My Husband Cheated On Me

@Poster - I admire your ability to give him a 2nd chance. Major concern is not even the cheating but without condoms?! Thats f'ed up.

@Leilah - WTF??!?! Is that your only angle. You keep popping up saying "dress up" "go out clubbing" "stop him drinking". Is he a child? He is a grown man. You cannot keep a man on lockdown unless you really want to piss him off. If he is a good person (the jury is still out on this one) then its ok for him to let off some steam and have a few drinks with his mates. Men don't like to be suffocated by their wives.