I would like to address a couple of things that this guy says here. This man is ignorant about True Christianity. That is why he is saying the things he is.
He talks about Sex and the Guilt Cycle. I know many haven't bothered to watch the video so I'll explain his argument briefly. He says that religion works by making you feel guilty about a natural impulse such as sex which you cannot help but do. When you do it you feel guilty so you have to come to church to get forgiveness and feel clean again, but then because sex is such a natural impulse you will go out and commit the sin again which means that you'll have to come back to church again for forgiveness and so the cycle goes around and around.
In 1st corinthians chapter 7 Paul says this:
5 Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Christianity doesn't tell anybody not to have sex. If you want to have sex find a wife and you and her can knack each other to your hearts content. Yet it is part of christian practice to abstain from sex for a while. Why?
There are specific spiritual and physiological benefits to be gained from abstaining from sex. This is something you don't have to take my word for you can experiment with it in your own time. Try abstaining for a month (get your wife permission first sha, and be diplomatic so she doesn't think you're having an affair). It will help if you accompany this practice with a regime of physical exercise.
Within a week see how you feel when you are doing the push ups. Do you feel much more power in your arms? Boxers and other athletes often abstain from sex for a while before a fight or a competition. Why? The 'sexual energy' gets sublimated after a while and transforms into other forms of energy including an increase of physical strength.
Then observe what happens to your imagination. Do you get stronger visual images? Like your imagination becomes so intense it is almost like sensory perception the way it feels so real. It might even happen for you that the images might be precognitive. You see things before they happen. eg you might know that there is about to be a knock on the door and you'll know who it'll be.
I'm not guaranteeing that that will happen but it might.
Also the feelings of horniness that you usually feel around your loins will start to spread so that you are feeling sexy all over your body. It feels like a fluid that starts to move around your body. When you yawn or stretch you feel it more, almost like you're having mini orgasms in your arms and down your spine.
Please do not take my word for any of this. You can try it out yourself at home. There is a lot more to sex than that guy in the video realises. There is also a spiritual dimension to it.
That is not to say though that some religious groups can't also use sex as a means of manipulating people. It has been done for centuries but that does not mean that that is the basis of christianity's concern with Sex.