyone else believe that women are always right even when things are obviously unsubstamtiated and sometime daft.

The person's mother has to be in my age bracket and since she thought it right to insult me, I will insult the person i know in her family that is in my age bracket.

if you will stop poking your nose into things the genesis of which you dont understand, it might help you a little in the real world. the world does not start and end with internet forums.

I understand your argument. However, I have a question for you. . . are you in support of armed robbery?

If there's something that society frowns upon and you live in that society, are you not better off leaving?

What happens in most cases is that a news reporter gets information about a strange that that someone has done and then they report it as what everyone does. Most people thought every woman in Afghanistan did not want to wear that veil that they cover their faces with. however, most of them in Western countries still insist on wearing those veils. my point is that most of these things are about making mountains out of mole hills.

The only way I can support a woman who does this operation is if her life were to be endangered.

B T W -The fact that men lie to their wives about external relationships makes them subject to their wives as well.

It does not because it's not their right as married men to have affairs. So they aren't doing anything to be proud of, thus the need to lie about it. The case of a woman lying about her virginity can't be compared to that of a man's infidelity. They aren't even on the same level and should never be.

Tee hee hee 

You wanna watch?

I would have watched it the first time you did it. Its probably beyond restoration now

Furiously taking notes, hope my husband-to-be Debosky has not seen this thread, I have to notify the moderator to delete this disgusting thread before he sees it

Now all I need to find out where to procure adoption certificates in Naija for my pickins, in order to complete my tear-rubber status Debosky is gonna be so proud of me that I am a fagin



You can compliment my hubby Debo's write-up as much as you like because he is too darned good, but do you have to blow him kisses too I joke with everything, but this is where I draw the line This is your last warning  


@ Sisicapone

Whaddup Guess who's who again, people never learn sha Neways they are men just like Justgood, so nothing fazes me about them anymore

Sharon, I wanna learn too, but only because I love Debo and don't wanna harm his thingy and he loves me exercising my brain/thirsting for knowledge

This guy is something else!   Have you heard a more asinine reason for insulting someone's mother before?  

It is not my duty to educate you. If you are unable to do a simple internet search and find out more, I can't help you. If you are so 'comfortable' I challenge you - provide information/evidence that this is mere conjecture.

Must I do anything for women before I know that this craze for virginity is unfortunate?   What does that have to do with the issue at hand? Your predilection for going off on baseless tangents is worrying.
You expose yourself again - this is the TRUE import of your post. You think it is unsubstantiated.

If this is how you reason, you are in even worse shape than I thought.  
Tankyu sah! Kindly investigate the matter yourself and stop coming to internet forums seeking a free education.

Take some real world advice yourself - myopia is a severely limiting ailment, right up there alongside close-mindedness.