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kokoletz (m)
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Babaibadan hope no hard feelings. Please tell us what you wuld give to that will drive her crazy.
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SvS (f)
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i lik when its from his heart
mines an artist,so he can make it himself
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iice (f)
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SvS, my point exactly, thought and creativity
BDW, long time no see, hope you good. 
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SvS (f)
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am good ta girl,hows u?ave bn busy
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iice (f)
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ahhhh well good to have you back. am good ta. Eveseh don't come here no more but i've seen her somewhere else lol o well make i stop before admin vex 
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kokoletz (m)
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Gals it nice dt u met again please b clear on what you really love and apprecite and please mention items dt are nt expensive, not very expensive and expensive.
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haywhy (m)
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Before i read the whole thread i think i should first stop kokoletz from buying any gift (if you haven't). But if you have bought any,  because you are loosing her soon. The reason is simple: 1. As for now, the lady likes/loves you for you & not gifts! 2.You are the price of the relationship. 3.She knows you won't kiss her ass & won't take any shit but buy her gifts & you're simple been controlled. 4.Buying her gifts shows that you are not secured. 5.Buying her gifts also mean that you don't worth her & thus you need gifts to keep her dating/loving you or whatever. NOTE: I'M NOT SAYING YOU SHOULD BUY NO GIFT BUT LET IT HAVE A REASON LIKE HER BIRTHDAY E.T.C OR OCCASIONALLY AS A SURPRISE!!! What you need to do is not buy her gifts especially now that she requested for it but later you can buy it, making sure its something you can afford & not something you wouldn't be able to eat for days after buying. I hope she would buy you gifts as well but beware because when Nigerian ladies buy you an handkerchief they want a car in return ooo. My girlfriend went to florida for this summer, she said she bought me a T-shirt and aome other stuffs for xmas so she will be expecting her own gifts too & i promised to give her something more expensive than she's giving me which i'll actualy do. And the expensive thing i'm giving to her is a kiss 'because not just any lady can get it & thus its damn expensive. She wouldn't breakup with me for it & infact she will love me. My girlfriend do entertain me with chocolates givien to her by some other guys who do not worth her & thus they need chocolate to get her approval. REMEMBER THE ADAGE THAT A MOTHER USES 20YEARS TO TRAIN HIS SON BUT A LADY MAKES HIM FOOLISH IN A DAY |
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Radiant (f)
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Uncle haywhy, sorry but I disagree with you opinion.
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haywhy (m)
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Aunty Radiant, you can't understand because you are a lady. The question should be what do ladies respond to & not what they want. Don't u notice that guys who buy gifts are seeking ladies approval & that's what you ladies want but unfortunately you don't treat such guys accordingly. Gifts should be bought but for reasons & as occasional surprises.
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donmayor (m)
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It is true that naija girls are greedy and vampires, but it is also true that u shuld show u care by getting a girl gifts. When a girl begins to treat u as if you're her father, asking u for pocket money and recharge card moni and rent moni, then the chance she is a nigerian is 90%. In this age when women are becoming independent, poverty has made many naija girls money hungry.Yahoo boys have worsened it self.Dats y a billboard in Ikeja says,"let's face it, the guy you're dating is a thief, advance fee fraud is his job" They know say na naija woman they make honest guy thief. If u know say the girl dey complain say u no show u care and u wan buy am gift; if na tapping girl, just buy am expensive electronic gadget, if na the other way, i know say u no go even bother ask the question what gift u go buy.
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kokoletz (m)
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Hmmmmmmmmmmm, I dey learn
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Radiant (f)
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Aunty Radiant, you can't understand because you are a lady. The question should be what do ladies respond to & not what they want. Don't u notice that guys who buy gifts are seeking ladies approval & that's what you ladies want but unfortunately you don't treat such guys accordingly. Gifts should be bought but for reasons & as occasional surprises.
Actually he asked what kind of gifts do we girls appreciate? May I remind you that the guy already got his girl next to him. He ain't stalking her. She just complains he's doesn't care and it's a common complaint amongst partners. We all love attention and to be spoilt with gifts. It's not only girls, GUYS TOO. May be the guy isn't the type that likes to buy gifts every now n then but he's beginning to realise that Love GivesAbout treating guys accordingly, I am one of them ones that spoil their man, Don't know about your girl.  |
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kiki (f)
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@haywhy
i so disagree with u, trust me when girls get with their friendz all they talk about is their boyfriend and what he gave them and if your girl ain't got nothing to say about what u gave her oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo u know what is comin next. a little gift shows how much u care and think about her
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ajibey (m)
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Kiki; how was your day. You left just like that yesterday. Anyway i've noticed girls you over pamper are the ones that normally Fuck up
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kiki (f)
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hey girl sorry bout that i was on d phone and well what u mean over pampered?
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Radiant (f)
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whether you pamper or not, if they want to fup, they will. It applies to both sexes neway.  Please leave that pamper issue aside. It ain't a negative factor. |
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ajibey (m)
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I'm a guy not a girl. Some ladies when u give them all the attention and you give all the gift, they tend to take you for a ride if the usual scorning and harassing is not there
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aloib (f)
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the heck is this??/ so i tell u u don't care bout me, next thn is gift buying, wth, thats crazy, what she needs is your attention, be there for her, show her u care, call her often, spend more time wid her, show her off to your friends, try and know her whereabouts, sha when a guy does all this then i know he cares, learn her period cycle, stuffs like that, which one is gift, that doesnt mean u care abeg
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Radiant (f)
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Aloib, I agree with you but gifts too follow oooo. Imagine if the guy doesn't buy you any gift on your birthday(and normally doesn't) but kisses you from head to toe, will you doubt his love and care for u or not???
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ajibey (m)
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@aloib
I feel you and u are looking at it from a matured angle kind of reasoning which is what some sisters out there don't know. Abeg you be woman tell the sisters out there to flee from guys that lay hands on there woman
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ajibey (m)
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when i mean lay hands on there woman i mean the guys wey dey beat woman; i actually refer to them as beast.
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Radiant (f)
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Ajibey sorry to say but you're totally off point now. Seun go soon ban you  |
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ajibey (m)
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I don't agree i'm off point. It was just a continuation from the previou i posted. Okay look at it like this; a guy trys to show you he loves you and cares for you, he buys all the gift for you, shows some attention and at the end of the day beats you up
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Radiant (f)
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Beat ke? D guy chop crase? Except he wasn't born by a proper woman. |
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kiki (f)
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well gift ain't got to be everything but u need to giver gifts too that shows u remember her in your thoughts
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segun111 (m)
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Women love suprises period,
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kiki (f)
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i know i do |
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kiki (f)
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anything expensive |
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segun111 (m)
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Geeeeeezzz, you are spoiled, do you know that?
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ajibey (m)
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Kiki
Anything expensive like what?
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