Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?

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nike4luv (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #32 on: October 26, 2005, 01:30 AM »

that is nasty
hot-angel (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #33 on: October 26, 2005, 03:12 AM »

hmmm.. *passes by*
adesodgi (m)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #34 on: October 26, 2005, 10:49 AM »

this question is quite plain,Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?,y not when i was in boarding school,i do sleep miya room mate on a bed because thats all we had to sleep on,but i do like I'm not love.....to sleep is quite different from to have sex,note that...
whiteshark (m)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #35 on: October 26, 2005, 09:40 PM »

we we say sleep we all know what we are talking about or do u want me to spell it out???

Anyhow sha, most people will do just that for reasons that differ. We will have to change history for this sort of thing to stop
snazzydawn (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #36 on: November 20, 2005, 09:47 PM »

Hope I can say this without being crucified.I have done it with a guy I never felt a thing for.Yea yea,he is a hunk and all that stuff,but heck,no feelings involved.The guy is like all over me now and meeeeeen,I don't like him at allllll.I wouldn't do it again though.Ciao!!!(I think the gals in this land should try to be more open).
goodguy (m)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #37 on: November 20, 2005, 10:22 PM »

Why not?? I can do it. It's not such a big deal. Cool (But i really won't do it. Wink)
aqua (m)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #38 on: November 21, 2005, 01:15 AM »

What is all this rubbish guys are saying that they can't sleep with a person they don' love. U and i know for most guys it is untrue. We guys will naturally jump at anything in skirt. To further ring home my point are guys I'm love with the prostitutes they sleep with. ;-)
icingbaby (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #39 on: November 22, 2005, 03:03 AM »

don't love him i will not sleep with him. to the men it's not down gradeing but to the women it is to sleep with some you don't love.
whiteshark (m)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #40 on: November 22, 2005, 01:38 PM »

Aqua make u yarn ur own ohh. I know u r seriously into the Opio market but make u know say nor be all man dey do that kind of thing. Like I have said before, if we decide to discuss this matter, time will hold still and many known or accepted facts will change so tis better we leave this market 4 d traders...... Grin Grin Grin

But in truth, many of us do these things. I for one cannot count the number of female friends that have graced by bed over the years but nor be all of them I like sef talk less of love and I believe this applies to most if not all male species in the land... Bottom line is compactability.. If u feel good, safe and secured with the individual (speaking from a male pespective) go right ahead but my advice to all is this, NO PROSTITUTES.... there are enough girls out there to go round 3 to 1 so chase them skirts, don pay 4 sex.
goodguy (m)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #41 on: November 22, 2005, 08:41 PM »

Quote from: whiteshark on November 22, 2005, 01:38 PM
I for one cannot count the number of female friends that have graced by bed over the years
I respect you oo Roll Eyes
PaypalGod (m)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #42 on: November 25, 2005, 09:40 PM »

Absolutely yes... Unless you are a pathetic liar.
prettyH (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #43 on: November 27, 2005, 01:13 AM »

 Cheesy comments reserved Wink
wildcat (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #44 on: December 19, 2005, 07:45 PM »

don't see anything wrong as long as they're consenting adults. Hey no problem
prettyH (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #45 on: December 19, 2005, 10:34 PM »

Quote from: wildcat on December 19, 2005, 07:45 PM
don't see anything wrong as long as they're consenting adults. Hey no problem

Nothin wrong *shakes head and sighs*
wildcat (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #46 on: December 20, 2005, 01:33 AM »

you like your coffee black, Ilike mines with ots of sugar and plenty cream.different strokes for different folks hun.
whiteshark (m)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #47 on: December 20, 2005, 02:35 PM »

Quote from: wildcat on December 20, 2005, 01:33 AM
you like your coffee black, Ilike mines with ots of sugar and plenty cream.different strokes for different folks hun.

meaning???
theORAKU (m)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #48 on: December 20, 2005, 05:51 PM »

why not?

most of the sleepings has been on "no-strings-attached-basis".

She wants it but needs convincing. i do that and @#$%.

