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ginababy (f)
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the most peaceful couples on earth are those with out money.
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Douzy (m)
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By the way, the level of peace and understanding a man enjoys at home (with and from the wife) could be serious factors to how much more money he makes in the future. This is why the Japanese economic system is strongly hinged on the family.
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Douzy (m)
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the most peaceful couples on earth are those with out money.
Dayum! Where are you taking this discuss to? |
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crazykid (m)
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the most peaceful couples on earth are those with out money.
You are Absolutely right |
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ginababy (f)
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@Douzy
all is still about marrage.
Marrage is the hardest step a man will take and its all come to pass with the help of prayers.
so any thing that comes out of this topic is still for the topic.
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Douzy (m)
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Well, Gina u were talking about the happiest being those with money and turned around to say that the most peaceful were those without money. How comes the least happy become the most peaceful?
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ginababy (f)
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marrage is worldwide so we have to talk worldwide too.
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crazykid (m)
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@Douzy
Let me answer that.
From my own point of view
marriages that are based on money, power, fame, and all other things
instead of love, are bound to crash.
co's love is what keep you both going
till death do you part.
money can't do that.
fame can't do that.
power can't do that.
and all other things can't do that.
Only love.
Perfect love
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iice (f)
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*cogitates* hmmmm on second thought *drinks coffee* maybe things will be clearer
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Douzy (m)
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Phew! My convo with gina wasn't flowiing again there.
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crazykid (m)
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Ahhhhhh Sorry oh!!! i no no say you need am oh!!  any way keep trying she will respond.  |
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Douzy (m)
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@Douzy
Let me answer that.
From my own point of view
marriages that are based on money, power, fame, and all other things
instead of love, are bound to crash.
co's love is what keep you both going
till death do you part.
money can't do that.
fame can't do that.
power can't do that.
and all other things can't do that.
Only love.
Perfect love
Welcome to my camp, crazykid. We're saying the same thing (may be, in different ways). |
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crazykid (m)
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@
Douzy
Yea maybe
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Douzy (m)
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Ahhhhhh Sorry oh!!! i no no say you need am oh!! any way keep trying she will respond. I actually meant that Gina and I didn't seem to be arguing on the same footing anymore. |
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Douzy (m)
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*cogitates* hmmmm on second thought *drinks coffee* maybe things will be clearer
Still cogitating? I wonder why coffee and lipton hardly have any effects on me.  |
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crazykid (m)
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I actually meant that Gina and I didn't seem to be arguing on the same footing anymore.
ok |
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iice (f)
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Still cogitating? I wonder why coffee and lipton hardly have any effects on me. |
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ginababy (f)
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whoop
I guess you guys are not gossiping?
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Douzy (m)
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Lol @ Gina! @ iice, Glad u've come to, but still as much confused about the "being rich makes you happy and at the same time poor makes you peaceful" theory as you are. Yeah, I no more take coffee, but I could manage with lipton if there's no other beverage, though it makes me more lepacious than I am already |
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crazykid (m)
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whoop
I guess you guys are not gossiping?
not really, just trying to gain more info about you.  |
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ginababy (f)
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Lol @ Gina!
Glad u've come to, but still as much confused about the "being rich makes you happy and at the same time poor makes you peaceful" theory as you are.
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yeah if they is money you can buy as many good things as you like including a human. how will you feel if you can't get what you want? the rich they don't have so much peace because of so much things they come to have at hand for example the president of the country how peaceful do u think he is? one he is always making sure that he is safe and how to solve other peoples problems. some they think on how to maintain their wealth so that they will not fall back to poverty. but the poor is always free minded. |
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candylips (m)
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duh |
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crazykid (m)
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lol gina |
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ginababy (f)
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@Douzy
Say some thing.
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Douzy (m)
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Since you want me to say something: There's no real "happiness" without "peacefulness" (peace of mind). They go hand in hand. I had always wanted to tell you that. Just weren't sure what direction you were taking the discuss.
That's why I would rather say that the rich only appear happy. They are not necessarily happy.
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Douzy (m)
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Seeya when I get back from lunch, Gina. I guess you just came back from yours. . . lol!
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ginababy (f)
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Since you want me to say something: There's no real "happiness" without "peacefulness" (peace of mind). They go hand in hand. I had always wanted to tell you that. Just weren't sure what direction you were taking the discuss.
That's why I would rather say that the rich only appear happy. They are not necessarily happy.
i don't agree with that. this way round. when you steal what you needed you will be happy. but you won't have peace because you are not sure if you will be cut. OR when you kill some one for ritual you will be happy having the money flowing but when the guest start tormenting you, you will have no peace. am i talking? |
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Douzy (m)
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@ Gina
Remember I said REAL HAPPINESS, in essence, TRUE HAPPINESS. Happiness qua happiness cannot exist without peace of mind. You are using the word 'happiness' in a very loose sense. True happiness emanates from (peace in) the soul and not from some material possession. You can't be happy for stealing rather you could be pleased that you stole something you wanted and wasn't caught. The fact that you don't have peace of mind after the theft actually says that you are not "happy" for what you did. Geez, you are even countering your own argument! Duh! Having a pleasant feeling doesn't necessarily mean being happy. Pleasure is different from happiness, and that's why the ealr Christian martyrs were said to be happy even in the face of adversities, even while they were being martyred. For them, it wasn't a pleasant feeling because of the pains they went through, but they were happy because of the reward they expected ultimately.
Like I said before, Happiness in its most essential nature does not rely on (the possession of) any material thing like money.
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Gettolove (m)
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I don't agree that a marriage built on financial reasons would crash as someone said instead i will posit the reverse of the assertion. @gina + iice & co girls are the reason why men marry late and not neccessarily to make all the millions in the world, In naija a wise guy must ensure he has what it takes to maintain both his car and wifey because ARISTOS are everywhere Girls pretend that they love you for who you are but when things look unfriendly(cash wise), then the true picture of your wife will come out. FOR THE GIRLS CAN YOU MARRY A POORMAN a) YES b) NO |
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