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Ralvy (m)
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Thank you crazyp, its the best thang*
You when d'u want tu marry??? 40??
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Janeesa (f)
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hell yea nigerian men don't get married early b/c they are like 50 years old and they are still changin diapers and walkin around with baby food on their clothes
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Chiori (m)
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Janeesa, that's a blatant lie. I am getting to 29, and I am set to tie the nuptials. And I am a Nigerian to be certain. So regurtitate on that.
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soulpatrol (f)
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at the risk of sounding so bold and forward, chiori, will you marry me?  i'm just a couple years younger than u, i have a solid education background, i make my own money, well dressed, fine as hell, articulate etc. and me sef dey find proper man o. whaddaya say we just run away together? u go go vegas to tie the know with me? make we pull a britney spears.  all of u, diss me if u like. a girl can always make the first move, right? thinking to herself. see as i just disgrace myself come dey advertise myself. chei, e be like say i drink too much red bull today o. that thing really does give u wings |
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Janeesa (f)
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ay,chiori i didnt mean alll of them, but i gotta admit their kids are like 5 and the dude will be like 45, hey maybe not u thats good your startin early =)
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Chiori (m)
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soulpatrol, i empathize with you. but i think i am off the shelf (so it seems), but i hve a cousin and we look very much alike, only he is shy. could link him up. and please, don't run away with my bros. we'll s'port you.
abeg, make no one diss s'patrol. there is nothing wrong in the woman making the first move. if this practice was accepted in nigeria, maybe this thread wouldn't even arise as more naija guys for don dey hooked now. na shyness dey make some men never propose till date, and they are approaching 40. so all hail soulpatrol!
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omoge (f)
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they spend years and years and yore dey sample (main reason why they don't marry early enough).
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soulpatrol (f)
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@chori. i was just pulling your legs o. ha! before u start thinking whick kain desperado be this one. |
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Chiori (m)
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i know that. you might be surprised i know you personally, soulpatrol. only let me leave you to investigate which of your acquaintances i am
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abanna (f)
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HI,
DONT BLAME THEM COS D ECONOMIC SITUATION IS NOT FAVOURABLE MORE OVER NIGERIAN GIRLS LOVE MEN WITH MONEY EVEN IF HE STOLE IT OR HAVE You NOT OBSERVED THAT D BIG BOYS MARRY VERY SMALL GIRLS?HAVE You NOT SEEN BEAUTIFUL CHIC 4GETTING DY TRUE LOVE 4 STINKLY RICH OLD MEN?
CONFIRM FROM UNILAG ,UNICAL,ETC
BUT MONEY IS NOT D BASIS 4 MARRIAGE(I MEAN SUCESSFUL ONES LIKE OUR PARENTS USED 2 HAVE)
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soulpatrol (f)
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@chiori. them send u to me? who be them o? awon aye |
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Chiori (m)
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we go block on monday
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iyke001
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o boy suffer dey n noone wants 2 bring kids 2 suffer women only align 2 finished goods man must chart a course before settling down at least they marry someday
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$$Rhino
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Cos marriage needs money and how many nigerian men can't afford to take care of themselves, talkless of another woman, and most nigerian family has no idea what it means to enjoy one another be4 kids, they want to have kids fast fast, most men still lives with papa and mama, how sad our economy is, but i am sure that all will be well soon or at least one day.
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Tanna (f)
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My Nigerian husband was born in the US. and raised in Lagos from 6 mos. old until age 20.
I married him when he was 21 and I was 19. (He was already a natural born citizen) so citizenship was not the motive. Love was, and he wanted to assure that this Proverbs 31 woman wouldn't be found by anyone else. He begged me to marry him.
Being very connected to the local Nigerian community I can say that Naija men typically are marrying around age 30 or later here in the US.
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Tanna (f)
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My Nigerian husband was born in the US. and raised in Lagos from 6 mos. old until age 20.
I married him when he was 21 and I was 19. (He was already a natural born citizen) so citizenship was not the motive. Love was, and he wanted to assure that this Proverbs 31 woman wouldn't be found by anyone else. He begged me to marry him.
Being very connected to the local Nigerian community I can say that Naija men typically are marrying around age 30 or later here in the US.
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Jokelami (f)
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Especially when there's a mistaken pregnancy along the line,they hardly marries.they tell you they are not okobo's
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shostar
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not all nigerians marry late. and for those that do they probably have their reasons.i'm a core nigerian, just clocked 27, and plan to get marry in 2 years time.i'm still looking for miss right anyway.
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+osisi
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it's true, nigerian men will be 40+ and still doing bobo
This ain't right!
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Chiori (m)
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osisi(banana) am I a jamaican? please tell me.
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BABEELOVE (f)
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@Topic How them go marry? When na so so waka waka and reefa them dey smoke??? Most of them cannot even hold down a freaking job-----looking for some sugar mama all over the place!!!! Tufiakwa!!! Too many damaged brain cells!!!!  |
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fatty27
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And you are the doctor that diagnosed that? Hmmm? Does that applies to your brothers also?
