Boy In Nigeria Wants Me To Be His Girlfriend

It's not that serious!! you could have atleast used one 'e' and one 's'. . .

  be nice

What do you have to lose? See how long your relationship can hold before you make any commitment but if I am in your shoes I will do my best to understand how I feel before proceeding futher especially since you are far apart.

thanks to y'all

babe be careful in making ur decisions.

Follow ur head and not ur heart

Follow your head and your heart!

It's easy! Do u like him or not? If yes go ahead and give a test if he is genue or realy being selfish

Holygirl I've told u please follow ur heart and nt ur head.

hehehehehe   una don come again o!
Holygal, have you got aliens all around you that you can't date someone closer to you? You barely know this guy and please don't say u getting to know each other on the phone and yahoo!mesng 
You may like this guy but honestly, you don't know him well enough to jump into anything serious. What will you do when you need comfort, sex, kiss? You'll wait until you see him or you cheat on him but still maintain the r/ship with him? It can't work girl honestly, except he's planning to come over to where you are or you go and join him back home? 

Neway, make sure you've got no wool in your face 

nah d boy just want an American gurl who go bring him come America

The boy may honestly like you, treat him as you will treat anyother person. A subordinate in my former office actually met an american black lady like that and with true and total love full of commitment and passion, they are happily married now, the lady initially felt the way you left, but she was later convinced that it was a true love, the guy convinced her beyond reasonable doubt that he loves her, they live like brother and sister, their home is filled of love and affection. One thing you should know is that a committed african man is more caring than his american counterpart we have a rich culture that put smile on women, mind you I said a committed african man. I strongly advice that if you see that committment in him and he meets up your standard and you like him please go ahead. God bless both of u

I Will like to know from who he has your number.
if you do not what him again (and i think it is for the best) Tell him some funny lie like you are having problems with your bank because you signed a guarantee for someone who did not pay. bla bla bla or that you just lost your job.
Or get your self a new number.
I just think it is a free ticket to the land of milk and honey.
I mean love dose not happen like that.

Thats just it. She will do the length  going fighting her family and the immigrations.
Spending all her Money to bring him in.
No one should give be any crap of loving me  from just seeing me once,
Anyway maybe some of us should  copy some of the love  letters we get  from boys here. Boys that we do not even know

Why are we  so overflocking this issue? So a man cannot  have a feeling for someone who is overseas? But a woman can love a man who is overseas.  How often do you hear girls in diaspora  talk about  marrying  someone who is in Naija? I know what we want, all-ready made product? Its not going to happen. We believe that  we are better than everyone in Naija.

I also notice that men are more  victim of this than females, just  that some of us are so much obsessed with living in diaspora. My friends  brought their fiancees from Naija and got dumped, they did not die, one in particular let her boyfriend  in naija impregnant her before leaving Naija and finally brought him over.

Bottom line,  the young can be genuine, so  give it  a try and u  stand nothing to lose, besides most naija  guys in diaspora are more concerned with hitting big than settling for a life partner. Marriage in the west, is becoming unattractive to most young men.

Good luck