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natalya
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I'm having a little problem with my sex life. i'm that kinda girl that gets wet easily, even the anticipation of jumping into bed with my beau often makes me cum. My problem is that i get wet and climax too easily. my boyfriend knows this and he tries as much as possible to be so tender on me anytime we make luv, but he himself takes so much time before he ejaculates. the number of times we have been in bed together, anytime he thrusts into me and i climax, i begin to get dry fast and soon the pains will start. all this(from wetness to my climaxes) last about 8-10 minutes, and by then my beau is still either as hard as a rock or is getting harder. I often have to jerk him off to release him of the pressure(i like him cumming all over my boobs, but that is another matter). there way a day that he took up to 45 mins before he came. i thot he was on some kind of steroids that day.
Another thing is that i cannot reach my climax with my legs open. i always have to clamp my thighs so tight, my baby will not be able to move much. the little movement he can make will bring me to climax, but then its either he is just getting half way or still far away from climaxing.
Please what can i do about all this? i want to enjoy sex as long and as wet as possible. i also want to match the power and thrusts my babyboy gives me till he cumms powerfully on me. Pls help a sister out.
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temi 4 rea (f)
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Are u really climaxing or u are reaching the big O.(having orgasm)
Am just curious.
Climaxing with 8-10 mins!
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natalya
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Yes i do climax nd reach the big O, but like i said i really want it to last longer. I have a very sensitive body nd skin(especially my nipples nd clit), so one touch on those areas from my babyboy and i'm on fire. i will like it to last longer and satisfy him, match him strength for strength, thrust for thrust, and make it worthwhile, instead of fizzling out nd becoming putty in his arms.
most of the time he prefers me riding him in the cowgirl position, where i'll have more control of his thrusts and depth, but still i climax fast. he is rather big down there nd no matter the position we are in, he keeps on rubbing my G and clit with his thing. atimes i climax about four times within the space of 30 seconds in-between. after that, i become dry, while he still remains rock hard like i said.
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desthan (m)
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your body is in total order, its simply responding to stimilus, and there notin you can do to stop that, rather when u are getting dry, your babyboy should be sensitive to observe that the juicy aint flowing, so instead of thrusting he should come down and do a little foreplay (kissing your neck, suckng on your nipples, licking on your clit and all that), u know try to turn you on again then you can continue with the ride.
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uyimen
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Hard talk! Those are really not important.good for you if you can reach the so called big O.
Most importantly tell him to use a condom HIV is real.
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BlueDiva (f)
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When you get dry, apply a lubricant.
You can also give your boo a BJ and when he is very much aroused, let him enter you.
This way both of you may cum almost the same time.
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Johnnny (m)
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@ poster
Babygirl, I can feel your pain. I am more like your man sexually, I go for a long time without reaching my climax most times, while my girl must have climax and get dry, even tired and sleepy within 10mins.
As a man I feel cheated most times, until we talk about the issue together.
We agreed that I shud sometimes watch adult movies as a prelude to foreplay, with that, I am aroused, even b4 foreplay.
We both resolve to do lots of fore play, mostly on me. she kisses, sucks my privates and so on, we try to limit my touch to her body cos she gets wet easily, so by the time I am filled with pleasure almost uncontrollably, we make love and most times since then, we either climax together, or I climax a little after her. It worked and is still working for us, because we understand the strengths and weakness of each other and worked together to balance the equation.
On the issue of liking to tighting your legs when u are about cumming, I think u shud make doggy style your last position on which u climax, dat way even if you tighten your legs totally, it will still be easy for him to thrust in and out, dat might even make him climax quicker.
Less I forget, Beware of drugs that acts as enhancers of sexual prowess, I dont support it.
Gud luck.
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sillyme (f)
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LUCKY YOU!!!  I WISH I HAD THAT PROBLEM. i have never orgasmed thru penetrative sex! |
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congoshine (m)
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LUCKY YOU!!! I WISH I HAD THAT PROBLEM. i have never orgasmed thru penetrative sex! Why do i get the feeling ,you're looking for 'it' ?! |
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MrCrackles (m)
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Hummmmmmmmmmm!