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fatty27
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That is wonderful. I am also married. And less than 30 But, I must confess, I 'cut corners'. I don't call it cheating. I just have to find helper when my wife is not in the mood. May God forgive me.
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soulpatrol (f)
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@fatty27. interesting! u supposely "cut corners" but u don't cheat. please, i would like to know what that is about. do tell! |
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olanajim (m)
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That is what yoruba call Olojoro!
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+osisi
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That is wonderful. I am also married. And less than 30 But, I must confess, I 'cut corners'. I don't call it cheating. I just have to find helper when my wife is not in the mood. May God forgive me.
Idiot.!! |
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+osisi
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This girl,you are funny. I think this marrying late thing is worse in Igboland or maybe I say so because I'm Igbo and lived mainly in Igboland as a youngster. The men will want to build house and so on before marrying. Then again the high bride price is not helping matters,to save for dowry is almost like saving for retirement. Anyman marrying later than 35 married late in my opinion.babeelove that may be why my brother fled to Auchi to get you LOL. Who wants to buy the contents of an "80 leaves" exercise book plus a fat downpayment on a wife. Owerri,and Mbaise area are notorious for milking a man dry. Dowry should be eliminated so that our men can at least start school runs on time. |
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BABEELOVE (f)
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Idiot.!!
Haba nauuuuuuuuuuuuuu?  The guy is only being honest!!!! I like the bobo style jare!!!!His marriage will last longer than most---for finding a "resting" place to "cool off"!!!!  This girl,you are funny.
I think this marrying late thing is worse in Igboland or maybe I say so because I'm Igbo and lived mainly in Igboland as a youngster.
The men will want to build house and so on before marrying.
Then again the high bride price is not helping matters,to save for dowry is almost like saving for retirement.
Anyman marrying later than 35 married late in my opinion.
babeelove that may be why my brother fled to Auchi to get you LOL.Who wants to buy the contents of an "80 leaves" exercise book plus a fat downpayment on a wife.
Owerri,and Mbaise area are notorious for milking a man dry.
Dowry should be eliminated so that our men can at least start school runs on time.
he he he he he he he he he!!! You gat that right. See as A dey take care of ya brother??? Auchi girlz rock!!!!! Agenegbode live!!!!!!  ---dad from Asaba--mom from Agenegbode!!!! True true a man should be married by 35---------we all got married in our 20's in our family. All six of us. 4 boys and 2 girls, with me leading in the competition by showing them road!!!! coughs! coughs! coughs!-----Dickies let person see road for university??? Kai!!!Come siddon for house dey breed like rabbits--------children everywhere. It is so much fun to have your kids early!!!! It is fun being a young parent. Energy dey to run around. Imagine my parents will see their great-great grandchildren before they die in Jesus' name---------Amen!!!! |
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laudate
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This girl,you are funny.
I think this marrying late thing is worse in Igboland or maybe I say so because I'm Igbo and lived mainly in Igboland as a youngster.
The men will want to build house and so on before marrying.
Then again the high bride price is not helping matters,to save for dowry is almost like saving for retirement.
Anyman marrying later than 35 married late in my opinion.
babeelove that may be why my brother fled to Auchi to get you LOL.
Who wants to buy the contents of an "80 leaves" exercise book plus a fat downpayment on a wife.
Owerri,and Mbaise area are notorious for milking a man dry.
Dowry should be eliminated so that our men can at least start school runs on time.
Kai! Can't believe you said that. Make I go back go look door. . . .e be like say na another person dey talk. Were you not the same person saying that other tribes dash out their women, by giving them away for little or nothing? You even went as far as saying high bride price was a deterrent to divorce. Now you come dey talk another thing for here. Chukwu biko! Wonders shall never end!  |
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I-man (m)
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@fatty27. interesting! u supposely "cut corners" but u don't cheat. please, i would like to know what that is about. do tell! Its more likely when you marry in your 20s that you "cut corners".In your 30s,erectile dysfunction will start setting in and there were be less motivation to "cut corners". If marrying early is so ideal,then we should be going for child marriages. Na wetin I dey wait for before I get married,my first experience of erectile dysfunction will determine when I marry. |
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BABEELOVE (f)
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Its more likely when you marry in your 20s that you "cut corners".In your 30s,erectile dysfunction will start setting in and there were be less motivation to "cut corners". If
marrying early is so ideal,then we should be going for child marriages.
Na wetin I dey wait for before I get married,my first experience of erectile dysfunction will determine when I marry. You don come again oh!!!! wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa wa!!!!! LOL -----please speak for ya self oh!!! erectile dysfunction in the 30's???  Women like me are in some serious trouble then. he he he he he he he!!! Say wetin happen??? Una no dey eat right??? Who you wan come give that "limp dicky" to??? Poor bride!!!! Infact, thanks for letting us know your plans!!! |
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