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crazykid (m)
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Seems you a little bored why not give me your e-mail add let's chat  |
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lauryn (f)
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i'm not bored, thanx still  |
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crazykid (m)
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you are welcomed. |
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Douzy (m)
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@ Lauryn/Crazykid
Was about to put on my binoculars. . . lol!
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lauryn (f)
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hehe  goggles woulda been best |
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crazykid (m)
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lol |
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Douzy (m)
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A girl (an undergraduate) in Naija once told me she didn't expect to marry a poor man after her parents had spent so much to train her (especially in school).
What u guys think?
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lauryn (f)
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well, if the poor man she's referring to, aint You, then I got nothing to say to/about her
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crazykid (m)
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She has every right to make her own choices
but when she ends up becomming an old unmarried girl
she would have her self to blame.
not anyone
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Douzy (m)
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well, if the poor man she's referring to, aint You, then I got nothing to say to/about her
And if it's me? |
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crazykid (m)
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you not poor man or are you? |
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Gettolove (m)
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she is got her choice to make its her life but she should not forget that every wise guy will reqiure atleast a first degree or any other pali from any chik, so her case is not exceptional
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crazykid (m)
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You must also note that not
all girls are ment for marriage
so when you happen to come across
that kind of person, just let her go
co's it's for your own good.
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Gettolove (m)
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You must also note that not
all girls are ment for marriage
so when you happen to come across
that kind of person, just let her go
co's it's for your own good.
i want to ask a ques?, Is marriage compulsory before having kids  |
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crazykid (m)
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Of course
don't you know that children born
out of wed luck are under a course?
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Gettolove (m)
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Of course
don't you know that children born
out of wed luck are under a course?
na lie |
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Douzy (m)
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L.O.L! Of course
don't you know that children born
out of wed luck are under a course?
Not that I'm in support of bearing children out of wedlock, but who places the curse and for what fault of theirs? |
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crazykid (m)
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@Gettolove
Ok then go ahead an have all the children in the
world before you get married.
and watch if any of them would become something
in life.
they would all end up becomming touts
criminals, robbers just name them.
now tell me, are they not under a course?
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Gettolove (m)
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@Gettolove
Ok then go ahead an have all the children in the
world before you get married.
and watch if any of them would become something
in life.
they would all end up becomming touts
criminals, robbers just name them.
now tell me, are they not under a course?
are talking from experience. because it seems you are sure of this curse |
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crazykid (m)
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@gettolove
look at all the area boys around you
do you thing they came from good homes?
they are all victims of unwanted pregnancy.
that's why they behave in an unusual manner ie
fighting, stealing, just name them.
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Narnar
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It does not matter how long you marry. The major thing is for one to be happy and fulfilled.
Allah
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Gettolove (m)
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@crazykid
this is another lie
not all of them are born out of wedluck, majority of them i beleive are victims of their personal mess up, or some are as you think
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crazykid (m)
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@ gettolove do you know anything about their roots, their background, their brothers, sisters? do you know? why are you defending them so much? or are you one of them? |
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Douzy (m)
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@ crazykid
You're rather over-generalising. It's quite clear that many delinquents have legitimate parents, while a good number of the miscreants also have legitimate parents.
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Gettolove (m)
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It does not matter how long you marry. The major thing is for one to be happy and fulfilled.
Allah
it matters o, don't you know that life expectancy has dropped to 50+ now |
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crazykid (m)
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@
douzy
do you know any of their parents?
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jaya46 (m)
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Dear Sir,
We are chemical engineering consultants in India. We like to work in Nigeria. Is there any wanted in this feild? If so kindly contact us.
It would be a favour for us.
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Gettolove (m)
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@
douzy
do you know any of their parents?
if anyone does not know their parents, does it mean they are bastards? |
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crazykid (m)
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NO
but judging from one's condition,
it's easy to tell the kind of person he or she is
ok?
so judging from those "area boys"
from your own perspective how do you rate them?
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Gettolove (m)
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@crazykid
i will advise you arrange for a survey using those touts as the target, you will be surprised that some of them are from a fortunate family.
and back to where i was going initially.
about the issue of havimg kids out of wed luck, since this is a common phenomena in naija today, many children were born in this circumstance by unmarried parents.Should we be preparing to have more area boys and touts in naija
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