Nigerian Girls Are Not Romantic: Why?

True story is naija chics are dead beat unromantic.Romance has to do wit droppin greens.Aintcha eva heard "no romance widdout finance"??

Word!! Tell 'em!!

  whitelexii


take that back take that back take that back take that back,  im sulking right now.   u know for a fact naija babes are nto like that

live story if u try me, u wouldn't dating oyibo again, may be u hv'nt ment  hot nigerian lady that will make u feel as if u  are on top of d world
try 2 get down with d real niger girls and see what romantic they are in time of that

dont worry u will get d one who will get down with u deepling

@crazykid


I think you are right about that but it goes both ways.


A Nigerian mans idea of Romance is sweet words, smiles, long deep looks into the womans eyes and then into the bed to physically express those words and smiles and deep looks into the eyes. The thing is, they are so eager to get into bed, only to huff and puff, they think that is romantic.

Don't get me wrong, Nigerian men can be taught how to be romantic and once they learn it, it all becomes very natural for them. The reasons why Nigerian men are like this however, is another topic.

As for Nigerian women, I bet they are one of the sexiest and hottest romantic women that ever lived, they just are not allowed to express it because Nigerian men want them to be angels. Then, when the white woman comes in and freaks the Nigerian man off, he wants to complain that Nigerian women are to inhibited. Don't get me wrong, there is a difference between Romace and freak offs but if one can not be romantic and he is to busy being freaked, he will not be able to embrace Romance because all he wants is to be freaked.

Nigerian women need to be who they are, be sexy, be cute, be hot. stop trying to please the Nigerian man and please your self. The Nigerian man will have to conform to you because if you keep conforming to him, you will be damned if you do and damned if you don't' so you mine as well be sexy, hot and romantic so that you can have your cake and eat it to.

Ahem, how her case take different? Na that wan me wan know 

Please People.

Tell me, in which way are nigerian gals unromantic, is it in bed, or displaying affection or what.

If women are unromantic, Men are more soo, they do not try hard enough.

There is only soo far a woman can go to prove how she really feels about a guy, I think we have learned the hard way to be very VERY careful with our feeling/emotions when it comes to guys. We don't want them walking all over us.

Big Up my STONG, INDEPENDANT WOMEN!!!!!!

Nigeria babes are romantic and materialistic. I think the two go along cause without one the other can never work, they go hand in hand.

I also think its up to the guys cause they know better, some babes doesnt even know if they are romantic or not.

brother white lexi

i agree to some level taht naija babes arent romantic, see when i was in niger i though oh its s nigerian thing, bu ti came to the states i saw a lot of naija babes that werent romantic either. bu tu know what i realized, the guys were not trying at all, they never made effort so i guess the babes didnt bother with it.  now i know i am different, but see romance is not about how much money u have, it boils down to creativity, the more creative u are the easier romance is, so to all the ladies out there, it wouldnt hurt to try a little, and to the brothers, why the heck should they even bother if u guys cant differenciate between, carnations and tulips.  its a lost case whitelexi, from my experience it seems the only thing nigerian brothers know how to do is throw money at u, evey thing is about money, buy, buy, buy come on fellas, we need more than that.

Romance is relative ojare - what one person may consider romantic may be frowned upon by someone else. And who writes the rules anyway?

 Big deal! Like your worth is impressive

 @all the boys in the house

how can u say nigerian girls arent romantic when the system(life in niaja) doesnt allow the kind of romance u guys are talking about.Try kissing a girl in public and see how people will look at u.try walking around a garden hand in hand with your girl in public and see the reaction u will get from some people. most nigerians are not used to candle light dinners not just the girls but the boys too.showing too much emotions is seen as a weakness in our society, so how can u say the girls are not romantic. try rubbing your girls feet when she comes home from school or work and see the reaction on her face.if u cook for your girl and help her do some domestic household things most of the time she might find it strange because she wasnt thought that the man should do such things.(she didnt grow up seeing her dad do that) most girls will prefer u to give them money than to take them on a romantic trip round a park or zoo.(because they see that as an oyibo mans culture)money is more important than romance in our relationships it covers up for the lack of romance and we are used to it that way, so it aint the girls fault they are only displaying what the society teaches them. some of them are really romantic its just the exposure that matters.

Saint, it depends on the kind of romance you have in mind. Maybe you should be more specific so that Nairalanders can prove you wrong or concur with you.

Naija chics r not romantic and thats cos of the general dating culture in naija,  Go to onitsha and say u want to throw a surprise party for your chic for instance,  or u want to get a bit creative just to make her happy, it will surprise u that even in the middle of that party, one rich onitsha market trader (OnMaTa) will use cash and steal her away from u for ever!
It happens daily, girls say guys dont try hard enough; girls say a relationship aint all about money; girls say all the right things in here but the same girls start to trip over materialistic stuff and even forget they had a boyfriend some minutes ago,  just out of curiousity oh, how many babes in naija today, whether in a relationship or not, will refuse a relationship from 2face? he's cool, he's famous, maybe rich to an extent, and he can sing romantic songs

Its as simple as that, girls expect guys to throw money at them and when a guy cannot do that, there aint no love,  that maybe explains why guys dont bother trying cos they know u wont even remember all that when it really matters