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i_laugh
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@Poster
This is actually "super story". Sometimes you said you climax 8-10 minutes, and sometimes you say 30 seconds? Which one you dey? And look, why will you hold your pu ssy tight before you cum? meaning your pus sy is so numb, it cant pleasure the guy, a normal pu ssy is designed to be opened while the erect shaft goes in and out, if you close it up, then it is too loose, closing it up means you are making it un naturally tighter, this will make the di ck rid of the normal sensations, the privates will just be pumping without any action. Your guy did 45 mins marathon and you think your pu ssy is normal? no, it is numb, without any sensations, the guy is just trying to pretend, ask him and he will tell you he aint enjoying shit.
You also said he is big, hmmm, that is good for you, a loose pu ssy needs a big d ick, my advice is for you to begin to exercise the pu ssy, not by having more sex, but by doing things that will make it tight, e.g. walking, it realy helps, and in place of tightening the female orifice together, try tieing your legs to the bedposts while your lumpy di cked partner pokes you in a fashion that derides of meaningless frigidity.
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Danor
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Worrrrrrd! @ i_Laugh. In fact, u covered the length, breadth, height and depth of the "too early" and "too late" orgasmic problems.
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blackmann
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@Poster
This is actually "super story". Sometimes you said you climax 8-10 minutes, and sometimes you say 30 seconds? Which one you dey? And look, why will you hold your pu ssy tight before you cum? meaning your pus sy is so numb, it cant pleasure the guy, a normal pu ssy is designed to be opened while the erect shaft goes in and out, if you close it up, then it is too loose, closing it up means you are making it un naturally tighter, this will make the di ck rid of the normal sensations, the privates will just be pumping without any action. Your guy did 45 mins marathon and you think your pu ssy is normal? no, it is numb, without any sensations, the guy is just trying to pretend, ask him and he will tell you he aint enjoying shit.
You also said he is big, hmmm, that is good for you, a loose pu ssy needs a big d ick, my advice is for you to begin to exercise the pu ssy, not by having more sex, but by doing things that will make it tight, e.g. walking, it realy helps, and in place of tightening the female orifice together, try tieing your legs to the bedposts while your lumpy di cked partner pokes you in a fashion that derides of meaningless frigidity.
i-laugh, maybe u should try and understand the context of the girl's post first before jumping into conclusions. she said she climaxes at 30 seconds intervals. that can come in-between the 8-10 minutes she specified. i know of a few girls i've laid who when climaxing, they clamp their thighs together, and they are cosy, nice and tight down there. gives me and them so much sexual feeling and pleasure. don't be too hasty in condemning her ok? |
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charles316
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d girl is just revealing her fantasy.
nice story
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touchmeder
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i-laugh, maybe u should try and understand the context of the girl's post first before jumping into conclusions. she said she climaxes at 30 seconds intervals. that can come in-between the 8-10 minutes she specified. i know of a few girls i've laid who when climaxing, they clamp their thighs together, and they are cosy, nice and tight down there. gives me and them so much sexual feeling and pleasure. don't be too hasty in condemning her ok?
thank u my broda, u have spoken well. i wonder y pple think its a made up tale. the issue of clamping the thighs is not new either. |
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PERVERT9
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lucky you,some ladies no dey even come at all at all, he beta make you go do thanksgiving for your church,but remember to give testimony too o
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chuksme
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The poster, i did not see any problem with what you called problem. this is common to so many girls. what i will advise you is to engage in more foreplay with your boy, immediately you are dried. The mater of closing your thigh together during climax is not a problem because i have seen that with a lot of girls
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yemstrad (m)
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This baby is sincerely normal. I cannot see any problem with her except there is something she is not revealing. I'll love to mess a gurl like you who is hyper sensitive down there.
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