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crazykid (m)
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Very soon.
I hope i will have the opportunity of attending it.  |
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marlet01 (m)
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@ crazykid
you want to have the opportunity of attending what
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crazykid (m)
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@ Marlet01
don't you know that Gina's getting married soon?
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Gettolove (m)
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@gina
are you getting married to a nairalander?
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Douzy (m)
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Oh well, if he were to be a Nairaland user, I would have been the one, but pity . . .  |
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Gettolove (m)
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Oh well, if he were to be a Nairaland user, I would have been the one, but pity . . . why are you so sure, i think i would have been her first choice  |
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Douzy (m)
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Ok, what makes you think so, Getto?
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crazykid (m)
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Oh well, if he were to be a Nairaland user, I would have been the one, but pity . . . I think you are kidding here. it's going to be me. |
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Gettolove (m)
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@gina you gotta come and settle this love war. Three men are in love wit u at the same time where did you do your jass? |
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crazykid (m)
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@ getto love our Leave gina alone don't you know she's preparing for wedding ceremony. |
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Gettolove (m)
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@ getto love our Leave gina alone don't you know she's preparing for wedding ceremony. you will do your wedding first while douzy will followsuit on the same day, then i will be last to give gina my own ring. Although she will be wearing three wedding rings but since i will be the last she is coming to my HOUSE MY ADVICE you guys should do all you got to do when you are fixxing the ring because its the only chance you have |
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crazykid (m)
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@Gettolove I na me marry am, una no go see am again. i know all of una, i no fit leave gina with una especiall you gettolove. |
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rezzy (f)
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really,well some Nigerian men what to make empire before they settle down .because no girl is ready to suffer.you know Nigerian girls 4 sure.
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Gettolove (m)
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really,well some Nigerian men what to make empire before they settle down .because no girl is ready to suffer.you know Nigerian girls 4 sure.
Is the girl lazy, i am not working for any girl and i will never marry a girl that will depend on my fortunes |
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crazykid (m)
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@Gettolove  so you expect your girl to take care of you abi?  |
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ginababy (f)
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the three of you are not qualify to be my husband because you all are not caring or else you would have known the date for the wedding and not asking me like a stranger. don't allow my husband  see all this your funny post. |
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crazykid (m)
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really,well some Nigerian men what to make empire before they settle down .because no girl is ready to suffer.you know Nigerian girls 4 sure.
You are right. Am so glad a female finally spoke the truth. the three of you are not qualify to be my husband because you all are not caring or else you would have known the date for the wedding and not asking me like a stranger. don't allow my husband see all this your funny post. Heheheheehehee. |
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Gettolove (m)
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@Gettolove so you expect your girl to take care of you abi? guy you don't understand what i am saying. @ rezzy said no girl would want to suffer which means that girls depend on fortunes of men, I hate this mentality and i hope my wife will not marry me on the ground that i am rich or successful because it may be on that bases that she would abandon me |
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omoge (f)
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windywendy, haven't replied ya because i have been busy, not from my experience but from 2 of my friends and a cousin's experience, my point remain the same. check out many of this unmarried 30 something, and you will understand better! Douzy, i'm on your side  |
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Butty
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why would people insist they must be rich before they get married, must people do a million naira wedding ? i think a court wedding wont cost =N=50,000 ($350) and you don't neccessarily need to invite every body you no.
I will soon get married if my babe completes her degree.
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candylips (m)
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good for u butty
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marlet01 (m)
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most of them would prefer enjoying their barchelor life than settling down early with a woman because most of them would find it boring.
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candylips (m)
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and who told u that
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Gettolove (m)
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why would people insist they must be rich before they get married, must people do a million naira wedding ? i think a court wedding wont cost =N=50,000 ($350) and you don't neccessarily need to invite every body you no.
I will soon get married if my babe completes her degree.
The problem is beyond just getting married with 50k or whatever, what i personally think is very important to me is aftermath of the wedding. wedding is just to tell the whole world that both of you are married, but after that there is more to it. |
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Ndipe (m)
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I wont encourage anybody to marry early. Marriage is not a 'spur of the moment' act that you engage in. It requires commitement for the rest of your life, and maturity on both partners. And don't forget that finances play an important role in our culture. When you are out of college in your early 20's, you may still have some road blocks ahead of you. Nigerian women, some of them are materialistic, and they want to date a well heeled guy, with a car and a house. By the time you finish renting your apartment, buying money, and fulfilling your family responsibilities, if you are the first born, ol'boy, you don old finish. Wedding itself is expensive, and when you have to do trado and white wedding, that is a drain in your pocket.
In America, you don't need that ceremony to be married. All what you do is to go to Court, pay ten or 20 dollars and you are married in the eyes of the law. Organize party the following weekend to celebrate your status as a married man. Nigeria, you pay dowry, buy gin for your father inlaw, lace for your mother inlaw, chocolate for your little brother inlaw, kolanuts for your grandfather in law, walking cane for the , and the money don disappear.
The reason why guys in yankees have kids quite early is that the system is different. Here a girl in high school gets pregnant, and she is automatically qualified for welfare. Can you imagine that? Before welfare was restructred by Clinton, some narrow minded women had kids in order to get more money from the federal government, without working.
Teenage pregnancy is a factor. Dont be suprised to see a woman in her late thirties being a grandmother. I have seen at least 2 cases.
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Gettolove (m)
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@Ndipe If the nigerian government introduce this type of welfare package for girls in our high schools, even guys too will find a way of getting pregnant The money one need to pay 'the in-laws' is killing and in some cases, it has perhaps been the reason why some men keep postponing their wedding. I PRAY I WIN A VISA LOTTERY TO YANKY |
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candylips (m)
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dream on dreamer you chances of wining is 1 in 1million. good luck
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Gettolove (m)
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dream on dreamer you chances of wining is 1 in 1million. good luck
It is a game of dreamers, |
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trendy (f)
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the nigerian economy is not helping the men at all!
and besides most of them want to be finacially balanced before they get married
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candylips (m)
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Too many beautiful women to choose from.
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Douzy (m)
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Very few good women to choose from.
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Gettolove (m)
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too many women to choose from really, but too many few can make a good wife
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