The important thing is she wants it.

As for those guys pretending, na u know oo.
eveseh (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #49 on: April 30, 2006, 11:38 AM »

no i wont,
wasty (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #50 on: August 08, 2006, 02:10 AM »

i will never do that
Izzo (m)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #51 on: August 09, 2006, 04:12 AM »

To some guys love doesn't count as long as it's the same "thingy" they're going to be inserting the d*ck into. As, for me why not cause you get the same pleasure from it in some way. Grin Grin
theORAKU (m)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #52 on: August 09, 2006, 05:10 PM »

Am suprised almost all the guys on this thread are acting saintly.

ok, keep it up.
Memunah (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #53 on: August 09, 2006, 06:27 PM »

well you can sleep with someone you don't love that is (casual sex) but its doesnt flow well if u don't ve the right feelings for the person.it will only look like a "do and leave thing"but its not right Cheesy Cheesy
glodave (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #54 on: August 17, 2006, 04:29 PM »

why not! you can sleep with someone you don't love (casual Sex, or sex mates) but you can only make love to someone you love
alabiyemmy (m)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #55 on: March 17, 2007, 10:45 PM »

na wa o - na everybody wey u sleep with u don love?
Omo Eko (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #56 on: March 17, 2007, 10:49 PM »

What kind of question is this Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked, Most people sleep with someone they don't love. do u think most boyfriend/girlfriends love each other before sex oh hell no.
People do it for fun, they love sex.
DIAMONDAY (m)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #57 on: May 07, 2008, 04:56 PM »

most of the gurls saying NO,  they are only trying to cover their iniquities,  The bible says "he who covers his iniquities will not prosper",   no de lie again i beg,  most of em have done it before,

as for me oo,  i might love after the sex,  but it has never happened to me before,
vivaladiva (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #58 on: May 07, 2008, 09:13 PM »

why do people always have to rope sex and love together
what is wrong with a good old SHAG with a nice big privates
NubianQ (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #59 on: May 07, 2008, 09:17 PM »

why not if he has a Big Willy,  i will,  no biggy, infact i will over sleep sef Grin,

Heloooooo why not? are they giving out awards for sleeping with people u love ?so if u sleep with someone u don't care about whats the Big deal, just obey the 3 F rules

FIND THEM, F**K THEM, FORGET THEM
vivaladiva (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #60 on: May 07, 2008, 09:18 PM »

mackaycee u dey lie, ur just tryin to be cool with girls
what the F has love got to do with sex
baby4ever
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #61 on: May 08, 2008, 10:49 AM »

Hi everyone i thought this is a mature a sensible people's forum but most time i feel disappointed in you lot.
What has love got to do with sex? sex can occur between 2sex base on the the way they see each other as at that moment. e.g you can have sex with you best friend if your emotionally down and he is the only person around to console you ;you can have sex with someone you list wanted is the situation call for it do women that have sex with their husbands brother do they love the husbands brother No but sircumstances call for thing sometimes. For example me I've had sex with someone l list wanted to but l could not help it not because I'm a sex Frick or sex starve but because of situation beyond my controle and l hated myself for it  my current boyfriend l had sex with him because l need sex and moreover my fiance left me for another woman, l needed to put him and his memories be hide me so l felt having sex with another man can help as at when l had sex with my current boyfriend l didn't love him  hut like him as a friend So.
Love is not a day thing is something that grows every single day so ladies if a man tells you he love you watch your back he's up to some thing funny, Some are genuine no disput
If your drunk as a man and you have your friend with you and at night you think she's your girlfriend and you had sex with her will you kill yourself when you realise it? Que. for the men in Nairaland to Ans.
vivaladiva (f)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #62 on: May 08, 2008, 05:39 PM »

baby 4 ever make u dey leave story for tortise ABEG NO LONG THING
Tattooboy (m)
Re: Can You Sleep With Someone You Don't Love?
« #63 on: May 08, 2008, 06:48 PM »

@topic
why won't i as long as my condom is on me, free gift from da lord Cheesy
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