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Necorios (m)
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We av been dating for 6yrs and my dad says we re not compatible for marriage,80% of my dad's talks is reality and i love her so much,wht do i do?
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mo money (m)
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stop loving her and leave for good, G luck
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kiki (f)
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how didn't u realize that for d past 6 years well think about it this way it might be one out of the 20% of what your daddy says that is not true
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candylips (m)
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listen to your dad
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Seun (m)
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You are not ripe for marriage since you are still a daddy's boy. Release her so she can find a better man.
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Glamourgal (f)
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follow your heart.
BTW why doesn't your dad like your girl?
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ugodaniel (m)
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follow your heart.
BTW why doesn't your dad like your girl?
Good question!!! |
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bunmii (f)
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do not ignore your father just as him why he thinks both of u are not compatible
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spoilt (f)
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is it your dad who is going to be living with her? i don't believe you!  |
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Seun (m)
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Ok, I agree with others that you should ask him why. Also, ask yourself whether the two of you are compatible.
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white`Nkem (f)
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"You're not compatible" is not a reason. Did he read that in the stars or guessed it in cards? Come on, he should really come up with strong relevant arguments!
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Radiant (f)
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Helloooooooooo!  |
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Omo Eko (f)
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am sorry to say this oh but fu ck the parents decision on marriage.
They enjoyed their own lives, now is the time for kids to do the same.
Parents also think they know the best but trust me they don't.
Some says the pastor said they weren't meant to be together,? oh really how did he know that.
Some says they saw it in their dreams? yea right
I think people needs to make their own decisions, they are the ones that knows what's best for themselves.
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Radiant (f)
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Omo, you forgot to mention "God said" and " I saw a vision"  |
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Omo Eko (f)
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Omo, you forgot to mention "God said" and " I saw a vision" lol yes oh , |
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lafile (m)
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@Necorios
You've not said much. surely, your dad must have said more than that. what did he mean by not compatible? what are his reasons? what is the opinion of other family members (mum, sis, bro etc)? What is the 80% reality?
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tinuade001
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Why not wake your dad in the middle of the night and talk things with him. Ask him why? And if i may ask, where is your dad all these while. For the past 6 years. O boy, do consider we ladies too, even if he say so, where do you want the lady to start now. Put her in your position. Anyway ask God for his intervention.
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vigasimple (m)
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am sorry to say this oh but fu ck the parents decision on marriage. They enjoyed their own lives, now is the time for kids to do the same.
Parents also think they know the best but trust me they don't.
Some says the pastor said they weren't meant to be together,? oh really how did he know that.
Some says they saw it in their dreams? yea right
I think people needs to make their own decisions, they are the ones that knows what's best for themselves.
If the words in bold is what you think and say about your parents then your children will think and say the same to you. Try and build manners, even if you disagree with your parents(asuming you have any left) and you can even educate them if you think they are wrong and indeed if they are wrong. majority of times parents are right because they have passed through the exact route you are about to take. A word is enough for the wise. Why not wake your dad in the middle of the night and talk things with him. Ask him why? And if i may ask, where is your dad all these while. For the past 6 years. O boy, do consider we ladies too, even if he say so, where do you want the lady to start now. Put her in your position. Anyway ask God for his intervention.
Very well said, this is the most thoughtful advice and opinion on this issue so far. 1. Your father need to give you a very good reason for his view of non compatibility. 2. What was he thinking/looking for the last 6 years and you for that matter ? 3. If you have a sister or a daughter would you be happy for them to find out after 6 years that they are not compatible, how would you feel. |
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