Pastor Adeboye On Sex

I happen to pick up a copy of Pastor Adeboye's daily devotional guides for 2009 (can't remember the title) and stumbled on the daily lession for 9th Decemeber - Love, Sex and Marriage.  Amongst other things the pastor advises Christian as to the type of sexual act that is permissible in the eyes of God.  According the Pastor, oral and anal sex are supposed to be anathema in the eyes of God.  What to NLanders think about this piece of advice?   Is the Pastor right, or is he wrong?

Isn't it Songs of Solomon that says we should suckle on our lovers breast?

How can Adeboye say Oral sex is wrong. He needs to read his bible properly. 

Breasts are lest suckled upon during oral sex.

Abeg, where in the bible does it say one cannot have oral sex? Does any bible basher out there know? Anyhow, what you do in the privacy of your bedroom is between you and your God. Afterall, it is still the same bible that considers sex as unclean or impure. Why don't we all just take a lifetime vow of chastity. That should solve everything by bring the world to an end due to a lack of procreation.

Who knows what these pastors and imams are performing with their wives on the bed? Maybe na doggy pastor Adeboye dey do but whose knows  :

Not a good topic, God forgive everyone

No, life cannot be a comic but might be a comedy, however that poster is a comic. LOL.

I no follow ooh!this one were concern PASTOR OOH JARE

The MAN OF GOD that is a GOD to a sizeable number of Nigerians has spoken and has declared that sex should involve no foreplay of any sorts and is to be done using a particular formation and tactic.

Those that worship him in flesh and truth should go ahead and keep to his commandments while those that think it's just an opinion of a mortal can disregard this 'command' and continue the good work that has kept them happy in the privacy of their bedrooms.

"I happen to pick up a copy of Pastor Adeboye's daily devotional guides for 2009 (can't remember the title) and stumbled on the daily lession for 9th Decemeber - Love, Sex and Marriage.  Amongst other things the pastor advises Christian as to the type of sexual act that is permissible in the eyes of God.  According the Pastor, oral and anal sex are supposed to be anathema in the eyes of God.  What to NLanders think about this piece of advice?   Is the Pastor right, or is he wrong?

A further question is the following - Does the Pastor know whether any other parts of the human body is supposed to touch the genitals of one's sexual partner?  For instance, are one's fingers supposed to touch the genitals of one's partners?   Is one's breast supposed to touch the genitals of one's partner?  Is it OK for one to kiss the bellybutton of one's partner?" Quote from Poster
 
 
@ poster, i am a bit puzzled how come in February u had already studied December of a daily devotional for "Christains". Well that suggest you are either confused on your stand or at best seeking the truth cos your inner man knows your stand is deemed for destruction.

I wont be found dead with an atheist material talkless more of reading it, its so puzzling the extent u guys are prepared to go. The truth is that it is not by force to be a christain you have rejected the message, to you there is no heaven or hell so what is your business with what is said in a purely christain book, after all no matter or whatever what the man says u wont believe it, u dont believe in God.

I wont attempt to respond to u, there is no use, how can u undastand the concept "LOVEMAKING: AN ACT OF FAITH" (and by the way that is the title) when u cannot undastand "For God so Loved the World".



How do u know that?, are u in the heart of a sizeable number of Nigerians at best that statement does not pass the common sense test, what particular formation or tactic did he suggest. Please tell as it seems u have read the devotional for yourself.

Oh my. . . .

Poor Mrs Adeboye. No wonder she looks like that.

  We have people shouting f**k  jesus, yahweh, allah, and mohammed daily on nairaland daily and nothing has happened to them or nairaland and here you are telling seun to be careful for other people's utterances. very funny.

i think we should be careful of our choice & use of words. the things of God should not be handled with such levity.
@ poster this is not d right place for this topic but this i have to say:

Romans 15;22-23 states that if u have doubts about anything & u go ahead to do it, u r sinning if u go against your conscience.
Now on issues that are not stated in clear terms in the Bible u have to have your personal relationship with God to no wat he wants from u in relation to that topic.
The Bible states i Ephesians 3 21-33 that married couples r to love themselves with their bodies.

It cant be the same for everyone,just as some kneel to pray, some stand. ITS PERSONAL.
I stopped wearing sun-glasses cuz God asked me to(makes me highly unapproachable), it doesnt make it wrong for anyone else. GET IT
Lots of sermons are from a mixture of spiritual & personal views cuz it comes from God THROUGH an individual, it always has a speck of personal opinion vould be optional based on the topic & its biblical references.

If u care that much ask God.

Funnily enough, the Pastor did not said this was a personal issue and was therefore at the discretion of personal whims.   So it looks like this is a personal issue two levels removed - firstly the bible does not directly bars oral/anal sex, so it is a personal issue to christian couples.  Secondly,  the bars it directly, but there appears to still be room for personal maneouverings.  


So what is the right way to have sex that is GOOD in the eyes of god?   Are the following allowed?

1)   Masturbation
2)   Mutual mastubation
3)   Vaginal Rear entry
4)   Sex during period